How We Love: Discover Your Love Style, Enhance Your Marriage

Written by Adam Verner, Kay Yerkovich and Milan Yerkovich

Identify the source of missteps in your marriage–and learn exactly what you can do about it!Tired of arguing with your spouse over the same old issues? Longing for a marriage with less conflict and more intimacy? Struggling under a load of resentment?In How We Love, relationship experts Milan and Kay Yerkovich draw on the powerful tool of attachment theory to show how your early life experiences created an “intimacy imprint”–an underlying blueprint that shapes your behavior, beliefs, and expectations of all relationships, especially your marriage. They identify four types of injured imprints that combine in marriage to trap couples in a repetitive dance of pain. The groundbreaking principles and practical, solution-focused tools in this book will equip you to…·identify the imprints disrupting your marriage,·understand how your love style impacts your mate,·break free of negative patterns that hinder your relationship,·enhance your sexual intimacy, and·create the deeper, richer marriage of your dreams.Discover the truths that have transformed countless relationships– including the authors’ marriage–so you can stop stepping on each other’s toes and instead be swept along by the music of a richer, more passionate relationship.

• Language: English
• Publisher: ChristianAudio.com
• Release date: Jan 31, 2016
• ISBN: 9781633897113

Reviews for How We Love

[Jessica Grissom · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

This is super insightful and doesn’t have the toxic masculinity ick that so many marriage books have! I love the practical advice and I am working through the workbook to help my personal journey of learning to love well.

[craig king · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Very insightful and useful for relationships. Concepts really helped us understand each other and give us more compassion.

[S King · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

From the beginning, we have been recommending this book and will continue! What a great insight :-)

[Sophia Forester · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Reading this book for the first time has been profoundly helpful so I look forward to more insights when going through it again!

[Uche Okwechime · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

It was very practical and relatable. The book helped me understand myself and the people I love better.

[John Teal · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Excellent book for opening greater understanding into who we are and how we love!

[mila sousa · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

It’s one of the best book I ever read! So many insights! Self analysis.. I wish they had this book in Portuguese.. so I could give to everyone I know!

[Sam Abraham · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Very detailed yet simple to understand greatly appreciate it and recommend it to all families.

[readerscandyb · Rating: 3 out of 5 stars]

I went into this one thinking I'd find insight on how to strengthen an already strong marriage. Sadly, this one just opened up old wounds and made me feel cold inside. It had great information, but I think it focused way too much energy on the childhood influence of marriage. I agree and understand that where we come from and how we're raised plays a strong role in relationships, but I was hoping for more of a "now approach". I wanted tips on what works, what doesn't and also tips on how we can spice up the romance and spark up conversation. This one kind of counseled you out of a problem, rather than helping you prevent one....

I think people having troubles in their marriage will appreciate this read, but for me, it just didn't work. I'd still recommend it, but go into it seeking help, not guidance.

[arlenadean · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Title: How We Love: Expanded Edition
Author: Milan & Kay Yerkovich
Publisher: WaterBrook
Reviewed By: Arlena Dean
Rating: Five
Review:

"How We Love: Expanded Edition: Discover Your Love Style, Enhance Your Marriage" By: Milan Yerkovich & Kay Yerkovich

My Thoughts....

This was a beautiful knowledgeable read from these two authors!

What I received from this novel....

Wonderful inside information....that offered different exercises to help one with self awareness and growth goals... great in depth workbook

I loved their accurate description of a secure connector:
the Avoider, the Pleaser, the Vacillator, the Controller and the Victim.

I found there was great presentation of case studies that were bought out so clearly.

While reading and working through "How We Love" one can rekindled ones love and even learn respect for each other.

This novel is not only for couples! I found this a wonderful read for working in one's marriage and relationships. This is definitely a help in ones marriage and family. This read can not just "change ones marriage but also every relationship that is important to ones life."

If you are in need of a 'Marriage Counselor' this read will be for you.

After reading "How We Love" the reader will see that its definite a literature that has been well descriptive written, with great research and resources.

The way these authors treatment of this subject along with 'Biblical truths and wisdom will bring a healing that can change ones life.'

I will say this is one of the best self help books that I have had the privilege of reading!

By the end of this read...the reader will get a easy, enjoyable, and well as a fantastic read that I would recommend to all young married couples as well as old.