The art of seduction

By John Smith

Once you embark on this journey you will face many challenges but the question is: will you be able to succeed?

 

If you are a guy that is looking for a quick fix for love life and a person who constantly procrastinate then this book is not for you. Stop reading and save your precious time. But if you are a guy who is willing to face his fears, challange his beliefs, learn something new and invest time into improving his love life, than this book is what you are looking for.

 

But be aware that this book even though it is pretty interesting to read, will not have much of an impact on your love life if you don't use the knowledge it provides. That's why I want you to understand that you can't win if you don't play.

 

There are a lot of guys who want a nice relationship or to have a ton of adventures. The question is what do you want and what are you willing to do to achive it?

 

During many years of studying and playing the Game I learned that a chance only knocks once and since then I have opened many doors.

 

So it's up to you, will you open this one?

 

If you do, I'll meet you on the other side.

 

-John Smith.

• Language: English
• Publisher: John Smith
• Release date: Oct 1, 2021
• ISBN: 9798201618124

Book preview

Introduction

I am siting in front of the screen at 4 in the morning and I’m writing this text. I feel weird because I know that someone will read this, that this book will change someone’s life. I never even imagined myself in a situation like this. I did not know that one day I would become what I am today, that I would find the purpose of my life and that I would leave a mark in this wild world.

I used to be a kid who thought everything was already writen down, now I’m a man who is writing it all down.

I spent most of my life in fear. Fear of other people’s opinions. Unfortunately, many still live with that fear, the fear that killed most dreams and ideas. I can’t say that this fear disappears completely over time, but I can say with certainty that it is greatly reducing. That of course depends on ourselves and our beliefs.

During my teen years I was lost. Not knowing what to do with myself, I wandered and waited. As time went on, I realized more and more that no one would save me because I had to save myself. I decided to live this life to the fullest. I decided to make my dreams come true and not die realizing that I had never actually lived.

As a kid, I was set back by my non-supportive beliefs that formed during growing up. I was rejected and misunderstood by people who looked very much like each other, and there were many of them. I had no idea that being different was the best thing that could ever happened to me. I used to hate myself and I tried to be something I wasn’t just to please someone. Today, those people who look very much like each other try to please me. And the more they try, the less I like them. Where is the irony?

If you want to please people by pretending to be something you are not, you will fight with yourself. If you want to be what you really are, you will fight with the whole world. Who are you fighting? Which battles are you fighting? What do you want in your life? Since you are reading these pages, I guess that you want a girl who will understand you and love you the way you are. And that’s one opponent less isn’t it?

Many men think that they can only attract a girl if they are good looking or if they have a ton of money and fortunatly, that is one big lie. You can attract women by demonstrating your other values such as self-confidence, charisma, inteligence etc. and I am here to teach you how to do that.

Let me say right at the beginning of the book that all this  will be hard and challenging for you, but one thing is absolute, you will manage it, as long as you are persistent in achiving your goal. The thing that determinates who is a good player is perseverance  and endurance which you must aquire in order to succeed. Do what is easy and your life will be hard. Do what is hard and your life will become easy.

Speaking of hard, most of the people want things that are hard to get. That’s why women like challenges and that’s why men want the prettiest girl in the room.

Lets say that you are partying at a club and you noticed a beautiful girl who is chatting with her friends. You almost fell in love at first sight. But soon you realize that most of the guys in the club want her as well.

You see them buying her drinks, giving her compliments, and she is rejecting them one after the other. You are wondering how to approach such a girl and not to get rejected like all the other guys before you.

Here is what I would do in that scenario:

I wouldn’t approach her at all, I would approach the leader of a group and start a conversation with him/her or start a conversation with a whole group. Then I would gain their sympathy and secure myself from getting removed from the group. After I had done that I would transfer my attention to the girl that I like and by doing that I had successfully started a conversation without showing any intent besides having fun.

Now, let’s say that a girl that I directed my attention to has a big Ego because of the guys that are giving her free compliments and drinks. In that case, I do the following:

ME: Hey, those earrings are really awesome (I give her value), I saw 3 girls wearing them tonight, they must be really trendy (I take away the value). (this is situational Opener combined with push-pull technique)

HER: Oh my God, you are so funny! (she gave me a shit test saying that ironically)

ME: Of course I am! (saying it with a smile) I was first in the line when God was giving sense of humor to humans but I didn’t saw you anywhere (I’m passing a shit test correctly).

