I Am A Virtuous Mom: 30-Day Devotional

By Jalecia Kofi

As moms, you may be feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and unsure of yourself. The transition to motherhood can be challenging, but it is also a time of immense joy and wonder. Remember that you are not alone, and that God is with you every step of the way. “I Am A Virtuous Mom” 30-Day devotional is to empower and uplift moms. You are chosen by God and You are doing an exceptional job.
It doesn’t matter if you are a wife, divorcée, fiancée, widow or single mom, we are all equal as women and vessels of Christ . He created us all with a specific purpose. Transitioning into motherhood whether you are a first time mom or mom of many ; it’s an adjustment. Always be kind to yourself as you grow into the role of motherhood. Being a mom is the most beautiful blessing. Although, the adjustment is different for everyone. We are all equipped and prepared for our divine purpose.
In 30 days:
-Your relationship with God will be strengthened with guidance and wisdom in seeking balance in the role of a mom with other passions and interests.

-You will adopt the strength and courage to pursue your dreams, and model a healthy work-life balance as a mom.

-You will learn to take better care of yourself and prioritize your physical, emotional, and spiritual health.

-You will have confidence in knowing that you are fearfully and wonderfully made, with unique gifts and talents.

• Language: English
• Publisher: BooxAi
• Release date: Oct 16, 2023
• ISBN: 9789655782691

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DAY 1

Proverbs 31:10: Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies.

When I look at proverbs 31:10 I instantly think of a mom. We are truly special, God called us to the most beautiful assignment. However, this assignment is almost impossible to do without a relationship with God. The Proverbs 31 Woman pursues the wisdom of God instead of the wisdom of the world. The P31 Woman is not concerned with what seems right according to the world. Instead, she focuses on God's truth. Her biggest desire is to honor God.

When I became a mom in 2020 it was during a Global Pandemic and a time of quarantine. In the delivery room, I was only able to have my husband there to witness the birth of our son. No friends, family, not even my doula. I recall God asking me to fast and unplug during my last trimester. However, I was disobedient. I couldn’t understand at the time, unplugging from the world; I was so excited to share with my friends and family about the progress of my last trimester.

Keeping them updated on nursery decor, baby products, etc. God is an intentional God. The reason he asked me to unplug was to prepare my mind, soul, and spirit for this new journey and assignment I was about to experience. Shortly after giving birth, I experienced traumatic Postpartum Depression.

I immediately became angry, simply because I felt I did everything correctly. I prayed and I prepared myself spiritually and emotionally, so I thought. The one thing I didn’t do was be obedient to the Holy Spirit. The relationship with God and myself needed to be strengthened by unplugging from the world. Therefore, I would be spiritually prepared to be the mom, he needed me to become for my son and the wife he needed me to be for my husband.

I instantly started to focus on God and strengthen our relationship. I truly thank God for his unconditional, everlasting love he has for us. Although we are disobedient at times; he loves us the same. His love never fails nor forsaken.

PRAYER

Dear Heavenly Father,

I thank you for giving me the assignment of becoming a mom. Thank you for promoting me to this position because you knew I was qualified for this assignment. I am honored. With you, I can do all things. I pray you continue to give grace during this journey of motherhood. I pray you to continue to Lead, Guide, protect and profess as I follow you. Amen.

DAY 2

Proverbs 31:25: She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.

In Proverbs 31:25; This Proverbs 31 woman is remarkably busy and productive, yet she is not stressed and instead, she laughs. Being able to laugh is a measuring stick for your stress. No one laughs when they are at the peak of depression or anxiety. It's easy to look at others’ lives and compare them to our own, thinking that we are not where we should be. But this verse tells us to simply laugh without fear of the future. Meaning it's handled & already been taken care of. And we can laugh and be fabulous moms, daughters, sisters, friends, and Wives!

I remember when I was at the peak of my Postpartum Depression; I would see these moms on Instagram stating how easy mom life is and how nursing isn’t stressful and they’re already planning their next child.