Outdated: Find Love That Lasts When Dating Has Changed

Written by Jonathan Pokluda and Kevin McConaghy

Narrated by Jonathan JP Pokluda

Everyone wants to be loved-to find someone who will stick with them through all of life's ups and downs, someone who is in it for the long haul. But in a world where dating is increasingly based on split-second decisions and geared toward casual relationships rather than marriage, it's easy for single people to feel discouraged, used, or unworthy of true love and lasting affection. Reality just never seems to match up with our (often wildly unrealistic) expectations.

Jonathan "JP" Pokluda has counseled thousands of young singles through the pain and heartbreak of dating the world's way. Now he wants to dispel the myths, misconceptions, and fairy tales you've believed about dating and replace them with the truth from the One who invented marriage, created you to crave relationship, and is the very embodiment of true love. With plenty of true stories about relationships healed and love found, this practical book explains God's purposes for singleness, dating, and marriage and covers why you should date, who you should date, and how you should date.

If you're ready to trade the world's way of dating for the way that actually works, it's time to begin dating well.

• Language: English
• Publisher: ChristianAudio.com
• Release date: Mar 2, 2021
• ISBN: 9781545916971

Reviews for Outdated

[Madeline Taylor · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

This is sooo good! I have reevaluated the way I look at dating and I intend on changing my approach to it in the future.

[Ivana Natasha · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

a very good reminder for christian dating. lot of facts based on the truth. timeless truth.

[camie woods · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Amazing book and really gets you thinking on a realistic but logical level of how things are and how the world is.

[Lelia · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Culturally timely. Easy to listen to and biblically sound. Really appreciate how the author sharing his experiences and giving relatable examples. A must for teens about to venture into the world of getting ready to receive the spouse God will provide!

[Isaac Boamah · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Absolutely amazing. Wish I had this before I made so many decisions in my past

[Ali Bryan · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

This book is a must read/listen! No matter if your young or old this book will give you the step by step to going from 1st date to marriage and beyond (the biblical way) 10/10

[Makayla Meltzer · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

By far the best book on dating and marriage I have ever come across. Such a well laid out explanation and steps to dating right and preparing to have a great marriage.

[kyle miller · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Fantastic book on the fundamentals of dating. He has a great viewpoint on the subject

[Micah Torgerson · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Well worth lending the few hours of your listening time for the wisdom in this book!

[julie · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Loved this book!
So much truth for today’s culture.

[Jubilee Nwachukwu · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Straight to the point and very informative. I enjoyed listening to this book especially as it was voiced by the author.

[Walter · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Wholesome book! No sugarcoating, just deep, relatable and honest content ?

[Melissa M. · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

Very good and sensible. A lot of it I had heard before, but were also good reminders.