Step into a world of dating wisdom, gorgeous! In this eye-opening and empowering episode, we're diving headfirst into the realm of relationships, self-discovery, and personal growth. Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions as we navigate the complexities of love. Today, Violetta sits down with dating expert Anna Kai. Anna's insights transcend the conventional narratives surrounding dating and offer a deeper understanding of the barriers to authentic connections. With a keen eye for patterns and a compassionate approach, she sheds light on the common obstacles that prevent individuals from forging fulfilling relationships.From recognizing red flags and embracing our self-worth to understanding the importance of effective communication, this episode is a guidebook for the modern woman seeking fulfillment in her relationships. We'll delve into the power of intuition, the significance of relationship labels, and the transformative journey of healing from childhood trauma. Along the way, we'll share personal stories of heartbreak and growth, debunk myths surrounding singlehood, and empower you to embrace new beginnings.Get ready to rewrite the rules of dating, Besties, and step into a world of endless possibilities.    Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm SHOPIFY - Sign up for $1 per month trial period at www.shopify.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:48 The most common question you always get asked?04:05 We fight to make up not to break up05:31 Don’t ignore the red flags08:43 How do you stop being that girl that guys wanted to date but not commit to?11:52 Do you now like relationship labels?13:57 How would you know if someone is serious about you?17:16 5 things that can save you from ending up with the wrong guy18:26 All your friends and family hate him but you don’t see it20:03 Why do you keep other ‘platonic’ relationships around?22:32 Childhood trauma26:13 “Okay, I’m done chasing these guys.”28:44 You need to be dumped by the man you love to become the woman you deserved35:49 Leaving the man you love for the man you deserve43:03 Why do some women remain single?47:30 Every breakup is actually just the beginning of another chapter of your life52:41 He didn’t change, he just stopped pretending55:47 Why you should not accept his apology01:02:26 Every guy that dumped you, led you to the guy are with right now01:04:22 Best/worst advice you've gottenConnect with Anna on:https://www.instagram.com/maybeboth/https://www.tiktok.com/@itsmaybebothhttps://maybeboth.com/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.