Why is it at our age and with our experience so many of us still tend to minimize ourselves?  In this episode of Life after Kids, we’re discussing the importance of focusing on our strengths rather than weaknesses.Key Takeaways:Focusing on strengths and talents leads to greater happiness and fulfillment.Comparing ourselves to others and focusing on weaknesses can hinder personal growth.Understanding and embracing our own strengths allows us to appreciate and support others.Don’t minimize yourself to make others feel more comfortable.Stepping into our strengths and realizing our potential can be the scariest of all our fears.As our kids grow up and we search for more meaning and purpose, it’s so important to nurture and develop strengths instead of constantly trying to improve weaknesses.  Making this behavioral shift will save you time and energy.  You’re also likely to be far happier if you make a habit of living life from your strengths. Learn more by listening to this week’s episode of Life after Kids in its entirety. To shop the marriage book Dr. Lynne mentioned in the podcast, click here.Timestamp Summary | [0:00:00]  | Introduction to the topic of focusing on strengths | [0:01:23]  | Explanation of the Clifton Strengths assessment | [0:03:50]  | Importance of using assessments as growth tools | [0:05:49]  | Focus on strengths rather than weaknesses | [0:06:28]  | Reasons for not revealing bottom strengths | [0:07:41]  | Recognizing and embracing individual differences | [0:09:27]  | Importance of understanding children's strengths | [0:10:35]  | Applying the concept to other areas of life | [0:11:37]  | Focusing on strengths in education and extracurricular activities | 0:11:37  | Importance of focusing on strengths | 0:12:22  | Working on weaknesses vs. strengths | 0:13:20  | Benefits of working on strengths | 0:15:28  | Why women focus on weaknesses | 0:17:30  | Lack of confidence in ourselves | 0:17:52  | Playing the comparison game | 0:18:44  | Comfortable in minimizing ourselves | 0:19:38  | Scarcity mentality and competition | 0:21:03  | Relief in accepting others' strengths | 0:22:55  | Being comfortable with who you are | [0:22:54]  | Importance of self-love and understanding oneself | [0:23:33]  | Love others at the same level as you love yourself | [0:24:43]  | Using Gallup strength assessment to understand strengths and purpose | [0:25:43]  | Focus on positive qualities in relationships | [0:26:18]  | Coaching for couples to improve relationships | [0:27:39]  | Understanding and appreciating differences in coping mechanisms | [0:28:13]  | Women's tendency to think their way is the only way | [0:28:41]  | Request for feedback and interest in more topics on strengths | [0:29:07]  | Embrace and share your unique gifts with the world Enjoy the show, and we hope you learn a little bit more about living a fulfilling, vibrant, and meaningful Life after Kids! If you like what you hear please rate and review the podcast, hit subscribe, and pass it along to a friend. Making tomorrow even better than today, Dr. Brooke and Dr. Lynne PS... Don't forget to follow us! Instagram Facebook Tik Tok