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29. Friendship: Should You Stay or Should You Go? (feat. Dr. Marisa G. Franco)

29. Friendship: Should You Stay or Should You Go? (feat. Dr. Marisa G. Franco)

FromWhat Rules!?: A career podcast for women of color


29. Friendship: Should You Stay or Should You Go? (feat. Dr. Marisa G. Franco)

FromWhat Rules!?: A career podcast for women of color

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Length:
33 minutes
Released:
Oct 29, 2020
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

Have you ever had to break up with a friend? How do you know when it's time to let them go? Or what if it's not time but you're not sure how to have a conversation to find out?
This week, Alisa, Rosa, and Merary go deep into their own theories about what healthy friendship looks like and what to do when you're ready to say goodbye.
"As human beings, if we've invested a lot of time into something, we're more likely to want to continue the relationship. Just because we've invested a lot, we assume that we should continue this relationship when that's not necessarily true. And I think we need to normalize outgrowing relationships with people." – Dr. Marisa G. Franco, Friendship Expert
Topics discussed in this episode:
Creating a framework to let friends go
Ambiguous loss
Reciprocity Theory
Other theories on compartmentalizing friendships
Healthy vs. unhealthy relationships
Three factors to stay in a relationship


More from Dr. Franco: https://drmarisagfranco.com/ (Website) | https://instagram.com/DrMarisaGFranco (Instagram) | https://twitter.com/DrMarisaGFranco (Twitter) | https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/experts/marisa-franco-phd (Psychology Today)
More from Rosa: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rosa-santos-7b6ab02/ (LinkedIn)
More from Merary: https://merarysimeon.com/ (MerarySimeon.com)
More from Alisa: https://www.thehappycact.us/ (The Happy Cactus)
Released:
Oct 29, 2020
Format:
Podcast episode

Titles in the series (100)

After spending almost two years interviewing multicultural women in the c-suite, entrepreneurs, authors and speakers, we’ve seen a running theme of how women are shattering the glass ceiling and breaking through the concrete ceiling: rule-breaking. But what rules are we talking about and why do they exist? That’s what we explore in the What Rules!? podcast. You’ll learn our six guiding principles for multicultural women looking to outsmart the game to advance their career. Founded by HR executives specializing in diversity and inclusion and talent management, Rosa Santos (co-host), and Merary Simeon (co-host), and executive coach Alisa Manjarrez (producer).