Guys, Shut Your Cakeholes and Listen!: How to Capture & Hold a Woman's Heart

By Sean T. Taeschner

"He never listens to me!" This is the number-one complaint of women about men. Having discovered the secret to capturing and holding a woman's heart, Sean Taeschner has put together a compelling guide for men and women detailing how to succeed in loving relationships.

• Language: English
• Publisher: AuthorHouse
• Release date: Mar 15, 2011
• ISBN: 9781456744892

Sean T. Taeschner

Sean T. Taeschner, M.Ed. is a native of the Pacific Northwest and has lived in Washington State since 1964. During the school week he teaches college English. Additionally, he spends his weekends teaching others how to prospect for gold on the Green River near his home in historic Black Diamond, a town of turn-of-the-century coal mining fame. A graduate of Western Washington University in German language, and Eastern Washington University in Elementary Education, Sean has authored several books and a DVD. Sean’s works can be purchased at http://www.Amazon.com.

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Dedication

I dedicate this book to Araceli R. Andrada, the best female friend I have ever known.

Contents

Dedication

A Society Dying of Loneliness

31 Days in Hell

(From Breakup to Wakeup)

Alcohol, Anger, and Abuse

Judging Others

Drinking, Drugging, & Running

A Man is Logic,

A Woman is Emotion

Once Born, Men Know How to

Fix the Car & the House?

A Woman’s Place Is….?

(Protecting the Nest)

What a Woman Needs versus

What a Woman Wants

Words Both Genders Never Forget (Corrosive Comments)

Dragging Up the Past

Cakeholes versus Earholes

(Truly Listening)

Do You Know Yourself, Really?

So, You Have Captured Her Heart?

Appreciating Her Honesty

Financial Security versus

Emotional Security

Building Her Up,

Not Tearing Her Down

Saying, Then Writing Thank You! (Appreciation)

Putting Her First, Kids Second

Finding Out Her Pet Peeves

(Pets, Guns, the House, & Shopping)

Arrogant Pride (Driving and Directions as Example)

Did You Have a Mother?

(Hygiene, Dress, Bed sheets, Surrogate Mother, Being Her Trophy)

Asking Her Where the Landmines Might Be Then Checking (Background and Credit Checks, Transcripts)

Are You Protector and Provider?

Understanding Her Culture and Yours

Does She Need You or Want You?

Do You Need Her or Want Her?

Is Woman Spare Ribs

or a Soul-mate?

Saying What She Needs

and Wants to Hear

Letting Her Know

Your Dreams and Goals

Not Being Afraid to Be of Service

Is This Your Dream or Hers, Really?

Asking Her for Help

Pictures in the Wallets

and On the Walls

Women Love the Chase

and Making Up

Remembering the Little Things

(Consideration and Appreciation)

Words to Songs with Deep Meaning

Becoming Her Heart and Holding It: My Promises (Vows)

Keeping God at the

Center of the Relationship

Praying for Good Mates

for Your Children

Remaining the Post (Becoming Gentleness, Kindness, & Caring)

Encouraging Others to

Share Their Experiences

A Society Dying of Loneliness

Hey, guys, one need only to turn on the evening news or log onto the Internet to discover that the world is falling apart when it comes to maintaining relationships. The causes for such breakups in relationships are many; however, the symptoms are as well. The greatest result of all of these issues causes loneliness for individuals. It is systemic and it is curable. This small book should help.

31 Days in Hell

 (From Breakup to Wakeup)

From December 07, 2010 until January 08, 2011 I went through the worst breakup