Ask yourself this question the next time someone says you can't do something: Is this a roadblock? "We are all wired to just do what we're told, but sometimes, we need to think about who's making those rules," says Nicole Todd, Vice President of Human Resources for Blackstone, one of the largest private equity firms in the world. Nicole, a Black American, shares how she found mentors and sponsors who helped advance her career. She recalls how her street smarts from growing up in the Bronx, NY, developed her unique strengths and became transferable skills in the workplace. She also tells us about the 3 L's to consider when you're stuck about making a career move.Theme: Turn Your Adversity into Your StrengthEpisode Highlights:Questioning authority when it's a roadblockAsking for and taking feedback to improve in the workplaceDeveloping your strengths even when growing up with adversityThe real meaning of couragePaying it forward by mentoring other multicultural womenFinding the right mentor and sponsorSetting up informational interviewsBeing intentional with your careerThe 3 L's to help you make a career move—level, learnings and locationConnect with us on our social media: Instagram and LinkedInJoin our LinkedIn community where we discuss rule-breaking strategies for multicultural women.More from Alisa Manjarrez: Instagram and LinkedInMore from Courtney Copelin: Instagram and LinkedInMore from Dr. Merary Simeon: Instagram and LinkedInLearn more at www.whatrulespodcast.com.