A Valentine Weekend: S.N.C.W.S.

By Gerald E. Moutra

First time author,Gerald Moutra, drew from his diverse background and many talents to write
this inspirational book. Gerald Moutra, grew up in Los Angeles California,and in 1988 Gerald
Moutra had a desire to relocate to Bellevue Washington.

And, as a God-fearing man and genuine believer, he relied on his Maker to help guide him
to be constructive and helpful to his readers. In 2008 one of His first cousin Johnnie Moutra,
from Huston Texas and his wife walked a way as winners on the “ New Newlywed Game show”
So yes the Moutra´s really know how to win. When it comes to relationships.

Relationships Failure should always be viewed, as a step to the next level, of advancement in your life,as in change.It should not be looked at as set back, because now your growing. .And only God, knows where your going. And you will know it to when you get there.


In addition to divine intervention, Gerald took his experiences as a nurse, a personal fitness
trainer, bodybuilder consultant, CPR instructor, vascular and cardiovascular technologist and
even his skills as an auto mechanic to formulate a novel that would connect to every professional
working man or woman.And to many who would peruse it. of course, this entrepreneur would not be well-rounded if his days consisted of the proverbial all work and no play.

In Gerald’s limited free time, he managed to train
for and complete two LA Marathons and has honed his
musical gifts. He plays both the tenor saxophone and the
keyboard/piano.
Gerald is the proud father of 2 children.

A, God fearing Man and a believer
B, Father
C, Two times L A Marathon runner
D, Cardiac Technician
E, Personal Fitness Trainer
F, CPR Instructor
G, Auto Mechanic
H, Vascular Technologist
I, Cardiovascular Technologist
J, Body builder Consultant
K, Author
L, Entrepreneur
—MUSCIAL SKILLS —
Tenor Saxophone
Key boards (piano)

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: Jan 17, 2014
• ISBN: 9781483692067

Gerald E. Moutra

First time author, Moutra, Gerald drew from his diverse background and many talents to write this inspirational book. On Courtship, Marriage, Woman, Men, Singles, Relationships, Connection, The magic of a simple Kiss, and four different types of Love. In the summer, of 1988 Moutra, Gerald had a desire to relocate from his home town, Los Angeles California, to Bellevue Washington. As a God-fearing man and genuine believer, he relied on his Maker to help guide him to be constructive and helpful to his readers. In 2008 one of His first cousin Johnnie Moutra, from Huston Texas and his wife walked a way as winners on the “ New Newlywed Game show” So yes the Moutra´s really know how to win. When it comes to relationships. Relationships failure should always be viewed, as a step to the next level, as we should learn from our failure, in life, in general. It should not, be looked upon, as set back, because now your growing. And only God, knows where your going. And you will know, in due time. Just keep on moving forward in life. Each one of us will travel down a different path, however; this does not mean, that this is the end ,of your journey. A new day is just ahead. You must therefore, visualize you personal goals and your own happiness, now you must build your relationships with yourself, by making yourself happy. We only know what, we were taught, if we change our behavior pattern. And if we rebuke our old ways of thinking. Therefore, a new door will eventually open up, to all of the things, that are indeed possible and with in our favor. If your single now, then this is, the best time for you to work on yourself and raise the bar of your expectations. You can contact the author Moutra,Gerald for questions, personal book(s) orders at: 1, [e-mail] 2, [e-mail] Text /chat : 1 253 545 1956 A, God fearing Man and a believer B, Father C, Two times L A Marathon runner D, Cardiac Technician E, Personal Fitness Trainer F, CPR Instructor G, Auto Mechanic H, Vascular Technologist I, Cardiovascular Technologist J, Body builder Consultant K, Author L, Entrepreneur —MUSICAL SKILLS — Tenor Saxophone Key boards (piano)

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A Valentine Weekend

Singles Network Connection Workshop

S.N.C.W.S.

Gerald E. Moutra

Copyright © 2014 by Gerald E. Moutra.

All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the copyright owner.

Rev. date: 12/06/2019

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CONTENTS

Chapter I

A Valentine Weekend

What it means

Chapter II

Relationships

SNCWS—What Does It Mean?

