Patterns of Attraction

By Jeffery Schoener

Relationship attraction patterns are programs that run inside all of us. If you have ever said to yourself that you could do better, this is the book for you. Within the pages of this short powerful e-book is the Rosetta stone of why and how people are attracted to each other. This book brings you on an introspective journey and then into specific decision strategies.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Jeffery Schoener
• Release date: Sep 23, 2010
• ISBN: 9781452377667

Jeffery Schoener

JEFF SCHOENER, the NLP WordsmytheTM, has been coaching personal growth development at workshops and to private clients from around the U.S. and Australia for the past 15 years. Among some of what he consults and teaches are other-than-conscious awareness skills, enhanced relationship awareness and dynamics, Personal PersuasionTM, removal of fears and phobias and other limitations.As a licensed trainer in Neuro-Linguistic Programming and a Design Human EngineerTM, he utilizes the extraordinary NLP skills he has learned, successfully incorporating them along with other healing techniques. With the endorsement of Dr. Richard Bandler, Jeff is the recipient of the only NLP Wordsmythe License Certificate by the Society of Neuro-Linguistic ProgrammingTM.Jeff is the owner of Neuro-Enhancement Strategies, through which he focuses his unique methodology for personal growth with whole-brain learning, essential to re-educating mind-body processes in order to manage the unfamiliar territories of all aspects of change. His methods of training have helped his clients overcome beyond the limitations of fear, compulsions and destructive behavioral patterns, achieving great success with his clients and audiences alike in bringing about positive change.Utilizing his techniques for the corporate world, Jeff is able to tap into his extensive corporate and management background and thus, is in the unique position of deeply understanding corporate thinking, which in turn affords him a powerful perspective into multi-level Management, both in the for-profit and non-profit sectors. With a background in retail sales and management, he has developed powerful workshops for decision-making and persuasion strategies, state-control and management rapid learning. Integrating his many years of experience in large corporate IT Project Management, he has similarly and simply incorporated his knowledge of programmable patterns into everyday enhanced brain function processes. His career-enhancement trainings have proven to be eminently suitable for senior management, departmental heads and staff members alike. His coaching skills provide new perspectives in dealing with aspects of change and behavioral-pattern modification, which are also powerfully experienced in his classes, workshops and lectures.Jeff is devoted to raising awareness within relationships with the possibilities of attracting positive influences into our lives. His coaching skills provide new perspectives in dealing with aspects of change and behavioral-pattern modification which are also powerfully experienced in his classes, workshops and lectures. His most recent work is deeply rooted in his background and personal experience as a family caregiver and focuses on the relationship between caregivers and their charges. A natural caregiver, Jeff is intent on providing stress-relief and energy replenishment with his audios and workshops for caregivers everywhere – family as well as professionals.Communication, relationship and personal development workshops such as “Speaking the Same Language”, “Patterns of Attraction”, “Recognizing Your Perfect Mate” and “Making Better Decisions” among others, are precisely what makes Jeff Schoener such a sought-after instructor/ trainer for both personal and professional development.Jeff is the author of “Just Before...The Memory and Sensory Enhancement Guide Book©” and several audio CD workshops on healing and stress management, featuring The Caregiver’s Relief Kit© series, his latest audio products making its way in the healthcare community, and Cellular Acceptance©: The Healing Audio Workshop.

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PATTERNS OF ATTRACTION

Break the patterns that hold you back from having fulfilling relationships

and gain the keys to happiness.

by

Jeffrey Schoener

SMASHWORDS EDITION

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PUBLISHED BY:

Jeffrey Schoener on Smashwords

Patterns of Attraction

Copyright © 2010 Jeffrey Schoener

United States Library of Congress

Smashwords Edition License Notes

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Contents

Dedications

Introduction

Understanding the Patterning Process

Chapter 1

Why We Recognize

CONFUSING & CONFLICTING MESSAGES

HOW DID THIS HAPPEN?

RECOGNIZING THE PATTERNS

WHEN WE WERE KIDS

WHAT ARE WE TEACHING OUR KIDS?

WHAT WE LEARNED & FROM WHOM

Chapter 2

Breaking the Patterns

PATTERNS OF ATTRACTION

INTRODUCTION TO INTROSPECTION

EXPECTATIONS

RELATIONSHIP MYTHOLOGY

Chapter 3

Shifting Perceptions: What to do today

EXAMINE: ASK YOURSELF

BUILD NEW EXPECTATIONS

INTO YOUR FUTURE

About the Author

For More Information

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Dedications

This work would be only an interesting discussion were it not for my parents, my sister Susan and her late husband Timmy, and my wife Natalie.

My parents Nathan and Estelle, who became my model of what I don’t want.

Timmy and Susan, for displaying a model that I could have.

This book is dedicated to them and especially to my wife Natalie who makes it seem as if all things are possible.

In loving memory of Nathan and Estelle Schoener,

and Elliott ‘Timmy’ Kassin.

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Introduction

Recognize it now or later, we create our relationships.

The dynamics of the relationships in our lives are determined by whom we attract and are attracted to. This work has been designed to help you recognize the exciting, healthy aspects as well as the dysfunctional and possibly destructive patterns. What you do with this information is entirely up to you. Later in this book, I have provided exercises in order to foster awareness and help you to remove your limitations and fears in order to boldly build healthy, happy more productive interactions with all whom you come in contact.

If you like becoming aware of the whys, then learn what can do to for a happier life. If you are one of the millions who are less than satisfied with your relationships, welcome!

This book is for you.

In terms of intimate committed relationships, I have always been cautious. I never wanted my married life to mirror the discomfort that I grew up with between my father and my mother. Imagine when I noticed the exact bickering between my younger brother and