Ep 207: Alternative LIfestyles, Sex, and Relationships with Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey. Listen to my fantastic discussion with Dr. Bisbey about ethical non-monogamy relationships (ENM), the "monogamy hangover", the difference between jealousy and envy in relationships, and the reality show she was on called Open House: The Great Sex Experiment out of the UK, on channel 4. We chatted about sexual confidence and energy, how that impacts a person's entire life and relationships, and how that confidence (not arrogance) is very attractive in a person. She also shared about how to shed shame and how shame damages our lives and sex lives. We talked about consent. We also discussed how masturbation is healthy in and out of relationships, and how masturbating actually improves your libido and sex life. We talked about sex toy usage and how it's very beneficial, with recommendations of the best brands. We also talked about how porn is not addictive, but how porn can actually enrich your relationship and sex life.Find out more about Dr. Bisbey here: https://linktr.ee/drbisbey?fbclid=PAAaZP4w29NBz-TqxWjoZCIjjNmJuwMsgVjawedQBVmc_J5uwqjUJ9FEOy_bIDr Lori Beth Bisbey®Taking sex and conversations about sex from the shadows to the light@drbisbey twitter and instagramFB: drloribethbisbeyTikTok: @loribethukHttps://drloribethbisbey.presshttp://drloribethbisbey.comHttps://bit.ly/atozofsexradioBooks:Dancing the Edge to Surrender memoir (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3hCjr3y Chopping Wood, Shaping Metal, &  Other Erotic Stories https://amzn.to/3UwKKL0Sex toys mentioned in this podcast episode (affiliate links below):Lovense Bluetooth long-distance sex toys to use with a partner, remote partner, or solo https://www.lovense.com/r/bhjft9Womanizer sex toy for women https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=2190377&u=3101443&m=65394&urllink=&afftrack=Connect with podcast host Ruan Willow: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillowRuan's new audiobook and book releases:Magic In Her Kisses Lesbian erotic romance audiobook: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680FREE trial of Audible and FREE copy of audiobook https://www.audible.com/pd/B0BL1WVFNG/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-326578&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_326578_rh_usNaughty Santa Gives an Erotic Gift  audiobook https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/bb61f352-5620-11ed-845b-db69e025132dThe Licking Sip Coffee Shop audiobook https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/50158e24-5620-11ed-8eff-bb093b57c67eAudiobooks dot com https://www.audiobooks.com/browse/narrator/330514/ruan-willowhttps://amzn.to/3hCjr3ySupport the show