10 Steps to Get Over Dick Head: Recover Your Courage, Confidence & Happiness!

By Seagle

Don't be among the walking dead.

Get over Dick Head.

 

Unleash hilarious strategies to make decisions that guide you to a better place after a broken relationship. Rewarding activities awaken your imagination and motivate you to revitalize your life in ways you never thought of.

• Language: English
• Publisher: DOIT Publishing, LLC
• Release date: Oct 1, 2023
• ISBN: 9781958685044

Seagle

Debbie Seagle, #1 bestselling author, lives in the Blue Ridge Mountains of Virginia near most of the things she loves: family, friends, dirt, water, and mountain air. She has lived all around the world working as an airshow director, marketing director, operations manager, and Top Secret senior technical writer for some of the world's unknown oracles.Over the years, Debbie authored a Sunday column in the New Orleans Times-Picayune, was a US Embassy newsletter author/editor/publisher, wing-walker, events director, teenage lifeguard, young military wife grocery-bagger for tips, shampoo girl, united airshow grunt, and assisted in a professional manner to find bad guys.Her articles, photos, and writings have been published in books, newspapers, and magazines throughout the world. When she isn't hiding at the cabin writing to you, Debbie enjoys being with her family, scuba diving, snow skiing, sailing, gardening, hiking, biking, kayaking, hanging with friends, and good wine in a magnificent wine glass. As president of the Cherry Point Officers' Wives Club, Debbie hosted Nicholas Sparks at a luncheon where his conversation made writing a book sound easier than it is.She has degrees and certificates for various other obscure vocations, but her lifelong endeavor to become an accomplished juggler has not transpired - yet. Someday she will #DOiT.Debbie thought you should know this; we advised against it, but here you go:Random Facts about me (from Debbie Seagle):1.I've jumped out of an airplane 3 times (with a parachute).2.My Indian name is "Little Whirlwind."3.I played the clarinet in the high school concert band.4.Colonel Sanders touched my boob.5.Don Hoe grabbed my butt.6.Bill Clinton winked at me.7.I've shared engaging conversations with Cheryl Crow, several ambassadors, Nick Nolte, some famous authors, and myself.8.I hung out all day with Jeff Foxworthy. He signed my sign.9.Davy Jones & I spent a day at his horse stall. He sang a song to me on stage. My life is complete.10.I've touched 4 US Presidents (I shook their hands, ok?).11.I sometimes twirl a fire baton.12.I was married to a US Marine and moved 42 times.13.I've been interviewed on TV and radio 72 times.14.I've been to Camp David twice.15.I planned an international gala ball in the Eiffel Tower.16.I have 3 sons and 8 grandchildren (so far).17.I once could do back walkovers on a balance beam.18.I call my bathroom The Jim. I go to The Jim every morning!19.I'm an expert in fitted-sheet folding.20.I love my truck.

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INTRODUCTION

DOiT

A DOIT is an obsolete Dutch coin of little value. But when you DOiT, you will gain significant value. That’s why I encourage you to DOiT throughout this Guide to Becoming You Again.

Aside: In the book, Coffee Cups & Wine Glasses, DOiTs are life hacks and fun activities.

DOiT Journal

Seriously, or jokingly, stop and indulge in the Journal prompts after each chapter. Take a pause to reconnect with yourself and rediscover who you are. Writing it down to look back on later will give you a boost in mindfulness, memory, and communication skills. You’ll be surprised when you observe what you didn’t know about yourself. DOiT.

It will also boost your IQ, help you learn from your past, plan for your future, relieve stress, and reduce belly fat. Oh, well, maybe not the belly fat. But you will benefit in other ways when you stop to reflect and write your responses in the DOiT Journal.

Here’s your first DOiT Journal entry to get you started:

DOiT Journal:

What was the best day of your life (so far)?You may not have lived it yet!

Write down your 5 favorite things about yourself:

It could be courage, ability, determination, your unique talent to touch your toes or whistle through your nose?

What is the most memorable compliment you have ever received?

What’s Holding you Back?

Your heart was stomped on too? After that forever relationship ends, there’s not much left to do but to find a new purpose for your life, drink wine, and dance naked in the rain (in Dick Head’s front yard).

Well, it may not be that much fun. But if you use the following strategies, you will begin to make new decisions to live a magnificent life that takes you somewhere more advantageous than his front yard.

If you’re reading this, you probably know it’s over. Maybe you want it to be over.

You may not be able to admit it yet, because if you admit it, then what?

When 30 years of marriage evaporated, it changed my life, forever. Lord knows I was devastated and, well … simply not functioning (at first). Being ousted isn’t easy. It is freaking traumatic and there is no clear path to recovery.

To contradict my confession that there’s not a paved trail, I have outlined a simple road map for YOU to get over Dick Head. This recovery system is as limitless as the reality of driving your own life, going your way, facing the facts, finding strength, and making your decisions for your exciting destination. Go forward.

That’s the best thing about your life now: it’s all about you. Where will you go? What will you do?

It’s your decision.

That’s empowering!

Your inner magnificence will emerge again, so you can learn what you think and who you are. Decide what you want. I repeat (again); it’s Your Decision.

You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.

~ Mae West

Also, imagine while rediscovering your life that you have no friends, family, or pets to care for. Just oblige yourself and find some alone time to venture into accepting the dares I’m challenging you with – to start your new life … and get over Dick