THE birth of your children is supposed to be the pinnacle of married life. So, after almost 20 years of marriage and with two fantastic daughters, am I thanking my lucky stars my wife and I made the leap from partners to parents?
In short, no.
The truth is, deep down, I don’t think any man ever wants to swop those heady days of coupledom for becoming a family unit.
Who can deny children introduce stress and strife into a relationship? And parenthood often turns a formerly loving couple into, at best, exhausted comrades in arms – at worst, adversaries.
In particular, it spells disaster for the one area of a marriage that many men believe to be the most important: your sex life. I’m convinced