One of the things we can get obsessed about after a break up is trying to figure out whose fault it was. We can sometimes think that by figuring out whose to blame it will make the break up hurt less and make us feel more in control. In this episode I talk about why we always want to be able to point the finger at someone (even if it's at us), why it's not actually helpful to place blame, and the difference between pointing the finger and actually learning and reflecting from mistakes made.  To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses   To get a mini coaching session from Kendra for only $20: https://heyhero.com/influencer/yourbreakupbestie