How to Overcome Shyness: Tips and Techniques

By Dueep Jyot Singh

Table of Contents

Introduction
I Do Not Want to Approach You – a Natural Instinct
How to Approach Her...
How to talk to someone in a Group
Polishing up Your Social Skills
Conclusion
Author Bio
Publisher

Introduction

This book is for all those people out there, who would rather read a book, than interact with people of their own age group, just because they are so shy. They know that they are suffering from this little so-called effect in their personality, which prevents them from being the life and soul of the party. The moment they have to talk to somebody, they find their hands and feet swelling up – this thought is purely mental, let me assure you of that – their foreheads start to sweat, their lips feel dry, and there is a trembling in their body and spirit.

Believe it or not, even the most self-assured person can find himself suffering from such a state, sometime or the other in his life. Remember Mr. Yul Brynner – personality plus? He had the power to overshadow Charles Heston in Ben Hur. And one day, Deborah Kerr, who was starring with him in the King and I, entered his makeup room by mistake, and found him with his arms outstretched, pushing against the wall and taking deep breaths. He admitted to her, that he was terrified of facing the camera because he was basically a shy person!

She could not believe it. This book is written for all those people, who are basically shy – the writer included – and who wish to overcome this problem.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Mendon Cottage Books
• Release date: Mar 22, 2017
• ISBN: 9781370397471

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How to Overcome Shyness

Tips and Techniques

Dueep Jyot Singh

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Table of Content

Introduction

I Do Not Want to Approach You – a Natural Instinct

How to Approach Her

How to talk to someone in a Group

Polishing up Your Social Skills

Conclusion

Author Bio

Publisher

Introduction

This book is for all those people out there, who would rather read a book, than interact with people of their own age group, just because they are so shy. They know that they are suffering from this little so-called effect in their personality, which prevents them from being the life and soul of the party. The moment they have to talk to somebody, they find their hands and feet swelling up – this thought is purely mental, let me assure you of that – their foreheads start to sweat, their lips feel dry, and there is a trembling in their body and spirit.

Believe it or not, even the most self-assured person can find himself suffering from such a state, sometime or the other in his life. Remember Mr. Yul Brynner – personality plus? He had the power to overshadow Charles Heston in Ben Hur. And one day, Deborah Kerr, who was starring with him in the King and I, entered his makeup room by mistake, and found him with his arms outstretched, pushing against the wall and taking deep breaths. He admitted to her, that he was terrified of facing the camera because he was basically a shy person!

She could not believe it. This book is written for all those people, who are basically shy – the writer included – and who wish to overcome this problem.

Naturally, I am going to be telling you all about my experience, and how I overcame this problem. The main reason why a person is shy is because he is too self-conscious. Psychologists have an answer for anything, but 200 years ago, anybody who acted shy would be picked up from his scruff and thrown back into the pack of kids, who were yelling, dancing, and shouting, to be a part of the strong. Nowadays, it has become fashionable to analyze every sort of behavior pattern, and go straight to your psychologist, lie down on their couch, and whine in a self-defeating tone, I am shy.

And the psychologist is going to say, there, there, do not worry about that, I am here to teach you, as long as you keep paying the treatment costs. Such self-indulgence is the reason why so many people who are absolutely absorbed in themselves and cannot understand why they are not the focus of attention, decide that they are shy, and this is the only way in which they can hide themselves from other people. And then they pretend that they do not notice that other people are ignoring them. Nobody is interested in a person who is so