The Dance of Intimacy

Written by Harriet Lerner

Narrated by Harriet Lerner

The Dance of Intimacy takes a careful look at relationships where intimacy is most challenged by too much emotional distance, too much intensity, or simply too much pain. In clear, direct and dramatic terms, Dr. Lerner illustrates how we can move differently in these relationships -- be they with a distant or unfaithful spouse, a depressed sister, a difficult mother, an alcoholic father, an uncommitted lover, a dying parent, or an estranged family member.And she teaches us about ""the differences that make a difference"" -- the changes we can make in one or two significant relationships that will affect our capacity for intimacy and selfhood for a lifetime.

The Dance of Intimacy offers no ""quick fix"" for the human dilemma that we all confront. Instead, Dr. Lerner offers us the most solid, respectful, and helpful insights on intimate relationships that both men and women may ever encounter. Picking up where the best-selling The Dance of Anger left off, Dr. Lerner redefines the meaning of intimacy for today, and shows how good relationships can be strengthened and difficult ones healed.

• Language: English
• Publisher: HarperAudio
• Release date: May 11, 2004
• ISBN: 9780060774141

Harriet Lerner

Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., is one of our nation’s most loved and respected relationship experts. Renowned for her work on the psychology of women and family relationships, she served as a staff psychologist at the Menninger Clinic for more than two decades. A distinguished lecturer, workshop leader, and psychotherapist, she is the author of The Dance of Anger and other bestselling books. She is also, with her sister, an award-winning children's book writer. She and her husband are therapists in Lawrence, Kansas, and have two sons.

Reviews for The Dance of Intimacy

[Shalane Du Preez · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

This was a very interesting read. Very interesting points, points i pondered and can apply to my life honestly

[Ashley Marie · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Relatable situations and thoughtful, easy to follow steps toward setting boundaries with family and people in our lives.

[Robert Faraon · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

I really got what I should do in my family relationships based on the clear, concise stories of author's patients. Loved the narrative!

[Tay Pres · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

If one wants to grow, take heed! It's great read

[Ace · Rating: 1 out of 5 stars]

This just sounds like a bunch of feminist men bashing...