Women Bullying Women: An Effect Of Women's Lib

By Carolyn Franklin M.A.

After being oppressed since the dawn of Life, Women’s Lib has unleashed the Cats from Hell. Here’s the problem Women’s Liberation created: Instead of traditional female bullying weapons of choice - snide remarks, contemptuous looks, derisive laughter, back stabbing - women emulate men in brain-dead bullying tactics of physical violence. Women want to be men.
Violence feeds the press and the press feeds the violence. Violence has become pervasive. Women have turned to physical bullying to increase self-esteem. Here are two reasons how Women’s Lib encourages:

1. The loss of identity; who are we now? Previous roles of mothers, wives, whipping boys, are no longer viable. It’s New Woman vs True Woman- an agonizing inner struggle. True Woman sticks to old beliefs the same way my spaghetti sauce sticks to the kitchen ceiling – unsightly and hard to remove. She clashes with New Woman for the status quo. New Woman fights back to claim her place in the sun. Pointless.

2. Now, what do we do? So, as free women, how do we act? There are no models of freedom to show how to behave. Our models are men who based their leadership on force and subjugation of women. Women need to create new models. Subjugation each other is pointless and archaic. We need to stand tall - together, men and women.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Carolyn Franklin M.A.
• Release date: Sep 24, 2015
• ISBN: 9781311660824

Carolyn Franklin M.A.

M. A. Communication StudiesM. A. EducationB. A. Psychology30 years voice training (San Francisco Opera)Voice/Speech improvement CoachContact Carolyn - [e-mail]

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WOMEN BULLYING WOMEN:

A Effect of Women’s Lib

Carolyn Franklin M.A.

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Content

MEN PLAY WOMAN AGAINST WOMAN

1. NEANDERTHAL BULLIES

2. EVENTUALLY MARRIAGE WAS CREATED

3. GOD AND MAN

4. SEEDS OF DISCONTENT

5. COGNITIVE DISSONANCE

6. TRANSFERENCE

7. THE MAGICAL POWERS OF WOMEN

8. THE STOCKHOLM SYNDROME

9. TWO REASONS HOW WOMEN’S LIBERATION EFFECTS WOMEN BULLYING WOMEN.

10. BULLYING AT LARGE

11. TODAY: TRUE WOMAN BULLYING NEW WOMAN

12. BATTERED WOMEN SYNDROME

13. NEGATING WOMEN - AN ACCEPTED PRACTICE

14. ETHNIC BULLYING

15. SOCIAL MEDIA

16. BULLYING AND RELIGION

17. PRO LIFE BULLIES

18. IT’S EASIER TO BE BULLIED THAN TAKE ACTION

19. THE SECRET MESSAGE OF SNOW WHITE AND SLEEPING BEAUTY

20. WOMEN: BULLY WEAPONS OF CHOICE

21. TODAY: BULLYING AND REDEFINING ROLES

22. THE GUILT TRIP

23. WHAT Y’SHOULDA SAID

24. FEMINISM

25. STANFORD STUDENTS: FORMIDABLE BULLIES

26. BULLYING TODAY

27. MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE

28. A SOLUTION TO BULLYING

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

OTHER BOOKS BY CAROLYN FRANKLIN

MEN PLAY WOMAN AGAINST WOMAN

It was on the news tonight – from across the world - in the mid-east, women bullying women. Yes, half-way across the world the story is the same, women are bullying women.

In the mid-east ISIS had commandeered women to patrol areas for women violating females’ dress codes. If a female dress should reveal more than an ankle or a wrist, the penalty was severe. The female spies may give offenders 40 lashes as punishment, however trivial or subjective the offense is. Sentence and judgment are based solely on the female spy’s opinion.

This is an excellent example of divide and conquer. The spies want to stay on the good side of the bad guys so the spies can attempt to be safe from punishment. What they don’t understand is, ultimately, they are women - there is no difference between the victims and their oppressors.

In a place where it’s dangerous for a woman, it’s dangerous for any woman - no female is safe from harm. Pitting woman against woman is entertainment for the oppressors; there is no good side.

Fear rules. Bullies win…temporarily.

Here, in America, the strategies to keep women in line, under control, are more subtle, psychological. It’s far more insidious to control someone by psychological manipulation which means it can be interpreted as a misunderstanding or dismissed as she’s being too sensitive. Not only is she bullied but she has no tangible proof to support her claim.

In this way a victim is in a catch 22 situation; she’s getting bullied, insulted or threatened, but it’s nebulous, a he said, she said situation - a double whammy, hurtful and frustrating, impossible to prove. Yet causes considerable suffering.

In Boston, Jane, an American chef trained under Julia Childs, was popular with the diners at a high-level IT company. The owner of the restaurant under-paid Chef Jane. She was willing to accept the lesser pay as she accepted the tradition women were worth less and so paid less. But, when the owner gave her a time schedule in which he dictated specific times she could us the ladies’ room, Jane drew the line. This was degrading and bullying. At that restriction, Chef Jane gave her letter of resignation. The owner promptly hired a French chef (female) who proclaimed she would beat Jane at putting out the best menu.

To beat someone, at putting out a menu, assumes the male role of physical prowess - why do you need muscles to design a menu? This image of beating is unnecessary. She could have just put out a menu and let it speak for itself. Why does one need physical superiority to serve a properly roasted, medium rare chateaubriand?

Those are two recent cases of women who involuntarily followed instructions of men, not realizing that men are using them as a form of entertainment and control; the women were bullied into submission and saw each other as adversaries - divide and conquer. Not only were these women controlled by men - in a sense, bullied, but the male competition strategy was copied and enacted in their relationship to each other. Like puppets, the men pulled the strings and the women danced, allowing themselves to be totally controlled by the males.

It’s like in the days of the Roman gladiators in the Colosseum; it’s all entertainment for the men but the women take it seriously - they really think they can win. All the more fun for the men.

It’s entertainment.

1. NEANDERTHAL BULLIES.

Cavemen were bullies

Since the beginning of time, men had value. They did the hunting, dragged something edible in the shelter for dinner and warded off predators. They provided the basics of life: Food, shelter and safety.

Females had no specific skills related to survival. Culinary skills had not yet been perfected, so women would hack up a lunch of raw meat and grind up seeds for soup. They would skin the animals and loop together mix and match skins for winter wear.

Out of necessity and common sense males assumed leadership of the group and women fit in where they could, as helpers and facilitators. Females readily understood their survival depended on submission to the male.

The major contribution of women to survival was their ability to bear offsprings. Every child born added strength to the group and increased their chance of survival. Birthing was hazardous for the child and for the mother. It was imperative for the woman to be on good terms with everyone in the family, in particular the other women who would probably be assisting in the birthing process.

The new mother had to be fed and kept comfortable as well as meet the baby’s needs. Assuming even then, in a cave or in a mud hut, the mother had post-partum blues; physically and mentally she would be extremely vulnerable to any one in the vicinity. If the men were out hunting that meant the mother-in-law would be in charge. If she didn’t like the new