How to Improve Your Life Significantly in the Next Year: pickup artist

By Iliyan Topchiev

This book will teach you how to balance your development as a man who is successful with women with success in your career and business. A warrior is nothing without good health, and success itself is meaningless if it does not contribute to the improvement of your life and lifestyle. All of these topics will be addressed in detail in the book.

 

I will teach you step by step how to start in pickup and gradually make progress, tracking your results until you reach a decent level of success with women that you can maintain forever. The book is full of material and also provides you with a detailed explanation of the mindset, methods, and principles through which you can start building your openers, routines, and stories. The ultimate goal is to make everything natural so that you can be the right man when you meet the right woman for you.

 

But as I mentioned earlier, the book is not limited to success with women alone. It has two more sections dealing with your career development, health, and lifestyle. Success must be integrated into everything you do in your daily life so that you will never have weaknesses and breakthroughs, and every step you take will bring you closer to the life you've always dreamed of having.

 

When you act and think like a winner, your life's dreams begin to come true, new doors and opportunities open before you, and the problems that have tripped you up so far are just minor hurdles on the path to your goal, overcoming which makes you even stronger. There are no more excuses and justifications, only determination and action.

 

Do you have the courage to embark on this new path? It's waiting for you!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Iliyan Topchiev
• Release date: Nov 14, 2023
• ISBN: 9798224771561

Iliyan Topchiev

Sono nel campo del rimorchio dal 2006. Quando sono entrato in questo campo ero talmente entusiasta che per anni sono uscito ogni settimana per conoscere nuove donne, ho avuto centinaia di appuntamenti con donne diverse. Finalmente ho trovato l'amore e ho formato una famiglia. Per 15 anni ho formato molti uomini su come parlare efficacemente con le ragazze, ho scritto molti articoli sul sito bulgaro e sul forum pickup-project.net. Il successo con le donne è un problema per molti uomini, ogni giorno vedo uomini pieni di paura, timorosi di vivere la vita che vogliono, uomini che non hanno scelta. Per questo ho scritto questi libri. Voglio che raggiungano quanti più uomini possibile in tutto il mondo. Tutti devono lasciare qualcosa alle spalle, e quello che mi lascio dietro di me sono tutte queste esperienze e intuizioni che ho acquisito nel campo del pick-up e degli appuntamenti con donne.

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Contents

INTRODUCTION

HOW TO USE THIS BOOK

DETERMINE WHERE YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE

RELATIONS WITH WOMEN

SUCCESS WITH WOMEN

WHY MANY MEN DO NOT HAVE SUCCESS WITH WOMEN

THE ROOT OF YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE AS A MAN

HOW TO INITIATE THE REAL CHANGE

FIRST SETS ON THE STREET

FUN OPENERS

STORYTELLING

DIRECT GAME

GETTING A PHONE NUMBER AND ARRANGING A DATE

NOTICING THINGS TO MAKE BANTER

DEVELOPMENT OF STRUCTURED GAME AND ELIMINATION OF HARMFUL ELEMENTS

POSITIVE DOMINANCE AND FRAME IMPOSITION

THE SHIT TESTS

DATES WITH DIFFERENT GIRLS

INVESTMENTS DURING A PICKUP

CALIBRATING IN RELATIONS WITH WOMEN

BUILDING RAPPORT WITH GIRLS

PHYSICAL ESCALATION IN DIFFERENT PHASES OF SEDUCTION

GETTING TO SEX

NIGHT GAME

HAVING GIRLS FOR SEX

DIFFICULT SETS

APPLY THE GAME IN YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE

BREAKING PATTERNS IN PICKUP

HOW TO RECOGNIZE THE RIGHT WOMAN FOR A FAMILY

CAREER DEVELOPMENT

HOW PICKUP HELPS YOU BE MORE SUCCESSFUL IN YOUR CAREER DEVELOPMENT

SETTING REALISTIC GOALS FOR PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT

PREPARATION FOR KEY MOMENTS IN YOUR LIFE

SUCCESS IS ACHIEVED THROUGH ACCUMULATION

HOW TO HAVE FREE TIME DURING THE WORKDAY

THE ABILITY TO SELL

DON'T BE AFRAID TO TAKE ON TASKS FOR WHICH YOU ARE NOT QUALIFIED

THE ADVANTAGES OF HAVING CHOICES

ELIMINATION OF DISTRACTIONS

USE THE PRINCIPLE OF LEAST RESISTANCE TO YOUR ADVANTAGE

SURROUND YOURSELF WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE SMARTER THAN YOU

