An interesting part of the human experience is that when we’re going through something really difficult, people are often at a loss about what to say and can end up saying some really unhelpful and hurtful things. But occasionally, people say exactly the right thing. In this episode, we vent about some of the most outrageous things we’ve been told and celebrate some of the most helpful. I also offer a broader perspective on why people might say cruel things in the first place, and finish by sharing tips for being more compassionate in the face of suffering.