SHE: Hahahaha.

ME: I can already see that two of us aren’t going to get along (I’m using False disqualifier).

SHE: And why is that?

ME: "Let’s say that we are married and live in Japan (I’m going into routine in order to demonstrate my value).

The marriage started to fall apart...(pause in speech) let’s say it falls apart because I don’t like our cats and you are giving them more attention than me. We are on the verge of divorce and our parents are trying to save our marriage by locking us in one room for a month.

You know that room where there is one bed, one table, a chair, a plate and a spoon, so we have to share everything? I bet that you would make me sleep on the floor, even though you like to cuddle (a little story that will demonstrate my sense of humor and set me apart from all the other guys that had approached her asking what she does for living)."

This is just an example of combining techniques that you will learn while reading upcoming chapters. And there is plenty more so brace yourself, a good change is coming!

Now, you are wondering what I said to the group and how I won their sympathies right? The answer is in this very book you are reading which contains preconceived stories, sentences, tricks, routines, tips and techniques that you can use to seduce girls easier and faster (all this has already been tested by me, as well as by smarter and more experienced players.). But be aware that you will have to learn from it in order to apply the acquired knowledge in real life and achieve results.

At first, you will probably feel as if a book is speaking from you, however, over time, these methods will become a habit. Someone once said: We are what we do every day. which means we are our habits, and trust me, this will be your favorite one.

Once you master the art of seduction it will be easier for you to stay in the Game than to get out of it. As time goes on and as you have more approaches, you will notice that patterns appear over time. You will find it easier to cope with social interactions because people’s situations and reactions will become easily predictable for you even before they happen. You will feel as if you are flying through the world at super-sonic speed.

If you decided to start approaching girls every day at the beginning of the year and if you did it 35 times a week (5 in one day), that would be approximately 1825 conversations with girls in a year. How many girls have you talked to last year?

Imagine now that you approached 1825 girls in a year.

Your mind is far more advanced than last year. Every time you approach a girl and start a conversation, she gives you the same or similar answers as the 200 girls before her. You now know how to continue the conversation because you have been in 200 such situations before.

If you did that, the experience would lift you to the heavens and you could choose which girl would you like to spend evening with. However, do you have time to approach 1825 times in a year? I know, and unfortunately I don’t have it too. But I have experience and knowledge. I have this book, and now you have it too. Learn from it and learn from my mistakes so that you would not find yourself in most of the unpleasant situations in which you would find yourself if you did not have this knowledge that my book provides you.

Life passes and it’s end is inevitable and unpredictable. Someone lives their whole life without anything extraordinary happening in it. Some spend their lives waiting, some wandering. Don’t wait and don’t wander! Live the life you have always wanted to live and work on yourself as much as possible. After all, everyone shapes their reality. What kind of reality do you shape?

You are the creator of your destiny, so do not regret the missed opportunities, but create new ones, just as I created this one for you and others, to improve your love life.

My name is John Smith and this book is my little mark in this wild world. Hope you enjoy reading it.

Welcome to the Game.

CHAPTER 1 – SELF DEVELOPMENT

SELF-CONFIDENCE

Self-confidence is attractive. By self-confidence you gain the admiration of your colleagues, friends and women, as well. No seduction technique will ever help you to attract a certain girl if there is a lack of self-confidence or if you don’t have any. Even a good-looking and rich men sometimes can’t look a girl in the eye and let her know that they are interested in her. If you don’t have self-confidence, you’re going to have problems with the approach itself and most of all - problem or fear to tell certain things to a girl. Women can smell self-confidence just as dogs can smell fear. But don’t worry! With a bit of practice you’re going to be full of self-confidence and girls will definitely notice that.

Speaking of self-confidence, the first thing you need to know is the difference between true self-confidence and false self-confidence.

False self-confidence

False self-confidence is based on a myth that, as a person, you are worth as much as you are good, hardworking, desirable, successful, loved, likable to others, to those who you think they are important to you, valuable or better than you. The vast majority of people has false self-confidence. To whom are you hardworking, good, likeable, and to whom you are not? In relation to whom  you are successful, and in relation to whom you are not?

False self-confidence is based on  comparison with others and adopted criteria of success, beauty, love, etc.. These criteria are borrowed from the others,