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Dear Therapist: My Mom Needs Help

I don’t think a day has gone by that she hasn’t cried.
Source: Bianca Bagnarelli

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Dear Therapist,

As a graduating college student, moving home with my parents for the semester came with many changes and challenges. I had to create a new routine, learn to accept my lack of privacy and independence, and adjust to the constant presence of my parents, which I have not experienced in years. My dad and I get along extremely well, but my mom and I are a different story. We have always had a turbulent relationship, and this pandemic has not changed that.

I recognize that my mom has had an especially hard time over the past couple of months. She works as an independent contractor and has

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