Self-Disengagement: How to Solve Practical Problems in Your Life by Ignoring Them

By Ashbel Vudzijena

Ignore your problem. Ignore it well enough and it will go away.

Miracles start to happen in our lives when we, consciously or unconsciously, step down or surrender the burden to a higher power. We must come to the point of acknowledging that we conquer when we paradoxically appear helpless. The concept of disengagement is the natural equivalent of this Bible verse: He must increase, but I must decrease. (John 3:30). Remember the Bible also says For when I am weak, then I am strong. (2 Corinthians 12:10) and and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me.. (Galatians 2:20).

You can choose an easier way to solve your problems, improve your memory, achieve your desires and excel in your assignments. It is simple but very effective. This book helps you explore the disengagement method to problem-solving.

During self-disengagement you become unconscious of your problem and as you do so a miracle happens. This method was discovered through a realization that most successes reach their climax as surprises, implying that we are never fully aware of the processes that generate success in our lives. I have come to realize that success is unconscious. You are never exactly sure of the destiny of your life. Have you ever realized that most fulfilling surprises come to you once you stop chasing after them?

We sometimes stand in the way of our own miracles. As soon as we disengage something desirable starts happening. A wound that is ignored heals faster and is more manageable than the one that receives constant attention

Its all about disengagement. Read this book and improve your grades through Disengagement.

• Language: English
• Publisher: AuthorHouse
• Release date: Jun 26, 2013
• ISBN: 9781481761987

Ashbel Vudzijena

Ashbel Vudzijena is a motivational social worker, poet, writer and speaker. He is a writer whose dream is to speak into the lives of people. He strongly believes in the capacity of gifts and natural abilities that we are all endowed with by God. Ashbel Vudzijena has a passion for the welfare and phenomenal success of individuals and families. Contact details: [e-mail]; [phone] /[phone]

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CONTENTS

Part 1: The Rough And Jolty Road That I Travelled

Part 2: A New Dawn—Discovering Disengagement

Part 3: Applying Disengagement To Solve Practical Problems In Your Life

Part 4: Disengage And Be Your True Self

Part 5: How Does Disengagement Relate To The Biblical Principles?

Part 6:You Can Live A Disengaged Life

Part 7: The Relationship Between Self-Disengagement And Talent-Expression

When you become unconscious of your problem you will have reached the highest level of faith to solve it.

Dedication

I dedicate this work to everyone who believes in the concept of DISENGAGEMENT, ignoring problems for their solutions to form up. I believe in disengagement and I have had practical and enriching personal experience with this approach to life on several occasions.

Acknowledgements

I would like to sincerely thank Mr. Justin Chitakatira for his untiring support and enduring patience that he has always employed to proof—read and edit my work since I took to the writing career in 2007. Everyone of my pieces of work bears a mark of his contribution. God bless you Mr. Chitakatira. I would also like to express my warm appreciation to my wife, Grace, for believing in my dream of establishing myself as an author. I further want to thank my 3 children (Shammah, my son; and Shalom and Shiloh, my two daughters) for taking some pride in the evolving writing career and embracing it as their own. I extend my gratitude to all my readers who consider reading this work worthwhile. Finally, I thank the Alpha and Omega of our lives, The Almighty God who takes me from one revelation milestone to another, all towards the inner truth.

Author’s introductory message

The whole point of our existence on earth, if you check and reflect, is to discover the real truth about life. You may want to ask yourself this question: Which forces bring things into being? What improves your memory, emotional and material well-being, performance in examinations and so on? Life takes us through various stages of realization which take us to the real truth. Each stage or milestone is like a layer of onion which life peels off and takes you to the inner truth. The longitudinal or life-long milestones have now taken me to another stage which helps me realize that our desired miracles take place in a state of unconsciousness, a state of helplessness and a state of hopelessness as the Bible says . . . For when I am weak, then I am strong. (2 Corinthians 12:10). This state of voluntary or involuntary ‘tactical withdrawal’ is what I call self-disengagement. It appears to be a state of weakness and yet it is a state of great strength. When you plug into this state you are plugging into ‘surprise victories’. Read this book and start disengaging towards your victories and solutions.

Ashbel Vudzijena

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PART 1

THE ROUGH AND JOLTY ROAD THAT I TRAVELLED

I have since realized that back-breaking effort is not the way to excellent results. All my life I have been predominantly a hard worker. I have never left anything to chance. When I reflect on my life I realize that my hard work has not been fully rewarded. What I have accomplished in life has not been proportional to the amount of effort that I have applied at school, work or any other tasks that I have undertaken. Before I received a new realization that life could be better with less effort, I went through the lifelong trauma of working excessively hard. As I grew up life became less and less of a game and the reward for my hard work has been less and less as I went up the ladders of the various aspects of my life. While hard work cannot be dismissed, excessive hard work and a big fuss about life tend to make the road rough and almost impassable. This is the opposite of what most of us have come to believe in through continuous teaching and reinforcement. Most of us were taught to work hard, very hard and that’s it. We have been in the same boat but I have since shifted to another boat in which I have come to realize that hard work is not an end in itself.

In spite of my hard work I have rarely scored distinctions in most of the work that I have undertaken. As a hard worker I have done a Masters degree in Business Administration but if you look at my transcript it is littered with low to moderate passes with very few upper passes. I have done a Bachelor’s degree in Social Work but if you look at the transcript you will see moderate passes. I rarely failed examinations except in my Advanced level where I did natural sciences against my natural talents and the advice of my teachers and friends but I also rarely scored distinctions even in courses where I could possibly score distinctions. After completing my first degree I put in a lot of effort to get a job and I received good promises which never materialized until I went back to my home town to disengage and live as if I had no plan for my future. All my hard job-searching work did not yield a job while I was in the capital city, Harare. Only after giving up and retreating to the home town did I receive a phone call telling me to report for a lucrative job in Harare. I learnt a lesson about the true value of pushing hard.

I inherited the