Sexual Practices You Should Avoid Before Marriage

By Ndungu Mungai

Sexual Practices You Should Avoid Before Marriage

 

Engaging in sex before marriage is common in many parts of our modern world. Most young men and women start having sex at a very young age. And most youths have slept with dozens of members of the opposite sex by the time they decide to settle down with a single man or woman.

But can sexually active young men and women expect to have successful marriages with persons they finally decide to be their life partners? Can a person who has had sex with several men or women of all ages, colors, and sizes enjoy life with his or her future spouse?
    
We may also ask: can men and women who practice masturbation, oral sex, or use artificial sex products like vibrators, dildos, penis sleeves, and vacuum erection pumps expect a sexually fulfilling relationship with their future husbands or wives? Will they be able to abandon sex objects they have for years depended upon for sexual pleasure and choose to have their sexual needs satisfied only by their mates and using the natural method of sexual intercourse?

And what about men and women who are used to selling their bodies for monetary gains or material possessions? Can they eventually enjoy living with a single partner who does not pay them for sex in cash or kind and uses their body the way they wish?
   
This book, Sexual Practices You Should Avoid Before Marriage, seek to answer those questions and more, including whether an individual who is used to having anal or same-sex with other people can successfully live with a spouse who tends to hate that kind of sexual activity and is only interested in heterosexual intimacy. In short, can a homosexual man or lesbian lady have a healthy relationship with a future heterosexually-inclined member of the opposite sex?
 
The book describes sexual behaviors that can destroy your peace of mind, physical health, and future marriage. The author highlights some sexual practices that can instantly or gradually make you vulnerable to physical illnesses or mental health disorders that can make you unfit for life and marriage. The book is for teenagers, young adults, and middle-aged individuals who wish to develop happy, healthy, and sexually fulfilling lives and relationships.
 

 

• Language: English
• Publisher: Ndungu Mungai
• Release date: Feb 22, 2023
• ISBN: 9798215234334

Ndungu Mungai

Ndungu Mungai is a motivational speaker, social commentator, and relationships counselor based in Limuru, Kenya. He speaks and writes on issues of interest and concern to the human family, particularly love, courtship, marriage, parenting, religion, and sex. He started his preaching and counseling ministry in 1988 and has addressed several youth meetings and couples' seminars. He has been a guest speaker in countless church services, annual conventions, weekly meetings, and Bible study seminars. He has also addressed many public and private functions, including wedding ceremonies, family events, group meetings, community gatherings, and funeral services. He has also been invited to several educational institutions to talk with students or parents or address special parents/students/teachers' meetings or get-together events. He has in the past decade published thousands of articles on social media platforms that have been read and shared by millions of people around the world. His Facebook page, Relationships Counselor, reaches thousands of people every week with posts helpful to men and women of all ages and backgrounds.

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Introduction

Casual Sex Hurts More People Than Before

Our modern world believes it is not wrong to engage in casual sexual relations regardless of whether a person is married or not. But unknown to many people is that casual sex has side effects capable of damaging normal functions of the body, mind, and soul. Also not known is that premarital sex can destroy a future marriage.

History shows it is in the 20th and 21st centuries when sex outside marriage has been glorified, condoned, and indulged in by many people. Sad to say, it is in those centuries when more men and women have had their bodies, minds, and souls damaged by casual sexual affairs than at any other time in the world. The mental, physical, and sexual health of many men and women tend to have been damaged by the effects of casual sexual practices.

Casual sex has left more people with sexual diseases than ever before. Premarital and extramarital affairs have left more people killed by their partners and ex-lovers than in previous centuries. Illicit sex has broken marriages and families more than in the past centuries.

Millions, or billions, of people in North America, Central America, South America, the British Isles, Continental Europe, New Zealand, Australia, sub-Saharan Africa, the Pacific, the Caribbean, and Asia have had their lives affected by premarital and extramarital sex. Most victims of casual sex currently reside in the United Kingdom, Germany, the Netherlands, the Czech Republic, Australia, the United States, France, Turkey, Mexico, and Canada, which ranked high in the 2022 promiscuity index survey. It is, however, doubtful that our beloved planet has communities that have not faced the destructive effects of promiscuous sex.

Chapter 1