Reclaiming Your Authenticity

By Vesna Jankovic

This eBook will teach you how to navigate life and learn to love yourself again. It includes sections on setting boundaries, dealing with your responsibilities and answering questions to get back control in your life.  This book is the perfect tool for anyone struggling with feeling overwhelmed or lost. With its easy-to-read style and comprehensive teachings, this eBook will help you become more confident and secure in your own life.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Vesna Jankovic
• Release date: Dec 28, 2023
• ISBN: 9798223861140

Book preview

Opening credits

Thank you for reading my first short self-help ebook Reclaiming your authenticity: Restoring boundaries, rediscovering self-love again

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This is a short ebook about navigating life's challenges, restoring confidence, and embracing the power of self-respect. The ebook has around 18418 words and will give you a quick and easy guide to get back control on your life.

Author: Vesna Janković

Chapters:

Fear & Faith

How to deal with an insecure person?

How to deal with ‘’haters’’?

Four laws

Good choice & Good judgment

The price to pay to live like yourself

Girl vs Society

Forms of  love

Power of the silence

Relationship with a money

Happiness is illusion

Girl vs Girl

The side character in your own story

Finding your joy again

Chapter 1

Fear & Faith

All human behavior is indeed goal-oriented. We all want something to gain in this life and we as humans are really goal oriented. The willingness to fight and overcome challenges knowing that all of your hard work will be rewarded someday. Challenges might be difficult and overwhelming. However, remember to keep a clear head in difficult times. Master a good control of your thoughts and a half of your problems will be solved. Fear and faith are strong emotions that will dictate how we live our lives. We can’t spend all of our life in fear of something that hasn't happened yet. Or struggling because we don’t know what is about to happen, because we don’t have time for that. We should live  bravely because we are born fighters. No matter what challenge we’re about to face, we will survive and overcome all of them. Your priority is to take care of your emotional triggers, flaws, personality traits, trust issues and better your self-esteem. All human behavior is goal-oriented. That is why you shouldn’t think that someone will help you out if that does not benefit them. You must be selfish and have faith that you’re capable of having everything you desire and that will keep you productive and faithful that you can improve every aspect of your life and that will bring you closer to your goal.  Knowledge is a power and you will have to learn a lot about yourself, the outside world and the true nature of  human behavior. What would happen if you’re trying to avoid learning and improving? Time won’t care for you. People won’t care for you and certainly you will fall back in life. It could take you years to get your life together, but that is better than living your life in misery like a loser. Who doesn’t like winning? Why should you give up and watch someone with 1% of your potential getting better deals, better opportunities in life and they are happier and more successful than you are. Just because they have unshakable trust in God’s plan, their skills and they vibrate on high energy and no wonder why they are successful. There is no more excuse to be made. It’s time to learn. We often convince ourselves that some of our problems are not that much more important than it seems. Trying to minimize a problem will also lead to forgetting a problem and we will become delusional. We will act like a problem doesn’t exist. But it does and will affect other things that are important in your life if you’re not ready to take action as soon as possible. Ignorance is bliss.  No matter how long you keep up running from reality, someday you  will end up drowning in your problems. You will wonder : ’’ How did I end up in this situation? ‘’  Ignorance can be a huge weakness and with knowledge comes a lot of opportunities and a lot of choices. Being able to help yourself at certain times can save you from needless suffering  and give you strength to work on other things you have on your schedule. You should be able to study a lot, but your focus should be mostly on  yourself. Then observe other people. Moving forward is in one way only. Not knowing yourself will only help you break your own heart in two pieces. And not knowing anything will make you powerless . And no wonder why ignorance is a sin. The question is: Would you choose to stay ignorant and avoid your problems or will you try to fix your mindset and learn?  You could be scared to try new things but so is everyone. What keeps you running away from your own responsibilities? The answer is fear. Fear is a normal emotion to feel, but when fear gets really deep inside of your head it will become really difficult for you to have a normal life. Do you know that fear and faith are the two same things?  They both want you to believe in something that didn’t happen yet. The tiny difference between fear and faith is that faith comes from God.  Everything is energy. If you vibrate positive feelings, do a lot of smart and hard work, maybe you can get lucky to succeed in this life. The more you know about controlling your own feelings, you will build faith in yourself and trust that good things are coming to you. You will believe that the universe is on your side. Someone told me ‘’ People are really flying to the moon, so you can have more faith in yourself  that you’re deserving of a decent life ‘’. Some people will call it prayer or faith in God’s plan, some manifesting,