Sex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories 3:  TJ
 
 
Welcome to my virtual therapy room!  I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. 
 
Today is the third instalment of the sex love series.  I have invited my husband, TJ Scott is retired teamster who worked for 26 years at Omega Cinema Props, the largest privately owned prop house in the US. He is a part time percussionist and artist.  He currently works at Otford Boarding Kennels in Kent, UK.
 
I asked TJ to tell me about his background and culture.  TJ describes himself as an African American military brat and a southerner.
 
TJ spoke about his first sexual awakening at age 5 and his first experience at age 7 playing more than just doctor with a 9 year old friend of his sister’s.  He spoke about losing his virginity – twice. 
 
TJ spoke about being a bisexual man, being polyamorous and being kinky.  He spoke about a first marriage where sex was only happening if he was role playing one of his many Dungeons and Dragons characters.  When his first wife refused to have sex with him without the role play, the sex in the marriage ended.  He spoke about his second marriage where sex never really happened. 
 
TJ spoke about being in our marriage – being able to express all of his sexual sides and that he looks forward to exploring more together in the future until we are two old and wrinkly raisins in the bed telling folks to go away because we ain’t dead yet.
 
Today we spoke about masturbation, bisexuality, virginity, Baptist culture and the impact on relationships, BDSM, sexless marriages and non-monogamy.  If you were triggered or if this resonates with you, do email me. In addition to emailing me at drbisbey@the-intimacy-coach.com for more information, you can find resources on the podcast pages as part of the podcast notes.
 
Check out these podcasts and blogs for more information:
http://bit.ly/bisbi (B is for Bisexual)
http://bit.ly/2yhSppn (Sexless Relationships 1)
http://bit.ly/2fA5EaL (BDSM dating)
http://bit.ly/2vXfnhl (Virginity)
http://bit.ly/domsubteach (D/s Relationships)
http://bit.ly/polyamoryds (Polyamorous D/s Relationships)
 
You can find TJ’s art at:
https://urceleb.deviantart.com/
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