TW: Discussion about eating disorder, alcohol and drug abuse, sobriety, and self harmEver wondered why you're not happy all the time? Well, you're not supposed to be! It's okay not to feel the sunshine every day, and sometimes, the cloudy moments are what make the sunny ones shine even brighter.Today, Violetta welcomes Laura Clery, a comedian and influencer best known for her comedy sketches and vlogs about her day-to-day life on social media. Laura shares how she grew in popularity through her viral characters’ Pamela Pumpkin and Hellen Horbath, and later pivoted to documenting her day to day life in a comedic sense.From the highs and lows of existence to the complexities of relationships and personal growth, each chapter delves into the real, unfiltered moments that define our lives; finding humor in life's little annoyances, or navigating the tumultuous waters of divorce. Join us as we laugh and ponder the human experience, one chapter at a time.     What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:05 You’re not meant to feel happy all the time03:51 Do we look alike?06:33 The birth of Pamela Pumpkin 09:01 Then Helen Horbath came to be11:03 The failed pilot show, and then pregnancy came13:23 Manifesting what you want in life17:26 What’s driving me crazy right now20:12 When taxes don’t make sense to you21:22 Do you like talking to yourself?23:43 A thousand random thoughts28:51 I can’t imagine not existing…33:26 Constant criticism about your looks38:24 Competition is an illusion40:39 Why are you getting a divorce?43:23 Public breakup is never easy48:38 Slowing down on work and prioritizing mental health51:46 Implementing boundaries for inner peace54:37 The human resilience in any situation56:33 The effect of divorce on children58:12 What do you do when you’re about to relapse?01:02:21 You can only be strong for so long01:05:21 The Serenity Prayer  Connect with Laura on:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSfJoOxzmSr5ibdGcLN3Ysg https://www.instagram.com/lauraclery https://www.facebook.com/laura.clery/ https://www.tiktok.com/@lauraclery Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.