Psychological Mind Games Parents Must Avoid with Their Children

By Dueep Jyot Singh

Table of Contents

Introduction
Dad Do Not Preach [and Mom too!]
It Is for Your Own Good
Stop Crying!
You Disappoint Me/You Should Be Ashamed Of Yourself
This Is beyond Your Capacities and Capabilities
Big Boys and Girls Are Not Afraid at All...
You are a Bad Boy...
After All the Sacrifices We Have Done for You...
You Are so Fat/Unattractive
Appendix
Conclusion
Author Bio
Publisher

Introduction

Parenthood is definitely no sinecure. Also, it is rather a daunting prospect for a first-time parent to be confronted with the responsibility, idea and worry of bringing up a child in a proper, healthy, normal fashion, and a secure familial atmosphere. Once upon a time, it was very easy for adults to give the responsibility of their children into the hands of the elders of the family, the clan, the tribe, and bringing up a child was the responsibility of every experienced person in the family, including elder children.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Mendon Cottage Books
• Release date: Sep 16, 2018
• ISBN: 9780463648698

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Psychological Mind Games Parents Must Avoid with Their Children

Dueep Jyot Singh

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Table of Contents

Introduction

Dad Do Not Preach [and Mom too!]

It Is for Your Own Good

Stop Crying!

You Disappoint Me/You Should Be Ashamed Of Yourself

This Is beyond Your Capacities and Capabilitie

Big Boys and Girls Are Not Afraid at All…

You are a Bad Boy…

After All the Sacrifices We Have Done for You…

You Are so Fat/Unattractive

Appendix

Conclusion

Author Bio

Publisher

Introduction

Parenthood is definitely no sinecure. Also, it is rather a daunting prospect for a first-time parent to be confronted with the responsibility, idea and worry of bringing up a child in a proper, healthy, normal fashion, and a secure familial atmosphere. Once upon a time, it was very easy for adults to give the responsibility of their children into the hands of the elders of the family, the clan, the tribe, and bringing up a child was the responsibility of every experienced person in the family, including elder children.

But nowadays, with the eroding of family values, and joint families turning into nuclear families, parenthood can be considered to be a bit of a challenge for a person, who may find himself confused on how to bring up a child in a proper manner.

This book is for all those people who have some ideas of how a child should be brought up, because they were brought up in that same manner. That does not work in the modern-day scenario, especially with changing social traditions, culture, lifestyles, morals, and behavior of adults vis-à-vis children. Also, this book may be a guide for all those people, who have a number of books on parenting, written by so-called parenting gurus who have absolutely no idea of bringing up a child, but have a number of alphabets behind their name. So a la Dr. Spock, who of course was never a mother, but had been married twice with his second wife 40 years younger than he was, well, what could you expect from a man, who wrote bestsellers on baby and Child care, using his own children and examples and adapting his ideas of how kids should be brought up, by experimenting on his own kids first.

Also, he had his own ideas of the psychological aspect of a parent’s role in bringing up a child. For him, like all the parents of the 50s and 60s, human beings needed to be responsible and mature enough to take sensible decisions when they were bringing up a family. However, today, this is not so in many families, which have given the responsibility of a child’s upbringing to the teachers, social workers, psychologists, psychiatrists, school student guides, counselors, military school training camps, and of course the Internet, where every so-called parenting guru comes up with an idea of his own and markets it extensively over the social media.

And when this fad comes along, the last word in parenting, young parents are so thrilled, because somebody else is teaching them how to bring up their own children. They do not use their own common sense or intelligence.

This book is going to tell you all about the psychological games that you are never going to play with your child, even if your best friend, the Internet, your psychologist, your hairdresser, the relatives around you tell you that it is the thing to do. A child is an intelligent individual. It is capable of thinking for itself. And if like me, your child decides at the age of 10, that a majority of adults are rather stupid in the words that they say, the things that they do, their mental thought processes, their ideas, their views, this is going to color the rest of his life, possibly making him emotionally dysfunctional instead of a healthy, normal, happy, contented, responsible and mature adult.

Forget about child psychology books. Forget about taking your child to the psychiatrist, or the psychologists, because it is a fashionable thing to do/your best friend recommended it/everybody raises his child in that same way in your particular neighborhood. So you have to do the same thing/and any other idiotic modern-day parenthood adaptation which is doing the rounds of the parental circle today.

You will have to change a large number of your ingrained ideas. That is going to be a bit