Grooming Yourself For your Relationship

Falling in like Before You Fall in Love

There Are Over Seven Billion People in the World

Start with Yourself

Self-care

Money Smart

Four Different Types of Income

The Zodiac Compatibility And Motivation (Four Key Components)

International Relationships

(The Four Tools)

Eros Love

Four Types of Relationships

Ten Itches or Choices of Marriages

The Woman’s Power

Building Your Relationship

The Family Order

CHAPTER III

A Romantic Weekend for Six

Jackie’s Weekend

Donnie’s Weekend

Brandy Weekend

Brandy Weekend

Denise’s Weekend

Mr. DW Wright’s Weekend

Spring’s Weekend

Chapter IV

Sex/Lust/Naughty E-mails

The Kiss

How Sweet It Is

All-natural Male Enhancement

The Day Before Valentine’s Day

The Lust Test

Sex Appeal

Sexually Frustrated Ladies

Chapter V

Romance Tips/Tricks of the Trade

Dining

The Twelve Foods That Will Boost Your Sex Drive

The Ideal Times to Present Your Wedding Proposal To Her or Him

The Top Hottest Wedding Anniversary Gifts

Notes

References

A Valentine Weekend

Starts

When you meet that special person who causes your heart to flutter

And you get that butterfly feeling

because something very special is about to happen for you.

From

January to December

Starting with Yourself

The Continuation of Book 1

For

Singles and Married Couples

Acknowledgments

Special thanks to my children—Leah and Isaiah—and the Moutra family.

The Heard family. Abdesselam Diani, Perry Dyer, Mohamed Hair, the Stapleton family.

And also my colleagues and friends in Washington State and in Portland, Oregon.

Gerald Moutra, DMS, RDCS, and Author

CHAPTER I

A Valentine Weekend

WHAT IT MEANS

Is only a metaphor of Valentine’s Day, which is incorporated into the human heart, which is what transpires inside every man and woman, young or old, throughout their life in their relationships.

In addition, did you know that astrology, mysticism, and numerology have a settled influence over a person’s life, from the moment they are born and throughout their lifetime? Unbelievably, you should also know that there is no other influence greater than the human will. The human will is the strongest emotion that man has in his possession. You must first understand that you can will yourself to do anything and to be anything that you want to be.

You might have a few astrology books that you have been reading just to help you understand how this plays into your relationship.

It’s only because you’re tired of failing when it comes to your relationship’s issues that you might have thought about seeing palmists, but I think that you hold your prospects in your own hands.

Now I want you to take a deep breath and focus on yourself. Remember, Your first priority in life is to love yourself.

Today is a new day, and this is your personal relationship manual. For those of you who have just entered your twenties, soon you will be starting your own family.

For those of you who are over twenty years old, you have made many mistakes in your relationships.

Well, my friend, you are not alone. And the good news is, you can find love if you’re one hundred years old. And the reason being is that love doesn’t have an age limit or age category, height, weight, ethnicity preference, or class because love doesn’t care.

However, love can only enter if it is welcomed in your heart.

By purchasing this book, you have made one of the most important first steps in your life, whether you’re a single person or a married couple or someone that has or had a few relationship failures. We can all use a little help, right? You are, indeed, moving in the right direction. Now in order for you to excel, you must be very clear about your plans and goals in life, your dreams for today, and your aspirations for tomorrow.

So when it comes to you and your relationships, do not be afraid to speak up and say what you like and what you are looking for. You want to be able to have a good and healthy relationship that consists of stimulating communication. Trust and respect are also important so that you are not just wasting your time or anyone else.

Your time is very valuable; in fact, it’s priceless, so use your time wisely with the right person.

Once time is lost, it can never be brought back. The clock will always move forward. With you or without you, this clock of life cannot be reset.

From the day that you were born, the clock started ticking.

You have only so many days, and keep in mind that you are just passing through before you transcend to the next phase of life. This phase of your life is the testing and learning process. This is the place where we make mistakes and ask for forgiveness.

All this takes place on earth. Why? Because it’s supposed to. Because we are not perfect, some of us will make the same mistakes over and over until we are able to see the light.

And once we are able to see the light, then we will be able to get it right. And then we might be able to find the right, loving relationship.

So the question is, can we learn from our failures and our mistakes? Yes! Absolutely, once we discover our weakness, we will be able to embrace and build on it, turning it into one of our strengths.

There isn’t one person on this earth who does not have a weakness or who has never experienced pain in his life or who can’t still find the perfect relationship. Having the perfect relationship is to have everything that you need and want.

Flashback BC

Adam-and-Eve Relationship

Once upon a time, Adam and Eve had that perfect relationship.

Flash-Forward Present Time

Now you are the students. Forget everything that you have learned about relationships. This is your fresh start. I want you to go in with an open mind and a clear conscience.

