The Espresso Shot
By Joseph Barr
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The Espresso Shot is a mixture of lifes greatest challenges and its greatest experiences. It is a self-help book that transmits the core framework of complex experiences in a manner that is easy to understand. In doing so, The Espresso Shot is a book of poems that allows the reader to move through his or her own events in a new way in an effort to bring greater understanding and awareness.
Joseph Barr
My Story The Espresso Shot came into creation as a means to heal myself. I believe finding one’s own creative outlet is a doorway to unlocking and healing oneself. This small book has been years in the making, and the timing of its finalization (2015) is a reflection of the transition in which I am making in my own life. When I graduated from University, I was lost. Looking back over the years this time period was the deepest part of my 7 year “dark night of the soul”. When I graduated from University I had no job, the job market was abysmal, my parent’s violent divorce just ended, I was learning about my codependency after a break up, I was healing from trauma through EMDR, and I had no money. Through these last 7 years, I was not always aware of this, but I have been on a quest to find myself after a traumatic childhood. I grew up in the archetypal alcoholic family. The father, an alcoholic/addict, the mother, the quintessential queen of control and denial. This is also called narcissism. It took years to realize these personalities were a reflection of their own unhealed trauma, but I can only see this through the processing of my own anger. As such, my life’s goal has been the realization of the authentic self. I began writing poetry as a way to save myself. My Aunt, a person who literally saved my life, suggested I write as a way to process and learn. As she so kindly put it, “you are looking for a savior.” I have always been keen on creativity, but it was only during these dark times could I realize its depth. Every time I wrote a poem I transmitted the lesson I needed to learn. I didn’t write consciously, all the words were processed from a deep reservoir. The only conscious actions I made were choosing to recognize when I had a poem inside of me waiting to be written. The central pains of my life revolve around shame, fear, rejection, and abuse. Through these last three years I have continually let go of these emotional issues. No matter how hard one tries you cannot run away from yourself. In other words, no matter how hard you try to be the personality born from these issues, the more one will run into them. It is one’s duty to realize the symbolic nature of our careers, relationships, homes, hobbies, habits, and trends. When these issues present themselves we often interpret things in a manner that reinforces these primal issues. We tell ourselves unconsciously that we didn’t do well enough, weren’t smart enough, or didn’t love enough. This state of dissatisfaction is synonymous with the state of constantly needing more. We must learn to interpret these situations, which are a reflection of an emotional issue, in a manner that is open to learning, and letting go. These issues act as magnets to attract situations to be able to see them consciously. In other words, attracting them into your lives is a way of waking up to the deep unconscious emotional issues we all carry. When we re-approach the issues in self-forgiveness, and compassion, we can heal and move on. This is a journey we all must take. Within the last year I chose to finally leave my family. Being connected with my family linked me with my own state of needing “more.” I climbed the administrative ladder, and I realized I yet again attracted an abusive and coercive environment. But I tell you now that there is always a way through. Climbing this ladder gave me resources to a wonderful healer through my work benefits. It was here I was shaken out of denial. We wake up when we are ready to wake up. Up to this point I had written hundreds of poems, and thousands of journal pages, each entry helping me to get to the next step. After months of therapy I met the love of my life. A central theme to my poems, and my ambitions, was to meet the one I truly love. I knew deep down that I would find this person when I found myself. With the departure from my family I was open to finally living my own life, and healing in a new way.
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