The Message
By Ali Al Bader
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from God. I was ordered to refer to them altogether as the
Message. There are some short sermons included as well
and some other ideas and sayings. Enjoy and hopefully
they can touch you and change you for the better. Much
appreciated. Peace
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The Message - Ali Al Bader
Copyright © 2017 by Ali Al Bader.
ISBN: Softcover 978-1-5245-2065-6
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CONTENTS
Bullying
Judgement Day
Sermon 1
The Incident
Self Proclaim
Sermon 2
Happiness
Backbiting
Sermon 3
The Cycle
Good And Bad
Levels
Sermon 4
Potential
Sermon 5
Sorry
Sermon 6
Story
Sermon 7
Fighting
Low
Sermon 8
Grow
Sermon 9
Nation
Sermon 10
Islam For Life
Sermon 11
Alone
Sermon 12
Be Cool
School
Until I Die
My Personal Opinion Regarding Porn And Its Cure
Sacrifice
Prayer
Kick Back
Quranic Interpretation
Broken Families
Religion
Advice
Dear Lord
Advice Part 2
Warrior
Walking
Richness
Victory
Known
Character
Real Knowledge
Muslim
Iman
Expression Of Loyalty
Love
Revolutionary
Rich And Poor
Quranic Interpretation Part 2
Hatred
Judgement For All Things
Imam Ali
Shia Sunni Truth
By The Will Of Allah
All Of Us
Awe
Just In Case
Brothers And Sisters
Fear
Islam
Suicide
Allah Truth
Racist
Prophethood
Short Speech
Nations
Ghetto
Ghetto Part 2
Ghetto Part 3
Peace And War
Questions
Wrong And Right
Successership
Transactions
Soldier
Message To Isis
I’m the new personality
Islam for life mentality
One nation nationality
One heart of love and equality
One dream for good full of prodigy
One army accepting apologies
One power great to the west and east
One tower firm on calling peace
BULLYING
bullying is just a problem like many other problems in life n i say this because the solution i have is not just for bullying, but for many other things aswel..but anyway im gonna explain this solution in relation to bullying n how it will help. Heres a general scenario;
A person gets bullied and then goes home after school. Now hes really sad and broken but after a while he feels better then goes and starts watching t.v. now hes mind wud tell him go n do ur homework. if he prefers the emotional pleasure of watching t.v. over the leadership of his mind which tells him to go n do ur work then he will in turn prefer the emotional fear of getting hit or humiliated over the leadership of his mind which wud tell him to stand up for himself. following his mind in the t.v. situation will be discomforting to himself but if he does n bears patient then that pain will turn into forbearance which will make him be able to take in more and stand firm in more tougher situations and the same way he followed his mind and beared patient with the discomfort of leaving t.v. the same way he’ll follow his mind n bear patient with the discomfort of being hit or sworn at through standing up for himself.
Dont use excuses to justify ur wrong preference because that will blind you from the reality of other situations. So if you say to yourself im gonna keep watching t.v. because i have to learn about the outside world even though you are only watching because you want to then in the bullying situation your gonna subconsciously think that "i feel weak and sad because he swore at me or hit me’’ when in reality you feel weak and sad because you preferred ur feelings over your mind.
Don’t let feelings, encouragement, personal gain or circumstances be the reason to following your mind because they are temporary and unreliable and because they will turn the essence into a means to attaining the essence which will remove the leadership of the mind. The essence is following your mind because you should. If you follow the mind because of encouragements and other interferences then now the essence that pushes you to do what is right has become them and not the mind itself. And anything not backed solely by the mind itself is lead by emotion. So how can you use your emotions to fight what they themselves don’t want by following the mind. This is why people who try to do good don’t last because they feel the clashes inside themselves between right that is lead by emotion and wrong that is lead by emotion both fighting each other and contradicting themselves and this enormous feeling of burden and disgust overtakes them which leads them to leaving the whole thing.
In order to truly establish your mind leadership, you must follow it independently of how you feel or what encouragement there is or what you get after. So that whether you feel scared or not you’ll still follow it, sad or happy you’ll still follow it. And so that whether the whole world let alone your family or school discouraged you or not, you will still follow it. Whether you attained what you wanted or not, you’ll still follow it. And whether your most loved ones died or not, something bad happens to you or not, you’ll still follow it. This will make you independent of everything that happens and firm upon what you stand by without being moved.
