Passages of Our Broken Hearts (Volume 1)

By Phillip Singer

When poetry meets heartbreak,Passages of Our Broken Hearts is born and life changing. Gain introductory advice on how to move on from your past relationship and read 32 astounding passages from Author Phillip Singer guaranteed to take a story right out of your life's own book. Read 10 passages from his followers as well. Get your questions answered in the Frequently Asked Question section as well. Visit www.facebook.com/breakingup2breakingout for more passages not included in the book that are new! See why BreakingUp2BreakingOut has over 75,000 followers!

1 FREE PASSAGE below taken from this E-book and if you enjoy this you will love the book!

I cried..I cried when you told me it was my fault...that I am the one who always causes the problems... that if we never met, your life would be better. I cried when I threatened to leave you, and instead of you trying to fight for me to stay, you retreated and told me to leave then...when i ask if everything is ok, and you lie and tell me yes..When everything you use to do made me smile, now everything you do puts me on the verge of tears..when you forget about what I like, special days we have shared, or what it felt like to love me like you used too. When you accused me of being with another person..going through my phone, checking my social networks, and asking my friends.. When i text you Goodnight, and I wait for a goodnight back, and get nothing. I cried when you said maybe we should take a break, or you don't want to see me, and when I feel like your attraction to me is fading. We kiss less..hold hands less..hug less..talk less.. You were everything i have ever wanted and more...and now were just..less..but ever since we took that break...I cry less...I'm sad less..I’m worth more..I love more...more of myself...but less of you... I cried when I realized that I let you treat me the way you did..because when I cried..you didn't care or ask why...now when you cry, I won't be by your side...and I am completely content with that.. because I deserve more..unlike what you have told me, no more tears will be shed in your memory..no more crying myself to sleep with hopes of changing your mind..because now, Iv changed mine, and for that reason, I no longer cry....

Have you had a relationship breakup or broken relationship in the past? Phil has been mending broken hearts on his BreakingUp2BreakingOut page for close to a year now and has heard many love lost and love found stories.These poems and advice will get you over your heartache more smoothly and you will not suffer from broken heart syndrome any longer!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Phillip Singer
• Release date: May 7, 2016
• ISBN: 9781311383600

Phillip Singer

Some of you may know me if you're an avid follower of BreakingUp2BreakingOut on Facebook. For those who do not, here is my personal introduction. My name is Phil, I am a male. Yes it's true. A guy that knows about feelings, as crazy as it sounds.As of today, I am 27 years old, and currently living in the state of New Jersey in the United States. I have been dating since around the 7th grade, which should equate to around 12 years old here in United States. Sounds young right? I’ll go ahead and agree with you on that one. I grew up in the time that the internet was just coming to its real beginnings with America Online, also known as A.O.L. I would even talk to girls in chat rooms and through AIM instant messaging.Throughout my life, I would try and talk to girls whenever or wherever I could. Whether at school, events, social gatherings,online, clubs, bars, all throughout my life until current day. So I have heard my fair share of stories from women throughout my years, and have had my fair share of experiences with them also. Some more pleasant than others, but most importantly, all a learning experience.Over time, you start to piece together all of these facts or implications that you have learned, and bring it into your next relationship. Sometimes this happens without you even noticing. The first time I fell in love was around 19 and had been with my girlfriend around 8 months. I was attached to this girl so disgustingly much I couldn't imagine functioning without her. After around 8 months, my clingyness finally reached her breaking point, and she sent me a text message at around 7:15am that said “ I can't do this anymore.” I called her, she didn't answer. I texted her,no answer. I drove to her house and knocked on her door,no answer. This was the first time my heart was broken. From there I was in and out of relationships for a few years, with my longest only being two years. Then after having a bad experience of liking a girl who didn't like me as much,she deserted me with no notice and I was completely lost. Lost to the point I google searched “ How to meet girls”. Since that point, at around 24 years old, I discovered self development material and also relationship material. I found it in books and on YouTube everywhere.I was obsessed with it. I made the decision to implement all this material into my life and into my relationship with women. If you're a woman reading this, you can do the same with men of course also. I noticed a huge improvement in my life and outlook on life in general. I extremely encourage you to look into self development and dive into as much free material online that you can find from many different teachers. So at that time I was single and just being friends with benefits ( yes I know, being naughty) with girls here and there and my close friends knew that I was pretty good with women (in the most non conceited way possible) My guy coworker was talking to me about girls one day at my job and had explained that he hasn't been with a girl in over 3 years. “Been with” here meaning a relationship or even a kiss or more. He started going on about how he still couldn't get over his ex girlfriend which was his last relationship. So I started giving him some advice. Then I started thinking about how when I needed help with women, there was a place for me to go or material to at least look at. It was a shame that this guy doesn't have a place to go, or someone to talk to. I have always been that guy that girls come to for advice when their boyfriend says this or did that. I have always been the guy that girls vent to about their relationships. They tell me how they feel and they ask me for my opinion. So I have always tried to give people my true opinion on their situation and my opinion also as a guy. When I needed advice on girls, people would be there for me also. So it dawned on me when my coworker asked me for advice that day. Once I was done giving him advice when I was talking to him he says “ man I should write this down.” So I thought the same exact thing. I knew if I could just put my opinion or some advice out there to help a few people, then it would all be worth it. This is how BreakingUp2BreakingOut was born.I thought about the idea for a few days, and then made a new Facebook business account titled BreakingUp2BreakingOut on July 20th, 2015. I had previous experience promoting a concert event that was held in New Jersey before on Facebook, so I was already familiar with how to promote the page and posts. I created a few posts and received amazing feedback,messages, and comments. I have been messaged from people seeking advice daily. If it was not for so much engagement and positive feedback from fans of the page, I would have most likely given up. I reached 50,000 followers January 15th, 2016, which is around 6 months time, which to me, was unbelievable. It was unbelievable that I would make posts and so many people would respond “ I can relate to this” or “ I’m going through the exact same thing” or “ You took the words right of my mouth.” It makes people realize that their situation is more prevalent than they ever would have thought.