Your past should not hold you back or affect your future. Remember that you are in control of your destiny and your future lies in your hands and in your thoughts.

This is a self-help book for singles and couples that are struggling in their relationships.

They are hoping to find compatibility, confidence, creativity, humor, exotic individuals like themselves, stability, and honesty.

They are searching for someone who’s God-loving, caring, a visionary, a dream builder, a money magnet, someone faithful, and with family values. In short, they want a best friend, soul mate, future spouse, and much, much more.

So he or she is looking for a full package of gifts? Yes! That’s right because we are gifts to one another. You see, when a couple has a new addition to the family, such as a baby or a pet, well, the baby is a gift from God, am I right? And on the other hand, a pet is a gift from one person to another, with love. So be ready to receive your gifts.

It’s very exciting to network as you set out on your journey, looking for your full package of gifts as you make your connection.

Now keep in mind that time is of the essence here.

Take your time with this valuable material as you start to rebuild your current relationship or as you launch your new relationship.

Moreover, remember to keep an open mind. In addition, always remain hopeful.

For some of you, this will give you a chance to build a stronger relationship than before.

However, keep in mind that you should always pray before entering into any kind of relationship—business or personal—that may require either your time or your money.

This information is designed to help you avoid the pitfalls of relationship failures by having a clear understanding of who you are and believing in yourself.

Some of us have issues with believing in ourselves especially when it comes to our own success, because for so long we have been told that we can’t do it.

Alternatively, whether or not you feel that you are incapable or capable of doing something, sometimes you just have to take Nike’s advice and just do it.

You have to be ready and make things happen; you have to be the game changer or the problem solver. Just do it!

Instead of allowing your ego or shortcomings to interfere with your relationship, the key is to know how to love yourself first.

Speaking of love, how many of you understand that there are four different types of love? When you tell someone you love them, what are you saying and what do you really mean?

Later in the chapter, I will go over this in more depth. So first things first, let us clear the air now. Your first test is that you must be willing to forgive yourself and not be afraid to laugh at yourself. Our first step starts today; you must change the way you think, because it’s a new day.

Keep in mind that all relationships start out on an even and level playing field. Relationships are not hard or difficult; somehow over time, they seem to turn out this way.

So why is that? Could it be because of our own ignorance, arrogance, jealousy, greed, deception, control, and the abuse of power?

Flashback BC

Adam-and-Eve Relationship

Throughout our histories before Christ (BC), it is stated in the book of Genesis in the Basic Instructions Before Living Earth.

In the garden where life began, everything was free—every small creature and huge beast of the wild was happy, and beautiful things happened. While they were in the garden, there was peace and harmony; this was the ideal place for a perfect relationship.

In addition, this was where it also ended. For this one couple, his name was Adam and her name was Eve.

We were able to research and discover this information from one of the oldest books on earth, the very first book that has opened up man’s understanding. In addition, it has changed man’s plans as well as his destiny.

Eve was visited by an evil spirit (Satan = jealousy), who had bamboozled Eve into believing that she would be just as powerful as her Creator and know all things (deception). He did not force her or pull her hair or put her in a headlock; he was smooth with his choice of words.

He was good at twisting the truth to change the ways of her actions and have her question her beliefs and her faith. This created her curiosity to eat from the tree of knowledge.

Now Eve had a choice to do it or not to do it, but she decided to abuse her power, which led to their eviction from the garden and, eventually, her death and Adam’s death. Eve had destroyed her relationship with Adam. This was her first, real, and only true love.

She had tricked Adam into eating from the tree, because she was laid down the road of destruction. She was not woman enough to bear it alone, so she had to pull Adam down that rabbit hole of no return. Could she have avoided this? Yes! All she had to do was say to the devil/serpent, Hold on, please, just let me check with my husband, Adam, for advice on these issues. If only she had been thinking about what she’s going to prepare for his dinner and staying focused on Adam and their relationship.

Fast-Forward

How many of us have done the same in our relationships? We start to see ourselves going down that rabbit hole, and so we do not want to go down that hole alone (drama = fighting).

So we start to pull the person who is close to us down with us in our relationship; instead of asking for help, we end up damaging the relationship by our hand.

One must first seek to understand their relationship with the Creator (God) before one can have a wholesome relationship with a soul mate.

For example, God trusted Adam, and there was a level of compassion, love, and integrity within the garden and evil; however, evil did not have a leg to stand on with Adam.

Adam never gave evil the time of day. God was right there in the evening, so they had a father-and-son relationship.

