Untold Sexual Child Abuse Story

By Ijeoma E. Osuji

Many parents are still ignorant of the evil trend on rampagesexual child abuse. Many others believe it cant happen to them.

The stories in this book will surely get you gripped with fear and make you rethink the way to protect the child next to you. It will also serve as a guide on how you could truly know the child or ward close to you and offer the right counsel.

This for sure is not a fresh page on the issue of sex education, but the angle from which it comes is like pulling down the Berlin Wall.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Partridge Publishing Africa
• Release date: Oct 12, 2016
• ISBN: 9781482876314

Ijeoma E. Osuji

Ijeoma E. Osuji is a mother; a wife; a bold, confident lady; and a keen observer. She is an early-childhood lover. As such, she understands that patterns of self-esteem and manners start very early in life and are fostered by family, friends, and teachers into the child. Being an early-child lover, she has authored books on child development and protection that is well accepted by the public. She has featured in major television stations in Nigeria as guest speaker (NTA10 PH, Silerbird TV, RSTV22, Nigerian Info 92.3, Rydeem FM 93.7, etc.) and also featured on Mo Online German newspaper as one of the strong woman in Africa. She studied mass communication at the Institute of Journalism, Eungu. She is working on having a center for children where she would explore more on early childhood and teenage affairs and welcomes all who could help make it a reality.

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Copyright © 2016 by Ijeoma E. Osuji.

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Contents

Dedication

Acknowledgments

Foreword

Introduction

CHAPTER ONE

My Life Story

CHAPTER TWO

Parents As Contributors To Child Sexual Abuse

CHAPTER THREE

Pattern Of Seduction To Child Abuse

CHAPTER FOUR

Parents/Teacher:

As First Line Defense Against Sexual Child Abuse

CHAPTER FIVE

Basic Background Education On Sexual Abuse

CHAPTER SIX

Equipping The Child Against Sex Predators On The Prowl With Basic Protective Tools

CHAPTER SEVEN

Some Words Children Should Know Meanings Relating To Sexual Abuse

GLOSSARY (in alphabetical orders according to chapters)

DEDICATION

W ith heart full of joy, I dedicate this book to God Almighty who gave me the knowledge and strength to write.

Thank you my God for seeing me through all my stormy days and bringing me into a fulfilled life.

ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

I n life, everyone must have one thing or the other that makes one discover him/herself. So, I honestly thank my husband, Mr. Festus M. Osuji, for helping me discover myself.

I very much acknowledge my lovely lambs for being there for me:

Clinton Chimagoziem, mummy love and bless you, thank you for your love. Divine Angel Chinyeremamaka, I love you my baby for your lovely smiles and songs that keep me going. Sunshine Ugochim, I care a great deal for your true love to me and your smiles, which make me, smile. Praisefull Chibumzor, I am joyful to have you as a true friend, God bless you and Chioma Philomena Osuji, I love and care a great deal for your true love to me and your support. I thank you all my children.

I appreciate you in a special way my younger brother, Uchenna King Didia, for the word of encouragement you always give me and your prayers for me which God had answered, that He (God) had carried me this far. God bless, protect and lead you now and always.Amen.

I appreciate you so much, Mr. Bekee Anyalewechi, the editor-in-chief of The Neigbourhood Newspaper, for all you have been doing for me. You gave me the opportunity to write first in your newspaper and now, in your tight schedule, you made out time to go through this work forwarding it. Thank you very much, sir. God bless you.

I thank you in a special way Chief Gladden Ben-Wakama for making out time to edit this masterpiece. Remain blessed Sir.

Thank you Emmanuel Lucky Eze for helping to type and design this work.

I thank my very good friend, Sabina Onuoha, who stood by me all the time and gave me encouragement to go on; believing that one day this work will surely come to life. You are what a friend should be, I am grateful. God bless you.

FOREWORD

I t was my pleasure to go through this humble seminal effort coming from a mother, wife and keen observer. This for sure, is not a fresh page on the issue of sex education, but the angle from