How to Break Up with Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend: Because you've been waiting far too long!

By Michael Freeman

Need to break up, but can't?

Sometimes it can feel impossible to finally let go, especially when you’re overcome with guilt, and you just don’t know how you’re going to break it off.

Do you need to know:

* What is the best way to break-up?
* How can I do it in a way that causes the least pain?
* What can I do about all this guilt that is keeping me trapped?
* What if we’re engaged, or if we share an apartment, or if I have no money?
* How do I deal with attempts to manipulate me emotionally?
* What do I do if I know he/she will freak out?!

This is the definitive breakup book for both men and women, guiding you through your breakup step-by-step. If you’re thinking of breaking up, but you’re hesitating for any reason...you need this book.

So many people wait weeks, months or even years in relationships that they no longer want. Don’t waste your life with someone who is no longer a match for you. This is the only book of its kind: No fluff (under 40 pages) of exactly what you need to leave your relationship with as little pain as possible.

Isn’t it time to end this relationship and move on with your life?

You’ll learn:

* The one thing you can do to cut to the chase and finally breakup
* How to get over the emotional paralysis that keeps you from taking action
* The ten big unconscious reasons why you may be staying
* How to make a firm decision, and stand by it (no more flip-flopping!)
* Ways to stop his or her manipulation
* How to silence attempts to paint you as the bad guy/girl

This book will help you determine if you need to break up, and then help you do so compassionately, without getting stuck along the way.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Michael Freeman
• Release date: Oct 21, 2015
• ISBN: 9781310840388

Michael Freeman

Micheal Freeman is a "breakup expert," helping men and women leave unhappy, unhealthy relationships. His qualifications include 15 years intensive study of psychology, an M.A. in the social sciences, two books, dozens of published articles, and a popular online relationship and breakup advice blog (relationshipbreakup101.com).

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How to Break Up

With Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend

Michael Freeman, M.A.

Smashwords Edition

Copyright 2013 Michael Freeman

TABLE OF CONTENTS

Author’s Note

A Way Out

What’s Going On?

When A Relationship Becomes A Prison

Fight, Flight Or Freeze

Power Balance

Identifying An Unhealthy Relationship

Abuse

Psychological Abuse

Physical Abuse

The Illusion Of The Trap

The Test

The Basis For Leaving

Are You Staying For The Wrong Reasons?

The Cycle Of Indecision

Permission To Leave

Special Considerations: Children

The Break-up

The Action Plan

Questions That Don’t Need Answers

Tears

Final Word

Author’s Note

The content within this ebook is not intended as legal, medical, or mental health advice, and makes no claim as such. The information is offered as-is, without warranty, and the reader assumes all risks from using the information herein. The author disclaims any and all liability from the information provided—including health, medical, psychological or any other information. You should always consult your own health care provider or mental health professional concerning any health or psychological problem or disorder, and your legal representative regarding all legal issues.

Although the author has a Master’s degree in the Social Sciences and considers himself knowledgeable in the realm of psychology and relationships, he is not acting as a psychology or health professional, and cannot be held responsible for any actions you take or the results of the content that follows.

A Way Out

"You shall be free indeed not when your days are without a care nor your nights without a want and a grief,

But rather when these things girdle your life and yet you rise above them naked and unbound."

- On Freedom: The Prophet, by Kahlil Gibran

This book was written to address a real problem, one that is widespread through our society, and one that almost every person encounters at some point in their life. This problem is of countless men and women who find themselves stuck in a relationship with a person who is not their ideal partner, and that in some cases is damaging them on an emotional, mental, spiritual, financial and even physical level. Despite knowing deep down that a relationship is not right for them, many people find it almost impossible to extract themselves from their partner. Like quicksand, an