God would always return to the garden to check on Adam to see how things were going. So you should always check on your loved one just to see how they’re doing. Then came Eve . . . Relationships are like flowers; either they grow up to blossom, or they fade away. So let us learn from Adam’s and Eve’s mistakes.

You must be aware that everyone that has ever been in a relationship will have that relationship tested. This is true without a doubt when you least expect it. In addition, most of you have questions about your own relationship. However, you have to give the relationship time, and it will take a lot of patience.

Part of the reason is simple because we don’t always follow our hearts. After a while when you have been through a few unsuccessful relationships, you start to think that you’re just a failure. Let the truth be told. Did you also know that Thomas Edison, one of our greatest inventors, said that he had over two thousand failures before he had a breakthrough? He never gave up. So never quit; be like Thomas—stay in the game.

Don’t give up, and keep thinking positive. See, when you start believing that you can do better, then you will become better as long as you keep on trying until you get it right; however, you must seek advice.

And we want to know, will our next relationship be a failure?

Well, if you believe that it will be a success, then it shall be.

You have to exercise your power of positive thinking.

You have to awaken the giant within, as said by Anthony Robbins.

So you would use your power of beliefs. See, once you start to believe that something will work or something is going to happen, whether it is good or bad, then it will.

If you imagine yourself being in a long-lasting, good, and healthy, positive relationship, then if that’s what you’re looking for, you shall find it.

You must focus on the task at hand while you are in search of the relationship that your heart desires.

You must understand that anything is possible if you keep working at it and never stop.

Be mindful that you have a right to be happy; it doesn’t matter who you are or where you’re from or how old you are. You have to go get your happiness with a vengeance.

Self-discipline

You must first understand that you cannot have a relationship without you. In fact, the part that you have the most control over in any relationship is yourself.

So that means taking responsibility for your actions and avoiding conflict by changing your behavior as you exercise honesty and integrity.

If you can get along with yourself, you can get along with everybody else. See, the problem I have been having is that I have been blaming everybody else for what is wrong with me.

Flashback

God . . . said that it’s not good for man to be alone, so he said that I [God] will make [man] a helpmate [woman].

Now as Christians, we were taught that we are not alone even if we are single and lonely.

(So are we really lonely? Only if you choose to be lonely. See, God has designed a woman for every man; as a matter of fact, there are even more women than men.)

Which is true spiritually, but God will not meet your intimacy, emotional, and social needs. This might be hard for some of us to digest.

That’s why he created a woman and designed her body to receive a man and produce their offspring. God will only meet your spiritual needs. So he gave us a woman to aid us elsewhere. You were a spiritual being first before you were a being of flesh.

God has a way of dealing with us on a much higher level of knowledge and compassion, as well as in our relationship with him.

It is only on a mental and spiritual level, which is, indeed, the highest level.

Prayer will keep you! But prayer won’t satisfy your earthly needs. Because prayer is spiritual, and by prayer we have faith.

I commit to God through faith in my spirit, and my spirit holds me. God will not meet your earthly needs, but he will provide someone for you to help with your earthly needs.

God, the Father of all living things, has established with each one of us a love that we cannot describe.

You are a child of the architect of the universe; he is also the Creator and the giver of life. You hold the key(s) to your destiny.

God the Almighty!

His spirit, his energy, and his power dwell within all of us.

He is alpha and omega, the beginning and the end.

So once you understand how the spiritual and the earthly dimensions work, then you should have a better understanding of what you are capable of.

The House

This wholesome body that you are in is made out of dirt from mother earth! It contains your soul and God’s image, but keep in mind, it’s on a lease, so it has to return to the earth.

Each one of us is created from God’s imagination, so yes, you are, indeed, perfectly made; now you know where your imagination comes from. Our power comes from language, and you can use this power to spread positivity.

And even if you’ve been calling or proclaiming yourselves to be agnostics or atheists, you would have to be in a delusional state of your mind. Right? Let me remind you that it was the power of God’s love that got you here in the first place. Through his (God’s) love, we are able to use language in order for us to spread words.

Words can be soul-shaking, uplifting, motivating, healing, and powerful.

Words can be life-changing and empowering. Words can condition the core of the human soul.

You will, without a doubt, be able to change your life for the better once you fully understand how much you have to work within your reach. So did you know that each of us has a personal spiritual bodyguard?

Personal Spiritual Bodyguard

Guardian angels (GA) are each given an assignment to attend to your needs.

On your behalf, they will only operate in the spiritual realm for you.

They are working for you while you are sleeping, and even when you’re misbehaving, they are working for you.