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Reboot: Sex Spoken Here: pervertables
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Released:
Jun 27, 2018
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Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones.
Today I am continuing my series on sex toys. So far in this series, I looked at vibrators and vibrating toys, dildos and butt plugs, and talked with Chrystal Bougon of Curvy Girl and Bliss. If you haven’t had the opportunity to listen to the first three episodes in the series, I encourage you to do so.
Today, I am talking about pervertables and other interesting toys. A pervertable is an ordinary item that can be turned to sexual or perverted purposes. Later in the show I will talk about electro-stimulation toys. The first question I usually get about pervertables is why bother? There are a few reasons:
The first is if you are not sure if you will enjoy certain types of sensation or activities, you probably don’t want to invest money in the toys or items. For example, you want to try a toy that will produce a thud type sensation, and see if you enjoy that type of pain mixed pleasure. You could go out and buy different paddles or you could go into the kitchen and get a wooden spoon or use the back of a heavy hair brush.
The second reason is that you don’t have lots of money to spend. This is the most common reason someone decides to explore pervertables and creating their own toys.
The third is the associations we form with items that we will see every day can add some excitement and on-going turn on. For example, if you have children or live with parents or roommates, you won’t keep that gorgeous flogger out and so you won’t get the thrill of seeing it regularly. But, if your lover uses a belt instead, every time you see the belt, every time they wear the belt, you will get an intense thrill. It can be like being hot-wired: You are doing something ordinary and you see the belt and suddenly you are soaked or rock hard or both.
Pervertables for sensory play and sensory deprivation play:
Sensory deprivation can increase the sensation for the senses that are still available. It also adds the extra thrill of surprise. The mildest form of sensory deprivation (and the most common) is blindfolding. Blindfolds can be made from ties, towels, shirts, belts, strips of fabric. One of the most arousing scenes I ever took part in, my lover tore off my t-shirt and cut it into strips, using one to blindfold me and the others to tie my hands to the bed posts.
Your underwear can be used as a gag.
Sensory play involves using all our senses and different types of sensation to increase excitement. Sometimes sight is removed (as many of us rely on sight as a primary sense). Alternate textures can be used to stimulate and enflame. There are tons of pervertables in the home that are ideal for this type of play.
You can use sandpaper, the edge of tweezers, a feather, a fan, the tines of a fork, leather gloves, silk gloves or fabric, a safety pin, a rubber band. Using smells is also enlightening. In this case, I recommend pleasant smells and smells that whet the appetite like vanilla, cinnamon, chocolate, musk, civet, labdanum, leather, tuberose, amber, or gardenia.
Taste is also a lot of fun to play with. I recommend using fresh fruit, chocolate, olives, lemon or lime, fresh ginger and for the truly adventurous various chilli peppers. Ginger can be used for figging which is when it is peeled and inserted in either the vagina or anus. It will cause an intense burning sensation. It shouldn’t be left in for too long. Some people also use chilli for this but I don’t recommend it because it is too hard to remove. Please make sure you aren’t allergic to anything you are going to put on or in your body.
What about pervertables for dildos? There are loads of things you can use that are insertable pervertables. Please use common sense before putting something up your coochie or ass....
Today I am continuing my series on sex toys. So far in this series, I looked at vibrators and vibrating toys, dildos and butt plugs, and talked with Chrystal Bougon of Curvy Girl and Bliss. If you haven’t had the opportunity to listen to the first three episodes in the series, I encourage you to do so.
Today, I am talking about pervertables and other interesting toys. A pervertable is an ordinary item that can be turned to sexual or perverted purposes. Later in the show I will talk about electro-stimulation toys. The first question I usually get about pervertables is why bother? There are a few reasons:
The first is if you are not sure if you will enjoy certain types of sensation or activities, you probably don’t want to invest money in the toys or items. For example, you want to try a toy that will produce a thud type sensation, and see if you enjoy that type of pain mixed pleasure. You could go out and buy different paddles or you could go into the kitchen and get a wooden spoon or use the back of a heavy hair brush.
The second reason is that you don’t have lots of money to spend. This is the most common reason someone decides to explore pervertables and creating their own toys.
The third is the associations we form with items that we will see every day can add some excitement and on-going turn on. For example, if you have children or live with parents or roommates, you won’t keep that gorgeous flogger out and so you won’t get the thrill of seeing it regularly. But, if your lover uses a belt instead, every time you see the belt, every time they wear the belt, you will get an intense thrill. It can be like being hot-wired: You are doing something ordinary and you see the belt and suddenly you are soaked or rock hard or both.
Pervertables for sensory play and sensory deprivation play:
Sensory deprivation can increase the sensation for the senses that are still available. It also adds the extra thrill of surprise. The mildest form of sensory deprivation (and the most common) is blindfolding. Blindfolds can be made from ties, towels, shirts, belts, strips of fabric. One of the most arousing scenes I ever took part in, my lover tore off my t-shirt and cut it into strips, using one to blindfold me and the others to tie my hands to the bed posts.
Your underwear can be used as a gag.
Sensory play involves using all our senses and different types of sensation to increase excitement. Sometimes sight is removed (as many of us rely on sight as a primary sense). Alternate textures can be used to stimulate and enflame. There are tons of pervertables in the home that are ideal for this type of play.
You can use sandpaper, the edge of tweezers, a feather, a fan, the tines of a fork, leather gloves, silk gloves or fabric, a safety pin, a rubber band. Using smells is also enlightening. In this case, I recommend pleasant smells and smells that whet the appetite like vanilla, cinnamon, chocolate, musk, civet, labdanum, leather, tuberose, amber, or gardenia.
Taste is also a lot of fun to play with. I recommend using fresh fruit, chocolate, olives, lemon or lime, fresh ginger and for the truly adventurous various chilli peppers. Ginger can be used for figging which is when it is peeled and inserted in either the vagina or anus. It will cause an intense burning sensation. It shouldn’t be left in for too long. Some people also use chilli for this but I don’t recommend it because it is too hard to remove. Please make sure you aren’t allergic to anything you are going to put on or in your body.
What about pervertables for dildos? There are loads of things you can use that are insertable pervertables. Please use common sense before putting something up your coochie or ass....
Released:
Jun 27, 2018
Format:
Podcast episode
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