Book preview

Introduction

Love speaks many languages. Love is the only feeling that has a million different definitions that varies from person to person. It can make people do things they would never dreamed of doing.Love makes you embrace and struggle with different emotions daily. Although,one fact that everyone in the world can agree on, is that once love is broken, life comes to a drastic halt. Everyone struggles at this point where a relationship ends. No one ever thoroughly explains how to make it through this period after a breakup. We all just sit back and try to decide where we went wrong, or what happened to encourage the breakup. Millions of thoughts come across our mind and thousands of questions haunt us day by day. How long were they thinking about leaving me? When did they stop loving me? Did they ever love me or was it all just a lie? I wonder if they were cheating on me as well? Why me? We want to know the exact truth of what happened, and not a lie made up to make us feel more at ease. Sometimes we do not even get a reason of why we were left, they just abandon us. No calls, no text messages, no contact, just disappear without any notification. They may block or reject our calls,unfriend us on social media accounts, or the dagger of changing their relationship status to single online without even breaking up with you first. You may receive a text or hear the words we have to talk or I have something to tell you. Your stomach drops, your heart starts beating quickly, and you start to feel weak. You feel like you know what is coming, but you just can't comprehend how and why now? But what you do know is that what is about to come out their mouth is about to shatter you and may change your life forever. Some of you may say it’s not that bad and I completely understand where you're coming from. It all depends on what situation the person is in. Some people have been married for years,engaged, have children, or have been through some extenuating circumstances with each other. But no matter what your situation is, you will most likely still feel hurt. Someone has chosen to leave you. They have given up hope on continuing your love and destroying everything the two of you have built in the process. But what do I know? Who am I to tell you how you feel? Well, let's clarify that!

Chapter 2

How BreakingUp2BreakingOut Began

Some of you may know me if you're an avid follower of BreakingUp2BreakingOut on Facebook. For those who do not, here is my personal introduction. My name is Phil, I am a male. Yes it's true. A guy that knows about feelings, as crazy as it sounds.As of today, I am 27 years old, and currently living in the state of New Jersey in the United States. I have been dating since around the 7th grade, which should equate to around 12 years old here in United States. Sounds young right? I’ll go ahead and agree with you on that one. I grew up in the time that the internet was just coming to its real beginnings with America Online, also known as A.O.L. I would even talk to girls in chat rooms and through AIM instant messaging.Throughout my life, I would try and talk to girls whenever or wherever I could. Whether at school, events, social gatherings,online, clubs, bars, all throughout my life until current day. So I have heard my fair share of stories from women throughout my years, and have had my fair share of experiences with them also. Some more pleasant than others, but most importantly, all a learning experience.

Over time, you start to piece together all of these facts or implications that you have learned, and bring it into your next relationship. Sometimes this happens without you even noticing. The first time I fell in love was around 19 and had been with my girlfriend around 8 months. I was attached to this girl so disgustingly much I couldn't imagine functioning without her. After around 8 months, my clinginess finally reached her breaking point, and she sent me a text message at around 7:15am that said I can't do this anymore. I called her, she didn't answer. I texted her,no answer. I drove to her house and knocked on her door,no answer. This was the first time my heart was broken. From there I was in and out of relationships for a few years, with my longest only being two years. Then after having a bad experience of liking a girl who didn't like me as much,she deserted me with no notice and I was completely lost. Lost to the point I google searched How to meet girls. Since that point, at around 24 years old, I discovered self development material and also relationship material. I found it in books and on YouTube everywhere.I was obsessed with it. I made the decision to implement all this material into my life and into my relationship with women. If you're a woman reading this, you can do the same with men of course also. I noticed a huge improvement in my life and outlook on life in general. I extremely encourage you to look into self development and dive into as much free material online that you can find from many different teachers. So at that time I was single and just being friends with benefits ( yes I know, being naughty) with girls here and there and my close friends knew that I was pretty good with women (in the most non conceited way possible) My guy coworker was talking to me about girls one day at my job and had explained that he hasn't been with a girl in over 3 years. Been with here meaning a relationship or even a kiss or more. He started going on about how he still couldn't get over his ex girlfriend which was his last relationship. So I started giving him some advice. Then I started thinking about how when I needed help with women, there was a place for me to go or material to at least look at. It was a shame that this guy doesn't have a place to go, or someone to talk to. I have always been that guy that girls come to for advice when their boyfriend says this or did that. I have always been the guy that girls vent to about their relationships. They tell me how they feel and they ask me for my opinion. So I have always tried to give people my true opinion on their situation and my opinion also as a guy. When I needed advice on girls, people would be there for me also. So it dawned on me when my coworker asked me for advice that day. Once I was done giving him advice when I was talking to him he says man I should write this down. So I thought the same exact thing. I knew if I could just put my opinion or some advice out there to help a few people, then it would all be worth it. This is how BreakingUp2BreakingOut was born.

I thought about the idea for a few days, and then made a new Facebook business account titled BreakingUp2BreakingOut on July 20th, 2015. I had previous experience promoting a concert event that was held in New Jersey before on Facebook, so I was already familiar with how to promote the page and posts. I created a few posts and received amazing feedback,messages, and comments. I have been messaged from people seeking advice daily. If it was not for so much engagement and positive feedback from fans of the page, I would have most likely given up. I reached 50,000 followers January 15th, 2016, which is around 6 months time, which to me, was unbelievable. It was unbelievable that I would make posts and so many people would respond I can relate to this or " I’m going