Parent/Child Conflicts: Psychological, Time-Tested Advice for Parents

By Dueep Jyot Singh

Table of Contents

Parent/Child Conflicts
Psychological, Time-Tested Advice for Parents
Introduction
Children being taught to expect too much...
Bargaining Counters...
What Happens When Parents Are Not Responsible
This is not so important...
Why Have You Done This?
Conclusion
Author Bio
Publisher

Introduction

A couple of days ago I wrote a book on things you never told your child, because psychologists told you they were not acceptable in today’s social and cultural milieu. I began to think that it was necessary for a psychologist on an Internet site, with a number of alphabets behind his name and a doctor’s label in front had to go into the ether in order to give you advice and make you believe something which was supposed to be self-evident?

That is what man has been reduced to; he has absolutely no confidence in his own decision, instinct, common sense, and power to understand what is best for his child. This started in the 1960s, when Dr. Spock, a man and definitely not a mother came up with some ideas about how children had to be reared. He had some definite theories. He had some scientific ideas in his mind. He had seen how his wife brought up their children, and had adapted a whole series of chapters to how children should be fed, put to bed, entertained, and according to him what worked for his kids would work for kids globally. And the popular press believed him and so did the critics.

And thus a whole continent followed his child rearing and parenting ideas for the next 50 years, until the Internet came into prominence, and a number of Dr. Spock’s successors appeared on sides to tell a parent how, when, where, why, and wherefore, a child could be reared according to their own experimental theories of 21st-century parenting.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Mendon Cottage Books
• Release date: Sep 30, 2018
• ISBN: 9780463261033

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Parent/Child Conflicts

Psychological, Time-Tested Advice for Parents

Dueep Jyot Singh

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Table of Contents

Introduction

Children being taught to expect too much…

Bargaining Counters…

What Happens When Parents Are Not Responsible

This is not so important…

Why Have You Done This?

Conclusion

Author Bio

Publisher

Introduction

A couple of days ago I wrote a book on things you never told your child, because psychologists told you they were not acceptable in today’s social and cultural milieu. I began to think that it was necessary for a psychologist on an Internet site, with a number of alphabets behind his name and a doctor’s label in front had to go into the ether in order to give you advice and make you believe something which was supposed to be self-evident?

That is what man has been reduced to; he has absolutely no confidence in his own decision, instinct, common sense, and power to understand what is best for his child. This started in the 1960s, when Dr. Spock, a man and definitely not a mother came up with some ideas about how children had to be reared. He had some definite theories. He had some scientific ideas in his mind. He had seen how his wife brought up their children, and had adapted a whole series of chapters to how children should be fed, put to bed, entertained, and according to him what worked for his kids would work for kids globally. And the popular press believed him and so did the critics.

And thus a whole continent followed his child rearing and parenting ideas for the next 50 years, until the Internet came into prominence, and a number of Dr. Spock’s successors appeared on sides to tell a parent how, when, where, why, and wherefore, a child could be reared according to their own experimental theories of 21st-century parenting.

It is said, when there is an excess of knowledge jostling for position and clamoring for attention at the door, common sense goes out of the window. Nowadays, parents really do not know who to believe, their own instincts, or use their own experience, or go on to the website, and see what their favorite guru has said about what to do when your child has a sniffle or he sneezes.

He will tell you to take him to the doctor fast, because this can be the forerunner of bronchitis, pneumonia, chest diseases, infections, a winter cold, summer colds, and other such futile content in order to get you really terrified and which makes you think that this particular doctor knows of what he speaks, because his first instinct is Get Thee to a Hospital, Go. And there, the child could be dosed with antibiotics, experimental drugs, vaccines made up of formaldehyde and antifreeze oil, and any such medical innovations thought up by a so-called science-based medical system which is the only one world requiring the patient to sign a paper that the doctor is not going to be held responsible if the patient dies during the operation. Even 5,000 years ago, quacks never had the effrontery to tell their patients such a thing, but in the 20th and 21st century, this is considered to be an acceptable part of your life, since childhood.