SEX: The Sweetest Thing Ever

By John Daniels

Dear reader, I quite understand that your appetite is already whetting because I said that “SEX: is The Sweetest Thing Ever”. Of course, Yes! It is. It is the most wonderful experience that is a fundamental part of our being. This book will expose you to the opposing views of men and women about sex. It will make you who actually originated sex. What the initial intent of the Originator was. It will teach you the debasing kinds of sex life to avoid. It will as well expose you to the unnatural kinds of sex people indulge in today. The book will also sensitize you further on the emotional and spiritual bonds that are associated with having sex. And the mind-boggling question that this book also provides the answer for are; the barricades that frustrate sex in both men and women. You will also learn how to arouse your partner in this book. Finally, it will be unfair of me to conclude this book without showing you how to enjoy the sweetest sex that will make your sexual orgies, desires, and fantasies accomplished. And I believe as you know these hidden secrets for yourself, you will have the most fulfilling sex life devoid of all forms of regret or guilt feeling.

• Language: English
• Publisher: John Daniels
• Release date: May 22, 2021
• ISBN: 9781005741648

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Dedication

Idedicate this book to my Mom and Dad, and my beloved friend Hephzibah, for their unrelenting support and prayers. And to all men and women who desire a more fulfilling sexual life.

CONTENTS

Dedication

Preface

Sex Differences In Humans

Sex Origin

Sex Myth

Unnatural Sexual Acts

Debasing Sexual Acts

Sex Secrets

Barricades That Frustrate Sex In Men

Barricades That Frustrate Sex In Women

Arousing A Woman

Arousing A Man

Enjoying The Sweetest Sex

Total LiberationFromWrong Sex Ties

Postscript

References

Preface

There is no doubt that all living things originated from a source. And the source that unifies us all is sex. The only human being that history proved that they were not a product of sex was Adam and Eve and probably the first species of living things created at the beginning of God’s creation. But afterwards, none came into existence without first initiating sex. I term sex as the Sweetest Enjoyable X-perience in the world.

I believe you reader going through this book right now is also a product of this wonderful and sweet experience – sex. Of course, I am quite aware of the advancement in medical research as regards to human reproduction. There are babies born through artificial insemination (A.I), embryonic transfer (E.T), in-vitro fertilization and even cloning. But the fact still remain that the raw products of sex (sperm in men and ovaries in women) are both needed for these reproductive alternatives to come into fruition. Save for clone which only requires a human cell to replicate; even that does not mean that the resultant fetus will not wait for nine months as in conventional fetus carried in the womb of a woman.

I am quite opportune to be thought by four teachers in my high school days of how important and wonderful the human sexual experience is. I thank God for using those teachers to exposing me, though, a teenager then, to what my momma and papa was reluctant to put me through. It really helped me have a better approach to the matter of sex and how best to gratify my sexual urge without rising any dust of any kind. 

Dear reader, I quite understand that your appetite is already whetting because I said that SEX: is The Sweetest Thing Ever. Of course, Yes! It is. It is the most wonderful experience that is a fundamental part of our being. This book will expose you to the opposing views of men and women about sex. It will make you who actually originated sex. What the initial intent of the Originator was. It will teach you the debasing kinds of sex life to avoid. It will as well expose you to the unnatural kinds of sex people indulge in today. The book will also sensitize you further on the emotional and spiritual bonds that are associated with having sex. And the mind-boggling question that this book also provides the answer for are; the barricades that frustrate sex in both men and women. You will also learn how to arouse your partner in this book. Finally, it will be unfair of me to conclude this book without showing you how to enjoy the sweetest sex that will make your sexual orgies, desires, and fantasies accomplished. And I believe as you know these hidden secrets for yourself, you will have the most fulfilling sex life devoid of all forms of regret or guilt feeling.

I trust I have aroused your curiosity enough. Now, let us go straight into unraveling this wonderful gift of sex between a man and a woman.

Sex Differences In Humans

Every couple must have an idea of what makes a good relationship, and what makes a bad one. There are gains and pains involved in marital relationships; it all depends on the level of sexual intimacy. As it is generally believed among marriage counselors, most lingering and hard to resolve marriage disputes is usually connected to sex. So, before we can express our own view without being compelled by undue pressure from others, we need a minimum level of maturity, experience, self-esteem and self-confidence on the subject matter.

Therefore, it is very pertinent that a man/woman should choose a life partner that he/she likes and trusts. A woman's long-time goal for choosing a partner is to have a man that will help her with child(ren) upbringing.

Sexual intercourse for her is strictly in the confines of marriage. Men's sexual desire portrays their sexual attraction for women. The support and commitment his family enjoys from him is compensated for by sex.  The woman's natural response to her husband's commitment in the home-front is to release her body to him. This is how most women believe the marriage institution is to be run.

Enjoying a lifetime of sexual fulfillment in marriage will be so easy if both partners have equal zeal for sex. However, sex as a mating act, is less prioritize by women as compared to men (save for their initial curious behavior). This is because a woman is slowly aroused sexually, hence, her attention does not center much on achieving her own orgasm. In addition, she does not have a trigger that drives her in sexual activity except that the wife gets verbal motivation to concentrate on pleasing her husband. Most heterosexual men are ignorant of the fact that their sexual mindset is quite different from their wife's. Thus, they are of the assumption that what satisfies them must satisfy their wives in like manner.

As a result of this, most wives have just settled for what their husbands could offer them sexually. This opposing mindset between the man and his wife had resulted in confusions without end, combined with the fact that the man believes the woman must orgasm via such means. On the other hand, the man's active participatory role in sex is a natural result of his sexual make-up. A man loves to enjoy the sensual arousal of interacting with his wife as well as achieving sexual relief via penetration. The woman carries a passive role at initiating sex because she lacks the strong sexual derive of the man. This makes her to naturally accept her husband’s active role at demanding for sex than she would have done.

Some animals (notably birds) especially the pigeon keeps a single partner for life. However, there exist no prove that the men have remained monogamous just as the sex Originator had envisaged. So every wife must work hard in providing an enticement for her husband to be loyal. The reason is not far-fetched; a man, whose sexual appetite is constantly satisfied by his wife, will not bother himself with sexual advances from other women. Most wives today release their body to their husband because over time he had proved to be a supportive confidant and a worthy life partner. A wife’s assumed expectation for allowing her husband of regular sex is to be rewarded in return with his affection, admiration, and care for her long-term marital goals.

A strong attraction between a man and his wife; makes their sexual life effortless. That shouldn’t come as a surprise at all. This is because a man's sex energy centers him on intercourse as a stimulating action. The woman experience is quite different. She sees sex as a lovemaking act of cuddling and kissing.

Just as I will later discuss more on it, a man also longs for a woman to give him some kind of erotic response during sex. Even the man also belief that sex takes two to tango. It should be mutually done by the couple and not just the man. On the part of the woman, her husband’s undivided attention matters more to her while conversing with him. Whenever, she shares her thoughts and worries, she anticipates that her husband listens to her. As a result, the man and the woman have opposing definitions for marital intimacy and loyalty. A man desires a wife who is sexually loyal to him. A woman desires a husband who is socially loyal to her. Therefore, your wife will be unhappy with you when anything distracts you while having deep conversation with her. In like manner, your husband will feel unfulfilled during sex if you the wife is not responsive. You can clearly see that ignorance of what our partners really want from us has kept us in the web of marital frustration for years. But now you have no such excuse because the truth has been brought to your attention. 

For every rule however, there is always an exception. This applies for sex too. Few women exist today as well who have great drive for sex.These few exceptions; make it rather hard for