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814: How Shaming Undermines Trust and What to Do Instead

814: How Shaming Undermines Trust and What to Do Instead

FromThe Shameless Mom Academy: Motherhood, Motivation, and Mindset Tips for Busy Moms


814: How Shaming Undermines Trust and What to Do Instead

FromThe Shameless Mom Academy: Motherhood, Motivation, and Mindset Tips for Busy Moms

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Length:
34 minutes
Released:
Oct 16, 2023
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

Shame is integrated into our society in all sorts of explicit and subtle ways. Sometimes we can see it right away and call it out. Other times, we quietly internalize it, not realizing that it’s undermining our self-worth while building up our protective armor to the point that our truest gifts can no longer shine through. 
Some of us were raised by parents who used shame as a weapon.  
Some of us have bosses who use shame as a weapon.  
Some of us have been taught, mentored, or coached by leaders who use shame as a weapon.
When we have models and mentors who use shame as a form of control, power, or manipulation, sometimes we don’t know any better than to do the same thing ourselves once we have the opportunity to yield some control or power over others.  
In this episode, we will explore how shame does the opposite of what the shamer wants it to do while breaking our spirit in the process; how shame, even subtle shame, destroys the trust and integrity of a relationship; and 5 approaches you can use instead of shame to build healthy relationships while co-creating solutions that strength rather than undermine our bonds with one another. 

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Released:
Oct 16, 2023
Format:
Podcast episode

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Sara Dean launched the Shameless Mom Academy to help moms lead more positive, powerful and purposeful lives #everydamnday. Sara is an award winning fitness professional, author, speaker, and transformation coach who spent the last 16+ years serving moms in the fields of psychology, sociology, health & wellness. But, it took becoming a mom herself in 2012 to learn that - holy cow - this is hard work, and if you’re not paying attention you can completely lose your own sense of identity while raising babies. Join Sara every Monday and Wednesday as she and her notable guests (such as Gretchen Rubin, Carrie Wilkerson, JJ Virgin, Susan Hyatt, Cathy Heller, Nichole Nordeman, Melanie Shankle, and Jadah Sellner) dig deep into topics like creating the confidence you crave; turn your struggles into strengths, building better boundaries, and tuning into tiny habits that can change your life. Discover how why thousands of moms all over the world are turning to The Shameless Mom Academy to live bigger, bolder, braver lives #everydamnday.