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Episode 29: Perfectionism and Proving Your Worth: How to Stop Chasing Approval and Start Living the Life You Actually Want

Episode 29: Perfectionism and Proving Your Worth: How to Stop Chasing Approval and Start Living the Life You Actually Want

FromThe Best of You


Episode 29: Perfectionism and Proving Your Worth: How to Stop Chasing Approval and Start Living the Life You Actually Want

FromThe Best of You

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Length:
70 minutes
Released:
Nov 17, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

OK, buckle up, today's conversation on The Best of You podcast goes deep, and we both get really honest about own struggles. I could have talked with Mary for hours about how to get off the treadmill of perfecting and proving your worth—and start claiming the life you actually want.
You do not want to miss the end where we get into social media, the curse of comparison, and the approval chain from which no one is immune.
We touch on so much in this episode including:
1. The hidden fears that drive us to perfect and prove our way into belonging
2. If we let go of working to earn the approval of others, then what? 
3. The moment Mary discovered that chasing gold stars was not leading her to what she actually wanted
4. The pitfalls and perils of social media
5.  How to get out of comparison traps
6.  The voice in our heads that keeps us running in circles
7.  The real mark of emotional health (and it’s *not* never failing or never feeling hurt)
8. 3 questions to ask yourself as you stop chasing approval
Connect with Mary at www.marymarantz.com/quiz

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Music by Andy Luiten 
Sound editing by Kelly Kramarik
While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.
Released:
Nov 17, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode

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Join counselor and author, Dr. Alison Cook, as she guides you through some of your toughest challenges with wisdom, kindness, and grace. Together with friends and experts we'll unpack the best of psychology from a faith-based perspective. You’ll discover how to break free from painful patterns, mend your past, and discover what brings out the best of you.