The Relationship Saver / The Gameless Relationship: A Fast Track Manual for Saving and Repairing Your Relationship

By Radomir Samardzic

The Relationship Saver consists of two books: The Relationship Saver and The Gameless Relationship. The Relationship Saver is, as the name implies, meant for anyone who wants to repair their relationship. The book is written as a manual. It has no stories, just straightforward "what to do."

The second one, The Gameless Relationship, deals with the four basic principles of a perfect relationship: a relationship where games are not played and where people are fully self-expressed and authentic.

• Language: English
• Publisher: BookBaby
• Release date: Jul 1, 2019
• ISBN: 9781543973846

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Copyright ©2005-2019 Radomir Samardzic

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Disclaimer: This book is for information purposes only, results are not guaranteed.

The information in this book are meant to be used only by mentally and emotionally healthy people and is in no way a substitute for professional medical treatment or counseling. I do not support your staying in an abusive relationship, whether you are an abuser or abused. In fact, I do not encourage you to stay in any relationship whatsoever that you choose not to stay in. Having a good relationship does not necessarily mean that you have to live together or even be together.

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Cover Design and layout: Ivan Pesic

Cover fonts: Source Sans Pro, Shire. Text fonts: Calluna Sans, Tuna.

eBook ISBN: 978-1-54397-384-6

To Antoinette

CONTENTS

Author’s Note

Testimonials

Introduction

Humans Are Not Logical Creatures

A Word About Your Family and Friends

Work

Rules

We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them. – Albert Einstein

AUTHOR’S NOTE

The Relationship Saver first appeared as an e-book on Google in a pay per click column in 2005. It had enormous success for several years and sold almost 80,000 copies. Many copies were given for free to those who could not afford it; some people even sent their payments much later.

It had a successful run for several years until Google changed its algorithm and I could not afford to pay for the advertising. Since then many people have asked me about it. I thought that it deserved to be available to everyone, so I decided to produce a print version.

Dear Radomir, I stumbled upon your site when I was groping in darkness with the reality that my marriage had hit a path of no return. My central problem was kind of spiritual – nobody in this world understands me! I had knocked on almost all the doors and none opened to me! Then I saw your website, and the content was so compelling and genuine that I decided to buy the manual. It indeed created magic. How well you have condensed the whole secret of human relationship in so few pages! Very glad to say that I have won my family back, and we have relocated to Cupertino, CA from Bangalore, India. Indeed, I have no words to express my gratitude. I pray that your message continues to save more and more families.

Thank you very much.

A. Ramesh, Cupertino, CA

I have been using the methods in The Relationship Saver for twelve hours, and he just said to me it’s like the fog has lifted and there’s space again to impress each other…I couldn’t get a better boost to keep using these methods…Why don’t more people teach these things?

Thank you again,

RL

I think she was somewhat shocked at my flipped approach, and I can see she is changed, looks brighter lighter and happier - I certainly am. I understand that it’s more than just following your instructions – it’s actually understanding the situation in a totally different light. Once again

– A powerful 14 pages….

Peter D., Germany

There is something to be said for the theory of cause and effect. Changing what I was doing in my relationship actually changed my partner’s actions as well. Our relationship of 16 years did NOT end because of the valuable information I received from the Relationship Saver. If your relationship is in trouble, I urge you to try it and learn about new and greater possibilities for a more loving and happy partnership.

Andrea M., Los Angeles, CA

Thank you for helping to put an end to an emotionally abusive relationship. I realized with your help that the most important relationship in need of repair was the relationship I was having with myself.

Debby K., Dallas, TX

Radomir, I purchased your book The Relationship Saver and am amazed at the things I’ve taken for granted and the things I’ve never thought of before!! Thank you for opening my eyes to this new insight. I have read the book through once and plan to read it every day and apply it to my life and to our relationship. Yes, my daughter and her husband have decided not to separate and are now looking for a new apartment together in NYC. Your book was totally significant in giving her the strength to not retaliate, put on a sunny disposition, accept his behavior and change it! A pretty great combination. Many, many thanks for this fine little book. Best regards.

Alexa P., Denmark

I had been involved with Steve for about four months when things were taking a turn for the worse. I read your book and started to change my reactions to his actions. It took a lot of work on my part, but it has been worth it.

Thank you!

Ginger

Radomir…I had to write. I bought The Relationship Saver book, probably out of a desperate attempt to acknowledge that nothing I was doing was working at this point in time, I know that my relationship is not healthy yet but it is different, and I know that part of this turnaround is due to the advice in this book, and the follow-on book you sent, The Gameless Relationship. What I can say for sure is that you have helped me with a man I really love, and you’ve given me a chance to repair the relationship. I followed your advice without question (very hard for me) and it worked. It immediately relieved the tension between us, and better, it made me aware of the negative behaviors I was demonstrating and how with all my good intentions I was actually pushing him away. I had this misguided sureness that I knew what was best for both of us. Regardless if this relationship works out or not, you have helped me, and I declare that I will make this change in my life – true love and caring is so rare – and I think I finally know the key of making it work. Thank you for helping me at a time when I most needed it….

Ruth

INTRODUCTION

One of the worst emotional breakdowns occurs when your partner wants to leave you, and you desperately want to stay together. The reasons can be many, but in the end they are mostly only reasons, stories that your partner tells you as excuses for leaving you. They can include anything from I don’t love you any more, to downright lies and made-up excuses to make your potential-ex, as well as sometimes yourself, feel better for being dumped, to just disappearing from your life with a note on the nightstand.

The more involved the relationship is, the bigger shock you experience. If you are in love, the break-up may feel