What I've learned in 25 years of my life!

By Yagnesh Suthar

“My mom caught me several times with love letters that I wrote for my imaginary one-sided girlfriend! I still remember that, one day I went to the post box to send my love letter to her house without mentioning the address on the envelope!!! ” - A paragraph from the later chapters!
The title of this book will tell you that the author might be rich, successful and have a great personality, that's why he wants to inspire others by writing his autobiography, right?
But I don't have any of it!
And still I have written this book only for one reason:
This is a time period when TV serials, Movies, Web series and all the sources of entertainment forces younger minds to only adapt philosophical thinking which is against their Dharma. And by writing this book, I want to inspire the youth to think about the existence of ourselves. Learn to question everything you see, experience and feel in your life. Become a lifelong observer to understand yourself. So, this book is a demonstration of a personality (who is an example of a middle class boy) to show that (even though living in the same environment as you are living) it is possible to adapt our culture and sanskriti. Only thing that matters is to be an observer of your life. Become an observer instead of becoming an experiencer. That will show you a way of permanent happiness, the path to achieve the Truth. I have asked many questions in the later chapters to question myself and I have given answers with great research by means of careful observation of my own life. I would also reveal the definition of success!.
When I asked myself “how do we learn?” - my answer has always been this: “we learn by observing”. There are many in-between processes for understanding something, but I am just simplifying it here using this word i.e. Observing. How did you first start to speak? You might have observed your mother requesting you speak “maa” & you might have observed her lips movement & then you tried to repeat the same action through your lips & thereby speaking the first word “maa”. In the same way, you have learned so many things in your life. Your observation (of lips movement) converted to action (repeating that movement through your lips) only because of curiosity! You did not know anything because the world was very new to you. So, you had a lot of curiosity & questions to know it. When we are born in this world, we are born with many in-built features or characteristics or qualities!
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• Language: English
• Publisher: Lulu.com
• Release date: Sep 19, 2023
• ISBN: 9781446730829

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What I’ve learned in 25 years of my life!

Title: What I've Learned in 25 Years of My Life!

ISBN: 9781446730829

Edition: First

Publication Date: 19 September 2023

Copyright Holder: Yagnesh Suthar

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Copyright © 2023 Yagnesh Suthar. All rights reserved.

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Disclaimer:

This entire book is my own personal understanding, knowledge, beliefs & experiences of my life that I have written with many different perspectives of thinking to make it easy to understand many concepts of life. If you see any names of real people in this book, I would strongly request you never judge them or never look at them with any kind of beliefs that you will gain after reading this book because I have used their names to prove the existence of real people & all those incidents.

One more important thing to note: when you read any book (not just this one!), you will get many perspectives of thinking which you might not have known before! But it is very important to understand that every writer had to use some sentences with some specific meaning to exactly interpret a particular situation & real intention for that particular moment but their main intention was not to convey that experience or to show their nature but, to teach you the lesson from that experience. - I hope you will understand these words!

I know it sounds weird that a 25 year old boy writes a book explaining what I’ve learned in 25 years of my life!?. It’s weird because you actually start learning after the age of 15. So, how can I express my other 10 years of experience without knowing it? - that’s what I want to explain to you in this book!

Before you start reading this book, you should first know about me, my character, my personality, my beliefs and my views to neutrally understand this book, how because of my nature, I made decisions in life in particular situations & all the words or messages that have been written in the book.

So, I am Yagnesh Suthar, a pharmacy graduate from India. My passion is to write everything I know to share with the world. I love to explore new topics hypothetically with deep understanding. I love music a lot, when you see me anywhere, you will find me always singing songs!

Even though my background is medical, I love the computer field a lot. I like programming, digital marketing, writing content, video editing, music creation and many more things that enhance my skills and abilities. I am a lifelong learner about psychology, philosophy & spirituality. All my previous books are based on these three topics in which I have written so many deeper concepts of thoughts, power of will & questioning. I have gained this knowledge by using my imagination, observation & understanding of this life. I strongly believe that we get only one ‘Human life’ & if we have to do something to make it worthwhile, we must need to understand who we are & dedicate our entire life in getting peace by connecting our consciousness with super-consciousness (which we refer to as a God) - and that’s the ultimate goal of this human life. You will see many different characters of mine with different understanding levels in different situations throughout this book. And you need not to focus on my personality, but instead, you will need to focus on the intention & lessons that I want to show you from that example or situation. You will also need to understand other perspectives of thinking while reading any particular chapter to enhance your thinking skills & to be a master of your mind.

So far now, I hope you would have a basic understanding of me & my personality. So, without any delay, let’s start reading this book!

Thanks

Thanks to the people who supported me directly & indirectly for writing this book, it’s content & the research work. I would like to thank Dr.Khusboo Joshi (BPT, M.Sc) for her valuable contribution to a topic of survey which is mentioned in the later chapters. I would like to thank Dhruti Shah, Twinkal Parmar & Hemant Rao for contributing as an editor of the song written in the later chapters. Thanks to Govesh Rathi, Jaypalsinh Sindhav, Vrushank Narola (V.K.Narola) for their indirect contribution to write the content for this book.

Preface:

My mom caught me several times with love letters that I wrote for my imaginary one-sided girlfriend! I still remember that, one day I went to the post box to send my love letter to her house without mentioning the address on the envelope!!! 😂 - A paragraph from the later chapters!

The title of this book will tell you that the author might be rich, successful and have a great personality, that's why he wants to inspire others by writing his autobiography, right?

But I don't have any of it!

And still I have written this book only for one reason:

This is a time period when