Finding True Love: A Guidebook to Attract Healthy, Loving and Reciprocal Relationships

By Bevin Niemann-Cortez

Have you given up on true love? I did too, for a long time. After participating in multiple codependent relationships, I developed two self-limiting beliefs:

1. I thought my 'people-picker' was broken. As a highly sensitive person, I was certain the love frequency my radar tuned to was on the wrong channel. I wasn't sure I could recognize a healthy, loving and reciprocal relationship if it feel out of the sky.

 

2. No one out there could truly understand and accept who I am, both my gifts and challenges. My strong intuition, extrasensory perception, the weird and unexplained experiences. Then there's my emotional and mental intensity. After briefly getting to know me, I visualized them running away lickety-split!

 

If you're tired of repeating the same painful love cycles, this book is for you. I help you identify the root causes of dysfunction to transform your friendships, family dynamics, romantic relationships, even connections with work colleagues. I provide a 12 step process for leaving a toxic relationship and returning to wholeness in the aftermath. I address core wounds that might be causing you to trauma-bond with others. And at the end, you'll know exactly how to tell the difference between 18 key relationship 'red flags' and 'green flags'.

 

You are NOT meant to be isolated and lonely. You CAN find and maintain healthy relationships, make yourself a priority, and connect with people who are also doing inner + outer personal growth work. Your people-picker isn't broken. You simply need tools that your early caregivers or relationship counterparts didn't know how to provide.

 

You have an immense capacity for love. All that's required is the desire to replace your frayed energetic 'cord' with a new one. You'll resonate with the right outlet to match your unique energetic signal. When you plug in together, everything lights up safely and beautifully. 

 

You'll shine just as you were always meant to...

• Language: English
• Publisher: Bevin Niemann-Cortez
• Release date: Jul 19, 2023
• ISBN: 9798223978107

Bevin Niemann-Cortez

Bevin Niemann-Cortez has joyfully mentored tens of thousands of sensitive people for the past decade. She runs the Circle of Empath Leaders global community and is 3-time host of The Shift Network’s Evolved Empath Summit, reaching sensitives from 105 countries with the message that our way of being is not only normal, but we are the leading edge of human evolution! She lives with her husband (Juan) and fast as lightning cat (Fletcha) in a traditional Mexican neighborhood in Chihuahua City. Original land of Tarahumara and Apache First Peoples. Bevin’s writing has been featured in Thrive Global, Authority Magazine, Highly Sensitive Living, Spiritual Biz Magazine, Mind Body Spirit Network, and The Ascent. Subscribe to her weekly sensitivity newsletter, Vibe Check at www.PerceptiveSouls.com

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Have You Given up on Love?

I did too, for a long time. After participating in multiple codependent relationships, I developed two self-limiting beliefs:

I thought my 'people-picker' was broken. As an empath, the love frequency my radar was tuned into was the wrong channel. I wasn't sure I even knew how to recognize a healthy, loving and reciprocal relationship if I came across it.

No one out there could truly understand and accept who I am, both my gifts and my challenges. My strong intuition, extrasensory perception, the weird and unexplained experiences I often have. And then there's my mental and emotional intensity. After briefly getting to know me, I visualized them running away lickety-split!

Then I realized I needed to go back to the beginning. Seek out the root causes of dysfunctional relationship patterns to transform my love reality. Understandably, I was nervous, what would I face about my childhood? What would I need to know about the roles I played in past relationships?

Along the way, I uncovered subconscious messages I'd internalized as a child and released a negative pattern running through four generations of my family. The inner work was deep, and honestly, painful at times. But the more I excavated and uncovered the mummified remains of what I thought were failed relationships, the lighter I became. I saw it all through a new lens and I saw myself in a totally different light.

Relationships are one of the most challenging lessons you'll ever face during your life journey. However, it's the connections with others that grow us the most. If you've struggled with relationships, please know you’re not alone. 

The healing journey begins by getting clear about who you truly are, practicing loving yourself every day, and knowing the gifts you bring not only to relationships, but to the world in general. Treating yourself like your best friend, the one who will be there from your first breath as a new infant, to the last breath before you return to pure energy.

YOU are your true love.

I created this guidebook so you can heal from past relationship trauma and receive the unconditional love you deserve. If there’s one message I wish