Social Anxiety

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Social Anxiety

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Social Anxiety stops people from doing what they want and creating relationships they want. Today we discuss how we can overcome the social anxiety an how we can stop fearing other people because hint **it has nothing to do with them. Show Notes: https://www.chantelallencoaching.com/?p=1694

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