To know whether you are solely following your mind or not is simple but bitter. While watching t.v. all your mind will tell you is go and do your work. You must feel an emptiness and emotionless message in it and you must see nothing but loss, emptiness, struggle and brokenness that is endurable in being lead by it. It wont tell you go and do your work so you can get high marks, go do your work so you can catch up with what youve missed, absolutely nothing. It will simply say go do your work or go do your chores or its time to ease from work so go and see friends. It will also surely not say go and do this or that so you can follow this mindset or this piece of knowledge im explaining either. It will simply tell you what you must do at the time and nothing else. And the battle will be between a clear simple message against all the other many thoughts from different angles and aspects lead by emotion.
Its important to acknowledge that its not doing homework, studying or working out that will make a person strong but its him preferring his mind over his strong pushy and destructive feelings that will give him the ability to do what is right. The outside things are no more than products of what the inside determines.
There are levels to attaining this mind leadership so if u cant follow it in something it doesnt mean its impossible it just means that you havent reached the level yet so work on something simpler. Theres two sides to overcoming things. overcoming the thing itself and overcoming the negative emotional effect it leaves on you. In order to overcome the thing itself you must firmly and patiently build enough control through overcoming the emotional effects. So in the case of the bullying, at first you cant jump to overcoming the bully just like that cuz it wont work. Neither can you jump to try and overcome how you feel after cuz that wont work either.
You must slowly start where you can in overcoming what these feelings lead you to doing. So for example these negative feelings lead you to sit alone in your room. When you feel like you can, leave the room, just to overcome that feeling that leads to doing that. keep in mind though that you are not doing this so you can overcome the bully bcuz if you think that then you will get scared n not leave the room at all. And even if you didnt get scared you still cant think that because this is not about the bully, this is about you doing whats right through overcoming the feelings that lead you to doing whats wrong. Because when you think about it, it wasnt the bully that made you feel that way but it was the fact that you preferred fear over whats just that lead you to allowing him to make you feel that way. Again the outside things are no more than products of what the inside truly determines.
You must be very careful with the actions you perform and words you say to yourself in order to remove negative feelings because it maybe that an action or word which seems right only strengthens the negative feelings and not reject them. This can be for two reasons. The first is that you are trying to fight something with words or actions which you havent reached the level of so it only dominates you even more. The second is that you are using the wrong words or actions to distinguish between your mind and self. For example you say to yourself i need to stay strong’’ but it triggers your emotions and not your mind so then say something like
no’’ to yourself and if that triggers then leave it and keep searching for the right words that will distinguish and if you feel like no words are working then it means that you are facing something not at your level so leave it and work on fighting its effects in the basics instead of fighting the actual thing itself until you are able to reject it totally. Do not think that words or actions will change you, it is finding what is for you at the level you are at that will and that great words or actions can be bringing you more ego, emotion domination while unnoticed and lame words or actions can be building you up.
There are certain things however, where just the thought of them popping up in your head leads you to be fully overtaken by fear and hopelessness even in the basics. No need to worry. There will definitely come times where you will have forgotten abt these things n those are the times where you build your mind control just because its right n not so that you can overcome anything or anyone.
Establishing mind control in random situations where the thought of bullying and what its negative effects have brought on you are not present will give you enough strength and confidence to fight those effects when they are but in the basics first. Where you feel like you can. This could be for example after school. Your walking all sad and broken inside. So to fight that feeling start walking up straight. then at home your mother comes n you feel the urge to tell her about what happened at school so you can gain her sympathy but you say no’’ to yourself
im not going to let this feeling be established more through me talking about it’’ And keep fighting in the basics until you feel from your own free will that you can actually start acting differently in school - so you dont throw urself on people and expect them to be your friend or you dont slack in your work or you dont say random stuff but keep ur words controlled and then slowly start attaining more self respect for yourself until eventually you’ll be able to fight off the bully.
A true Warrior is not the one who passes every test but is the one who bears patient in failure.