Choose and Keep Your Partner Forever

By Dr. Nezar Yassin Albar

Love is a commitment of respect loyalty, tolerance, patience ,sacrifice ,support, causing no psychological, financial, moral or physical harm and is that beautiful feelings that is to stay for life.
This book is the gift I wanted to give to love. This book is about you when you feel that you are ready to start a relation with a commitment for life. It is not about short duration fun and run stuff. Being ready to start this stage of your life makes you ready to start reading in this book. If you still in a totally different stage it is nice to read in such a book to know what is it about getting into a lifelong relation .
It is right that the perfect one is not easy to find and the 100% match may be doesn't exist. For that with all the ideality you are going to see in this book you have to make your own way and your own equation to choose your future life partner. There is clear stress on specific secrets and that's why this book will at the end give you a new vision that helps to change the way you use to make your decision to a more wise and rational way but this book won't make the decision for you. At the end it is your call to make. I have tried to use the universal rules that can help anyone from any background or any culture to go through this big decision with more ideas and tools to use but still personal variations do exist and for that you should use your judgment as you read till you reach to your own equation.
I had to wait for long long time till life creates inside me all the meanings and values I had in this book. I give this book for every one who wants to get into a relation that last forever. This book is not about how to catch interest of a smart woman. It is not about how to get attraction of a smart guy. It is about what comes after that. Now you both already attracted to each other but are you suitable for each other for a life long relationship and when you are suitable how can you both keep this relation for ever. This is what this book is about.
Its up to the reader to continue reading every next line and its up to the reader to follow what is written .I put here all the things that will help giving health and life for everyone's relations .With that it is very important that the reader use mind ,experience and judgment to do or not do what is written. I am sure that everyone reads this book will find it the most useful book in relations ever. I put this book not to let you down. I put it for relations to start correctly and last forever.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: Mar 13, 2007
• ISBN: 9781465327376

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Copyright © 2007 by Dr. Nezar Yassin Albar ABIM,FRCPC.

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Contents

Introduction

Chapter 1

Chapter 2

Chapter 3

Chapter 4

By the name of Allah, I start.

To my wife Lubna, my son Yassin, my daughter Joen.

To my mother Addillah, to my father Yassin, who gave me everything I had and everything I am going to have. To my father-in-law Mohammad Lutfi Damanhouri and my mother-in-law Asma.

To my brother Naif, my sisters Ola and Nabillah, my brothers-in-law Adnan and Abdullah.

To my friends Dr. Wael Kashkari, Dr. Saad Bugami, Dr. Turki Gasim, Dr. Nezar Bahabri, Dr. Saeed Alamoudi, Dr. Ghassan Wali, Dr. Mohammad Abu Fayiah, Dr. Ashraf Alharthi, Dr. Nasir Almasri, Dr. Nasir Alsayeh, Dr. Nezar Naqshabandi, Dr. Khalid Alahmadi, Dr. Maan Futaih, Dr. Abdulaziz Alkhotani, Dr. Maan Barry, Dr. Abdulkarim Fida, Dr. Tariq Mirza, Dr. Hasan Mustaneer, Dr. Osama Alenizy, Dr. Abdulrahman Alrasheedi, Dr. Hani Almoalemi, Dr. Husain Halabi, Dr. Monthir Abani, Dr. Wasil Jastaniah, Dr. Walid Albaker, Dr. Hatim Turkistani, Dr. Mohamad Saban, Dr. Abdulghani Mawlawi, Dr. Abdulrahman Housawi. Dr. Hashim Balbaid, Dr. Hashim AlHashmi, Dr. Hatim Aljifree, Dr. Ahmad Adnan Albar, Dr. Adnan Albar, Dr. Husain Albar, Dr. Khalid Albar, Dr. Baker Albar, Dr. Hasan Albar, Dr. Yasir Jamalulail, Dr. Khalid Shukri, my special friend Dr. Hassan Alsharif, Dr. Wael Batobara, Dr. Jason Exner, Dr. Lawerence Wang, and to my friend Dr. Curt Peter, and my friend Ryan Hooper and Abdulaziz Barnawi. I put this book as I promised.

