Why They Cheat

By Mouna M Fall

Always wondering why you have been cheated on, maybe scared to be cheated on?
How do we ensure my partner will never cheat on me?
What type of relationship am I on? Will this person be worthy of my forgiveness?

• Language: English
• Publisher: Balboa Press
• Release date: Jun 27, 2022
• ISBN: 9798765227060

Mouna M Fall

Married 3 times, hair stylist for 20 years. She heard the confessions of hundreds of men and women about their extraordinary relationship and hard to believe stories and endings. Her grandma was a relationship counselor, and since the youngest age, she learned about relationship struggle and wisdom from an elder African woman married to the same man all her life with ten kids never a cheating story. She pointed out several truths and revealed a lot of red flags. The book was proofread by 2 renowned psychologists, a male and a woman, and they cannot wait to recommend it to their patient as it will save them so much session.

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Balboa Press rev. date: 06/15/2022

Contents

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Chapter One

Chapter Two

Chapter Three

Chapter Four

Chapter Five

Chapter Six

Chapter Seven

Chapter Eight

Chapter Nine

Chapter Ten

Chapter Eleven

Chapter Twelve

Closing

This is why they cheat!

I decided to write this book in order to answer a few questions. Most people have so many concerns and misunderstandings about Loyalty.

Men and Women should be able to find some answers as well as some type of closure.

Now let’s make it clear that I do not have all the answers. This subject is so vast. Neither, the most popular reasons have been definitely highlighted. I am aware of differences of opinions, denials, acceptances and accountability.

Therefore, all I do mostly is to spread the Love.

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Let’s define MAN!

After several research it came to:

Adult Male Human!

So to be a man, you have to first be an adult, then a male and I guess a human will do.

Now I have decided to define the word ADULT!

So after reviewing a few definitions I picked this one! Cause I like it!

Biologically, an adult is a human or other organism that has reached sexual maturity. In human context, the term adult additionally has meanings associated with social and legal concepts. In contrast to a minor, a legal adult is a person who has attained the age of majority and is therefore regarded as independent, self-sufficient, and responsible.

Well at least we hope for the best.

Ok now what?

MALE

of or denoting the sex that produces small, typically motile gametes, especially spermatozoa, with which a female may be fertilized or inseminated to produce offspring.

I guess let’s define HUMAN so we can move on!

Now that was not easy to find a definition I could truly appreciate so I went with this:

Of or characteristic of people as opposed to God or animals or machines, especially in being susceptible to weaknesses.

I will go over each detail of the definition as we move on with this book.

My definition of a man will be:

Weak Male Adult with a Sex to be only use as a gender locator.

To be fair I will use the same definition to describe a woman; simply replace Male by Female!

Just kidding Women don’t cheat!

We can debate this all day long if you want to argue.

I have never ever ever seen a woman cheat, periodttttt.

Yes!

Let me think about …

Yes, final answer!

My definition of a man will be:

Weak Male Adult with a Sex to be only use as a gender locator.

Which I will refer to sometime in the book as a W.A.S instead of Man just for fun but mostly as a reminder, we still need them wonderful men.

After all, who will fix the plumbing issues?

The deal is that the majority of human wants to have sex, preferably with as many partners available.

Could be for the experience, the curiosity or simply for the pleasure. Therefore whenever the opportunity presents itself, it’s a go.

Biologically it’s imperative for any human to have sex with as many sexual partner as they physically can handle; originally in order to procreate as a survival natural instinct.

So sex in his act it’s not necessarily a bad thing or an action under our control. We heard excuses as if I had enough at home I wouldn’t cheat.

She seduced me.

I didn’t know we were exclusive.

I can’t do certain things with my partner.

There’s something special about this girl.

I didn’t know it would have ended up with sex and so on…

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I am leaving space so you can add your own!

We have heard it all! Most of the excuses have been covered.

Now it’s time to know the real reasons behind the treasons.

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#Number 1 Reason is due to the

Lack of Social Support:

Social support is defined as an informant leading a person to believe that he or she is cared for, loved; esteemed also, who is a member of a network of mutual obligations.

A W.A.S may have been subjected to some sort of neglect behavior; from their parents or simply a lack