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Get the Summary of Kate Murphy's Youre Not Listening in 20 minutes. Please note: This is a summary & not the original book. Original book introduction: In this always illuminating and often humorous deep dive, Murphy explains why we’re not listening, what it’s doing to us, and how we can reverse the trend. She makes accessible the psychology, neuroscience, and sociology of listening while also introducing us to some of the best listeners out there (including a CIA agent, focus group moderator, bartender, radio producer, and top furniture salesman). Equal parts cultural observation, scientific exploration, and rousing call to action that's full of practical advice, You're Not Listening is to listening what Susan Cain's Quiet was to introversion. It’s time to stop talking and start listening.
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Contents
Insights from Chapter 1
Insights from Chapter 2
Insights from Chapter 3
Insights from Chapter 4
Insights from Chapter 5
Insights from Chapter 6
Insights from Chapter 7
Insights from Chapter 8
Insights from Chapter 9
Insights from Chapter 10
Insights from Chapter 11
Insights from Chapter 12
Insights from Chapter 13
Insights from Chapter 14
Insights from Chapter 15
Insights from Chapter 16
Insights from Chapter 17
Insights from Chapter 1
#1
Being a good friend, romantic partner, or parent all stems from listening.
#2
The ability to listen to anyone has been replaced by the capacity to shut out everyone, particularly those who disagree with us or don’t get to the point fast enough.
#3
Loneliness can be cured if you simply listen to others and share your thoughts and feelings with them.
#4
Loneliness is a worldwide epidemic that is affecting all age groups, genders, and races.
#5
The media and popular culture do not reinforce the benefits of listening. Instead, they reinforce the benefits of speaking.
#6
The blowhard factor is a major reason
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