Also to my friends in the Internal Medicine Department in UBC: Andrea Toker, Hazel Wilcox, and Britt Kujuala, I give this book.

To my teachers: Dr Ibrahim Saeed, Dr. Izzi Deen Ibraheem, Dr. Saeed Alghamdi, Dr.Tariq Madani, and to Dr. Ian Mackie, Dr. Berry Kassen, Dr. Mark Roberts, Dr. Alex Chan, and Dr.David Forrest, I give this book.

The book I called: Choose and Keep Your Partner Forever.

This book without any doubt will be the best-selling worldwide.

It will be translated to all the world’s languages.

It is the magical book that you will enjoy every single line of it.

Till this moment, there is no book that addresses this issue the way this book did.

Written by :

Dr. Nezar Yassin Albar

Introduction

Love is a commitment of respect, loyalty, tolerance, patience, sacrifice, and support, causing no psychological, financial, moral, or physical harm, and is that beautiful feeling that is to stay for life.

This book is the gift I wanted to give to love. This book is about you when you feel that you are ready to start a relationship with a commitment—for life. It is not about short duration of fun-and-run stuff. Being ready to start this stage of your life makes you ready to start reading this book. If you’re still in a totally different stage, it is nice to read this book to know what it is, about getting into a lifelong relationship.

This book will teach you the difference between love and lifelong relationship. It will show that love is just a very small part of relationships, and it is not everything, as people think. Love is peace of heart but relationship is peace of heart and peace of mind, and this is what makes love alone not enough to form a relationship. This book will teach exactly how to go through the differences between those two concepts, and how to find that someone who fullfills the criteria of a relationship.

Love is the very nice feeling that pumps and jumps in your heart and under your skin for someone and makes you very busy with this someone. But in a relationship, you have this love, but you go beyond that to form a relationship with many aspects, relationships that unite and /or complete your personalities. In a relationship, you both become friends in addition to being lovers. Everyone will become a teacher to the other to teach the other all kinds of experiences the other doesn’t know and did not go through, and everyone in this relationship will be a student who learns from the other. In a relationship, everyone is a doctor who heals the other, everyone is a guardian who protects the other, and everyone is a futurist who helps to make the plan of the family and helps in making the plan of the other; and everyone is an economist who helps in the other’s financial life. In a relationship, everyone is an ambassador to this beautiful connection representing it in the community, and in the family; and of course, everyone is a very well-trained secret agent who never says a word about what is happening inside the relationship to anyone. Everyone in a relationship is a minister of internal affairs who arranges everything that protects and helps in all the family internal issues and, at the same time, is a minister of external affairs who organizes the family’s external relations with friends, relatives, and everything in life including life itself. Lifelong relationships are just like a government of a country full of respect, love, patience, politeness, tolerance, goodness, pleasantness, agreeability, kindness, and good-heartedness with a very unique and special political ethics, full of trust, truth, truthfulness, honesty, faithfulness, true heartedness, sincerity, countersigning, sincerity in everything, starting from love till reaching the kind of advice that they give each other, and of course, full of unlimited amount of loyalty, devotion, adherence, and homage. This government is also full of observation of everyone’s benefits and interests. In a lifelong relationship, the relation extends to building a family and extends to everything that has a relation to your partner, which makes everything related to you or your partner’s part of the music and the chemistry of the whole thing. In a lifelong relationship, everyone has all these functions and roles to do and more, but with that, the couple’s roles unite to become complementary to each other with respect—more than equalization to control things with no one dominating the relationship by any means, in a dictatorial way. In all these, you see love and respect go everywhere and in between everything to make the words lifelong relationship something bigger than any description. For that, it is respect, love, mercy, intimacy, friendship, kindness, grace, courtesy, and kind act that rule amicably in a friendly and kind manner—the whole beautiful story. This is why love is just a small part of lifelong relationships, a very important part of course that should last forever; but because lifelong relationships are much bigger and stronger than love, they last even when love diminishes and can pass through