Caught in a Web of Lies

By Kairy M. Garcia

Caught in a Web of Lies is a book based on a true story. Th e
story relates a life situation of love, lies and betrayal with spiritual
insight in the midst of it.
Kurt was right when he said in his message that I was crazy for
him and loved him deeply. However, I was not mentally crazy to
allow him to hurt me any longer and continue playing his demented
game of betrayal.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: Feb 15, 2013
• ISBN: 9781479791361

Kairy M. Garcia

This journal is based on a true story of lies and betrayal with a spiritual insight in the midst of it. Kairy M. Garcia Kurt was right when he said in his message that I was crazy for him and loved him deeply. However, I was not mentally crazy to allow him to hurt me any longer and continue playing his demented game of betrayal. Based on a True Story http://caughtinaweboflies.webs.com/ [e-mail]

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Contents

Preface

Journal Entry

Interview with a Former Player

Conclusion

Farewell

Reference

Preface

First of all I would like to give thanks to God for giving me the opportunity, ability, wisdom, clarity and understanding to have written this journal entry.

Through this journal I would like to educate others of my experience through online dating and dealing with a compulsive liar. Throughout the journal I will be pointing out some red flags and lies that the other person might come up with to lure you into their trap. I hope that this journal can serve as an eye opener to many people who are been victimized by cheaters and/or liars.

I have a friend that once told me; The game is always the same the only thing that changes is the player. Edward

My inspiration on writing this journal came along when I read the words of Rick Warren on his book The Purpose Driven Life. His quote said, Experience is not what happens to you. It is what you do with what happens to you. Don’t waste your pain; use it to help others.

My experience was indeed a very painful one. Yet I have also learned many lessons from it. One of those lessons has been the opportunity

of helping others through it.

July 5, 2011

Today I had been watching a preaching from Joel Osteen. During his message he mentioned that we need to present our case to God of whatever circumstances we were going through or anything that we are in expectancy for. He also mentioned that in any case you need to back it up with evidence. In this case the promises of God. He then explained that we needed to be like a lawyer and fight for our case like if we were in a real court.

It was then when I presented my case to the Lord. Within my case I asked God to bless me in many areas of my life but especially for a partner. My defense or God’s promise within the bible was found on Genesis 2:18 which said; The Lord God said, It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him."

Each day I stand on his promises and believed that God will deliver.

July 2011-2012

During this year God spoke to me through scriptures, prophets, sermons, and friends about letting go. God was asking me to let go of my past in order to bring me what he had for my future. Specifically a man who I had deeply loved and couldn’t let go. I knew there was no going back with this man

but I kept holding on to the, what if?

Also during this time I met several men. However, it did not amount to anything. For some reason within 24hrs they would banish out of my life. I took this as a sign from God that he was watching over me and would remove any obstacle that was not in his will for me.

July 18, 2012

I had often told God that I had let go of my past. However, we cannot fool God. It wasn’t until today that I had finally felt I had let go completely. I had decided to let go and move forward to what God had for me.

For quite some time I had wanted to get a tattoo. On this day my daughter took me to a tattoo place. She wanted me to get the tattoo as a present from her. I was uncertain on what to get and began browsing. I wanted something that would have a meaning of my new decision. A new beginning! It was then when I decided to get a tattoo of a dragonfly.

In the Asian culture a dragonfly is used as a symbol

to demonstrate a new beginning.

July 19, 2012

In my continuous search for a partner I had decided to try online dating. I was a bit skeptical because it felt like window shopping. Then again if you didn’t like the qualities you could ignore it and continue to the next. Through my search I talked to many different men online who ultimately ended up in nothing for various reasons. However, there was one particular man on a much known site who intrigued me and which I found very attractive. He was African American, well built, portrayed himself as a Christian, and was looking for a Christian lady, etc. but most of all I fell in love with his great smile and hazel green eyes. Overall his profile seem somewhat realistic.

It was then when I decided to write him a few notes and

express my interest for him.

Note: Please know that I am not discriminating against online dating nor saying is bad. It might have worked for someone else but just not for me.

July 20, 2012

Throughout the day I checked my profile and went through my e-mails to see if I had gotten a response from my mystery man. In his profile he identified himself as Wolf. I was filled