HOW TO BALANCE YOUR CAREER DEVELOPMENT WITH PICKUP

DETERMINATION TO MOVE FORWARD, NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS

LEARN TO MASTER YOUR EGO

THE ABILITY TO INVEST YOUR MONEY WISELY

HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE

SETTING GOALS FOR YOUR HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE THAT YOU WANT TO HAVE

REDUCE STRESS IN YOUR DAILY LIFE

MAINTAINING GOOD PHYSICAL SHAPE

HARMONY IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHERS AND BUILDING A FRIENDLY CIRCLE

ACQUIRING A NEW HOBBY THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY

MAINTAINING CONTACT WITH NATURE

EXPERIENCES YOU'VE NEVER TRIED

TO IMPROVE YOUR QUALITY OF LIFE AND LIVE FULLY

GLOSSARY OF PICKUP TERMS IN THE BOOK

Books By This Author

INTRODUCTION

Those who know me are aware that for many years, I have been teaching men how to effectively approach women they don't know, encouraging them to step out of their comfort zones and take action towards their self-set goals. Here, the key word is 'action.' Action defines a man. Over the years, I have grown increasingly convinced that 90% of the time, what hinders someone from achieving the success he desires is a lack of consistent action, a tendency to give up too easily, and an incorrect strategy for the steps he needs to take to pursue his goals. This book aims to serve as a practical guide, motivating action and delivering results. Its scope and objectives are not limited to success with women; they encompass mindset transformation, relationship building, breaking unhealthy habits, promoting well-being, career development, and achieving financial goals.

A person's development progresses simultaneously in various areas, which I will address in different sections of this book. I have designed a plan and developed a strategy for optimizing performance, with the aim of helping men reach their self-defined goals in each of these areas within a year. Attaining these goals involves a series of steps, beginning with the smallest ones, and progress should be tracked daily, weekly, or monthly. It's advisable to document the results, and I have included a template for this purpose in each section.

I strongly recommend not proceeding to the next step without having achieved the goals and taken into account the results from the previous one. This book is entirely action-oriented, which is why documenting what has been accomplished is of utmost importance.

Many of you have read my two previous books: The Art of Being Successful With Women and The Way of the Pickup Artist. These books were written during my active involvement in the pickup community. They contain a substantial amount of theoretical content and many personal stories related to my experiences with various women. Throughout those books, I consistently urged the reader to take action; however, unfortunately, many people merely read them without implementing the advice.

Over the years, I've come to the realization that what truly motivates individuals to take action is a step-by-step approach coupled with documenting the outcomes, preferably in writing. My previous two books were descriptive and intriguing, but this book is not intended to be merely interesting. It serves as a manual for taking action and is designed to be practical and useful. That's the primary focus.

A year may seem too short a period to achieve life's most significant goals. In this year, it's unlikely you'll become incredibly wealthy, probably you won't attain mastery as a pickup artist, and you might not secure the managerial position you aspire to in your corporation. However, what truly matters is that you take concrete steps to cultivate the habit of action towards your self-set objectives. Let the upcoming year, starting from the beginning of this book, be your ‘golden’ year—a fresh start for the transformation in your life.

HOW TO USE THIS BOOK

This book is intended for men who aspire to change their lives or, at the very least, enhance their success. Success encompasses various dimensions and is never attained without effort. It requires determination and a strategic approach. The aim of this book is to inspire purposeful and well-planned action.

Many men abandon their goals due to laziness or despair, often because they cannot see a clear path to achievement. To conquer any significant goal in your life, it must be broken down into smaller, manageable steps. These smaller goals should be recorded and monitored diligently to prevent procrastination. Think of the main goal as a summit, which can only be reached by taking numerous smaller steps without deviation.

This gradual yet steadfast approach ensures that success becomes a certainty if you consistently and correctly follow these steps. Success is within your grasp, but it demands dedication. You must commit to engaging with this book. Mere reading without implementation is futile, much like reading a romance novel only to set it aside. Pondering without action only inflates your ego without substance.

