Help! My Company Swiped Left!
By Jill L. Ferguson and Laura C. Browne
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WORK AND CORPORATE AMERICA CAN BE BRUTAL,especially now. Help! My Company Swiped Left! provides a reality-check-correcting our sometimes delusional expectations on life and work-while offering hope and inspiration to anyone who has left a job-through their own accord or through being fired or laid off. Using dating and relationships as a metapho
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Help! My Company Swiped Left! - Jill L. Ferguson
Help!
My Company
Swiped Left!
Jill L. Ferguson
&
Laura C. Browne
In Your Face Ink LLC
© 2023 In Your Face Ink LLC and Jill L. Ferguson and Laura C. Browne
All rights reserved, including the right to reproduce this book or portions thereof in any form whatsoever.
Interior Design and Cover Design by Rick Schank, Purple Couch Creative
Manufactured in the United States
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data has been applied for.
ISBN: 978-0-9765659-5-6 (hardback)
ISBN: 978-0-9765659-7-0 (paperback)
ISBN: 978-0-9765659-8-7 (ebook)
Table of Contents
My Company Dumped Me…
Now What?
How To Recover From the Breakup
Don’t Go Into Armadillo Mode
Come Out of Your Shell and Turning Leaving Into Learning
How To Get Back Out There
Interviews: How to Shine Bright Like a Diamond
How to Know When You Should Swipe Right
Create the Work Relationship
of Your Dreams
You Can Do It!
Thank you
The Authors
Chapter 1
My Company Dumped Me…
Now What?
Welcome to this book. If the title made you laugh or cringe or coil in fear, you may be in the right place. We live in a time when companies, like people, aren’t very loyal. They expect a lot from those who receive their direct deposited paychecks, and at the first sign of trouble, they may look for people and places to cut. Just as some people flee relationships at the first bit of rockiness, companies may dump individual contributors, whole departments or divisions, and/or the bottom percentage of its salesforce at any given time.
And when your company breaks up with you, it hurts. It hurts a lot. And you may wonder, was it me? Or was it them?
We’re here to help you navigate through the unknown and the difficult times. And why, you may wonder. Well, we’ve been there. Laura has spent many years in corporate human resources and was let go unexpectedly twice, including one time when she was laid off by a manager who left her a brief voicemail saying her job was eliminated and that was her last day. This was only slightly better than being broken up with over text or social media. But it still stung. Rejection of any kind is painful. And somehow when the person dumping you lacks the cojones to tell you to your face, the rejection feels worse. It’s like you aren’t important enough for them to make the time.
Jill’s experience came in her 20s, during a high level job that ended when it was discovered that the past executive stole and laundered money through the organization and created such a complicated mess that the nonprofit was forced to close its doors forever. The ex-exec was sent to federal prison in Texas, while the people she left behind at the company were out of their jobs.
Regardless of how it happens to you or under what circumstances, suddenly losing your job sucks. It makes you question life, what you could have done differently, your value as a worker and a person of knowledge and action, and sometimes even your worth.
Having your company swipe left can invoke a serious pity party. But before we break out too many Kleenex, pints of ice cream, or drink too much wine or hard seltzer, let’s figure out a way to make the best of a shitty situation.
Take a deep, cleansing breath. Repeat: it’s those mo-fos and not me. It’s those mo-fos and not me. It’s those mo-fos and not me. And read on.
OMG I’m in Shock
What happened to you? Did you get called in to your manager’s office expecting a routine meeting only to find out that your job was being eliminated? Or worse, did your boss ask to talk to you and you thought you were finally getting that bonus or raise for the kick-ass job you’ve been doing, only to find HR in the room, raining on your party and saying you were being let go? Or maybe you were summoned to an all-hands meeting and everyone in the room and/or on the video screen was told at the same time that your jobs were gone? That’s one time where a room full of people feels lonely AF.
Whatever way you got the news, it seriously sucks. You may feel like your insides have been ripped out. You may find it difficult to breathe. And you may question yourself. You may wonder how you are going to pay for that new car or house or big ticket item you just bought. And you may be panicked about how quickly you can find another job. We get it. Especially when Bankrate and other media report that forty percent of Americans don’t have enough in savings to cover a large unexpected expense of $1000 or more. If that’s you, your chest may be feeling tight and your head may be spinning. But don’t let despair set in.
Take a deep breath. Hold that air in like oxygen is your lifeline, because, well, it is. And then blow it out through your mouth with all of your might. Flare those nostrils and breathe in deeply. Expand your chest and fill it with air. Hold it for the count of five, and then swoosh that stale air out. And do it again if you have to until you feel your sadness and anger subside a bit.
And now let’s deal with the shock.
When you got the bad news, your head may have started spinning and the rest of the meeting may have been a blur. You may feel like you’ve sunken like the Titanic. And maybe you can’t imagine that it will get better. But it will. Trust us on this.
We get why you may be in shock. Even if you knew that companies were tightening up and maybe letting people go, you probably thought that was other companies and other people, not you. You’d been doing a good job and thought the company was doing well. Or even if you thought your company was struggling, you certainly didn’t think it would affect you like this. So shock (and sadness and anger and rage) are to be expected.
Acknowledge your feelings. Say hey, sadness, I feel you. Anger, of