And sometimes…we just need to hear the cold hard truth. Kidding. But when you only focus on the negative things in life, you don’t realize that that’s all you’re allowing your life to be. We all deserve the most beautiful things in life, and sometimes tough love from your bestie is exactly what you needed to hear.Today we welcome TV host, podcaster, and Sports Illustrated model Kamie Crawford to Almost Adulting! Violet and Kamie, instant besties and Scorpio sisters, start off the conversation by talking brutally honestly about some of their own faults, and even their friends. They discuss how their delivery may not always be the best, but it may just be a Scorpio thing. They also talk in depth about Kamie’s life post her 5-year relationship, how NOT having a rebound after a breakup is a painful part of growing up, the two forms of cheating, and which of them is truly worse than the other. The truth hurts besties, no matter which way you put it.THIS WEEK'S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Function of Beauty: FunctionofBeauty.com/ADULTING to take your hair quiz and save 25% on your first order! DaveIf you’re in a pinch and need some extra help, don’t freak out! Download Dave and think of it as a helping hand from Future You! Download the Dave app from the App store right now.Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fmWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:48 If you’re arguing with a Scorpio03:59 Something that most people don’t know about you08:15 What is your love language?14:15 Getting too sensitive18:13 Changing yourself to make someone love you22:59 Who’s more jealous in your relationships?27:15 Define cheating32:50 Cheating in marriage36:15 “I remember my first boyfriend…”39:01 Ending a 5-year relationship43:40 The hardest part of a breakup46:42 “I don’t have a problem playing the villain…”51:31 What’s something you'll never put up with again?56:34 Taking accountability for what you did wrong59:57 Unrealistic expectations about finding a partner01:03:18 “You’ve just known him for two days!”01:07:52 Do you still believe in love?Connect with Kamie on:InstagramTwitterFacebookTikTokWebsiteRelationsh*t PodcastCatfish: The TV ShowGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.