Skipping steps is unwise since each subsequent step tends to become more challenging. Completion of the prerequisites in the preceding steps is crucial before advancing to the next.

Each chapter of this book will include a template that you need to complete. These templates will have rows and columns tailored to the specific requirements for achieving the goals outlined in that chapter. Do not proceed to the next chapter without completing the required actions and recording the results in the table provided for the current chapter.

If, for any reason, you cannot carry out a planned action on a given day, reschedule it for the following day. Unforeseen events can happen to anyone. However, avoid postponing for more than three days. This may cause a slight delay in your progress, but your goals remain attainable. For instance, if your goal is to initiate conversations with unknown women, and you find yourself in a hospital, it is expected that within the next three days, you can still muster the strength to engage in a brief conversation with one of the visitors. Your desire to achieve your goals must be strong. The key is to maintain focus and not lose the habit of consistently taking the right actions.

The sensation of actively pursuing your goals brings a profound sense of satisfaction to life. The notion that you are evolving day by day makes you truly feel alive. Living fully as a man is a privilege that must be earned through adversity and hardship. Achieving the goals outlined in this book will cultivate resilience and fortitude within you. The choice to persevere lies with you, as not everyone possesses the capacity for it.

Throughout your journey, your subconscious mind will continually generate numerous excuses to evade what's required. Often, those around you may not support your endeavors, and there will be moments when the only support you have is your focus and mental strength, as everything around you may seem to urge you to surrender. Avoid succumbing to distractions; stay focused. Understand that accomplishing your life goals is a matter of utmost importance. It's a battle of either victory or living a mediocre and miserable existence. While not in the physical sense, your life can become spiritually dead if you have nothing to be proud of and your memories are filled with moments when you gave up. Don't let that happen.

DETERMINE WHERE YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE

One of the most critical factors for success is knowing your current position and what you aim to achieve at every moment in your life. It's essential to maintain a clear understanding of the big picture, enabling you to set specific goals and make necessary adjustments. Honesty with oneself is key to accurately assessing your starting point. Regardless of your life's past trajectory, there is always room for improvement, and progress is achieved through clear and well-defined goals.

In this book, we'll establish goals in various areas, including relationships with women, career, finances, and health. The collective achievement of these goals paves the way for a fulfilling lifestyle. With years of experience as a pickup artist, I offer detailed insights into picking up and conversing with unknown women, which will be a central focus of this book. Nevertheless, I also possess experience in other domains. My financial situation is stable, and my career has shown positive development. I have a loving family, a child, and an improving standard of living over the years.

If you have already found the woman of your life, you can skip the section on relationships with women, though you may still find it interesting. If you are married and not interested in approaching women you don't know, you can focus on the other sections.

In this chapter, you'll find a common template that allows everyone to define his goals in all these areas for the next ten years. Why ten years instead of one, as the book's title suggests? Because a one-year strategy is part of a larger vision, and you can't have a one-year plan without considering how it fits into your broader life goals. Going in different directions every year without connecting to previous and subsequent years is not effective. In this book, the focus is primarily on one-year goals. However, once you've laid the foundation, you'll find it easier to set goals for the following years.

Let's begin by defining what we want to achieve within a ten-year time frame.

It's important to note that these goals are general and serve as examples. For instance, someone may not desire to have children or a family within the next 10 years, or he may have different aspirations in the areas of lifestyle, career, and finances. Everyone should complete this template for himself and, if necessary, make any necessary modifications. What matters most is that everyone records goals that will guide him over the next 10 years and periodically reviews them. With the overarching vision in place, he can then create a separate one-year plan for each of these areas, which is the primary focus of this book.

RELATIONS WITH WOMEN

"If you can't attract a woman, you are, by dictionary definition, sterile." - mystery

SUCCESS WITH WOMEN

What does success with women mean? I think everyone will agree that this means having a choice of women to have sex with. If you date a lot of women and spend a lot of time dating, you may end up having sex with two or three of them at some point. Ok, but is this sex by chance or do you really have the ability to seduce women? What if you lose these women? Will you be successful with women or not?

Here's another example: You may have a girlfriend or be married, yet you claim to have other options because female colleagues at work flirt with you. However, you refrain from engaging in sexual relationships with them due to your principles