Holly Finigan is the creator of Nantucket Blackbook, a website, digital brand and experience space on Nantucket (and beyond.)   We Talk About: What it’s like to be in on the party early How to handle negativity The importance of stepping back Slowing down your responses & the power of the pause Holly’s experience with heart surgery If you know you have to do something - do it before it has to be done What it’s like waking up from heart surgery Healing without a mom Healing with medical marijuana Why airbnb gift cards are the best for someone healing Dealing with the grief of losing a parent Why grief can be about losing identity too You don’t need to compare struggles to feel validated or valued Why “Comparison is an addiction to losing” How Holly brings the lessons she’s learned from her healing to her daily life Evolution as a person, brand and place Amazing tips for taking a break from social media   Links: Artist Way https://www.amazon.com/Artists-Way-25th-Anniversary/dp/0143129252/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1526915865&sr=8-1&keywords=artist+way University of Broken Hearts: http://nantucketblackbook.com/the-university-of-broken-hearts/   Connect with Holly: Online: http://nantucketblackbook.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nantucketblackbook/ Connect with Me On instagram: https://www.instagram.com/init4thelongrunblog/ On my site: http://init4thelongrun.com