True Stories From the Internet; The Psycho Ex-wives and Girlfriends Support Group

By Smashwords

True Stories From the Internet; The Psycho Ex-wives and Girlfriends Support Group is a collection of short anecdotes, frustrations and stories from a collection of strangers with only one thing in common; their ex-partners (or partner's ex-partner) is making their lives hell.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Smashwords
• Release date: Sep 18, 2014

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TRUE STORIES FROM THE PSYCHO EX-WIVES AND GIRLFRIENDS SUPPORT CLUB

Smashwords Edition

Copyright, 2014.

License Notes; All rights reserved. Any names or similarities between anyone living or dead is entirely coincidental. This book is also available in print at most online retailers.

INTRODUCTION TO THE CLUB

It is what it is.

These are true stories from the Internet, a blog that was set up years ago as part therapy, part cry for help. The response was welcoming. It has since fallen dormant but if these stories help others out there realize they are not alone, so be it.

All entries are in their original format; no editing or spell checking has been done to their original post other than to changes names and places in order to protect identities. These are but sample of our stories…

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INTRODUCTION TO THE EX-WIVES AND GIRLFRIENDS SUPPORT CLUB

Although i am not web-design functional enough to design my own website, i hereby offer the following support group to those people that have been or are being so F#$#d up by either their ex-wife or their significant other’s ex-wife. That’s right men and women, for I know that my ex-wife doesn’t represent the majority of womankind. So if you are getting so mentally skewered that you (like myself) have gone on the internet looking for such a support group and have found this link, welcome! You are not alone.  

I’ll start – i live in a small town in northern CCC. I married my wife after 6 weeks, at her insistence. She’s 30 and wanted babies. I’m 35 and wanting babies in a healthy relationship, which i believed would happen while working on the baby part. When she wasn’t pregnant in the first 2 months of the marriage, she went to a fertility clinic who laughed her out, telling her to come back in a year. Due to my job (i work with sex offenders undergoing treatment in the community) she never felt ‘safe’ enough to live with me and so in the 2nd month of marriage she told me that it was either her or my career. I chose the career, and that’s when the ‘psycho’ tag started becoming more prevalent. A lot of arguing about her biological clock, which I learned is apparently really a thing.

I just celebrated 6 months of my poser marriage by serving her divorce papers and now she’s threatening to rip me a new asshole on her own personal blog (that she thinks i read and she’s right – i copy and paste it into a file for the later court appearance that is no doubt pending). She also told me she is pregnant and although i know of 4 different guys she has gone out with, she is insisting i am the father. She says she is now attending therapy, AA, and even talked to another wife in the program for support – all things i asked her to do 3 months ago when there was a small chance that i was crazy enough to reconsider our marriage vows. 

Yet life goes on. She was served today and in the 12 hours since, she has threatened to ‘out’ my house to the neighbourhood, to ‘out’ my employer who contracts with the gov’t, to ‘out’ the others that i work with as well. It’s been fucking hell. She’s stated that the papers weren’t correct as her maiden name wasn’t her maiden name at birth…. (say what?, you might ask as do i) and that she’s supposed to get an affidavit, which is what the person serving her signs to give to the court to say that she was served. I could go on, and probably will at a later date. If you have dropped in pls feel free to help me feel not alone by sharing your psycho ex-wife stories with the rest of us. Misery loves company.

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I noticed that you wrote this in Jan and no comment and here it is July! I feel so sorry for you and hope all is better by now (ie, no baby to support). I got on here because I feel for men who have to go through this bull****, as my own man has a psycho ex-wife and I have to indirectly have to put up with it as well. I am just sorry that men don’t REALLY GET TO KNOW these idiots before marrying them! What is up with that? Men have to correct that crap for themselves.

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I know I am not alone. Neither are you… or, I imagine, many many others.

I started blogging about my ongoing nightmare…

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I have a psycho ex-wife too. She has been violating the permanent parenting plan and prohibiting me from seeing my 11yr old son. Because of her, I’ve missed out on one spring break vacation, two normal visits and this past Christmas break. She’s popped my tires 3 times now and once for my brother and once for my mother too. Of course, I can’t prove this, though. Now she’s called the department of children’s services on me saying that I harm my child (which of course, I don’t). She makes my life hell and is ruining our son with her divisive head-games. The scary part about her is that she has two personalities: the one that’s generous and fun and caring, and then the psycho once you cross some invisible threshold in her mind. Sadly, I crossed that threshold at some point in our 14 year marriage. Divorced two years ago… ya think we’d be done with this garbage already!?!

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Oh I forgot to mention in my last post. She tried to poison me with bleach in my Milk. However, the police refused to investigate as I was not seriously harmed!

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I fortunitly I don’t have an ex wife. But I have been on the recieving end of one. I met my partner two months after his divorce Nisi papars came through. Instantly the dynamics changed for my new partner