Build or Destroy Vol. 2: "MORE THAN MOTIVATIONAL DOPE" 26 Lessons on Leverage: "MORE THAN MOTIVATIONAL DOPE" 26 Lessons on Leverage

By ANTHONY R BARBER

This book is a practical guide to using leverage to achieve success in your personal and professional life. It covers a wide range of topics, from goal setting and time management to networking and decision-making. The book is full of real-world examples and inspiring stories, and it will leave you feeling empowered to take action and build the

• Language: English
• Publisher: ELEVATED MINESET LLC
• Release date: Aug 17, 2023
• ISBN: 9798988470649

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©Anthony R. Barber Jr

ELEVATED MINESET LLC

All Rights Reserved

ISBN# 979-8-9884706-2-5

ISBN# 979-8-9884706-3-2

Dedicated to:

My sons…. Sabastian & Amari

BUILD OR

DESTROY

VOLUME 2

Contents

Introduction: Builders Are Made

Lesson No. 1: Make Friends With Pain

Lesson No. 2: The Power of Affirmation

Lesson No. 3: The Power of Gratitude

Lesson No. 4: The Strength of Bonds

Lesson No. 5: Influence Is The New Cocain

Lesson No. 6: The Importance of Teaching Children

Lesson No. 7: The Power of Community

Lesson No. 8: The Importance of Developing Patience

Lesson No. 9: Remaining Stoic

Lesson No. 10: Leverage The Llc Or C-Corp/S-Corp

Lesson No. 11: The Importance of Skilled Trades

Lesson No. 12: The Importance of Good Credit

Lesson No. 13: Importance of Learning Stock Investing

Lesson No. 14: Tapping Into Your Birthright (Hidden Potiential)

Lesson No. 15: Outwork Yesterday

Lesson No. 16: Reset The Game

Lesson No. 17: The Power of Indifference

Lesson No. 18: Costly Habits & Bad Investments

Lesson No. 19: Leverage Your Methods – Unleashing Your Natural Talents

Lesson No. 20: Mentorship for Hire – Unlocking the Power of Guidance

Lesson No. 21: Protect the Bag, at All Cost.

Lesson No. 22: Self-Made Tastes Better

Lesson No. 23: Ghost Mode

Lesson No. 24: You’re Always Building...Even When Broke

Lesson No. 25: Ten Toes Down

Lesson No. 26: Epilogue

Introduction:

Builders Are Made

W

elcome, dear reader,

to a unique and transformative experience. A lot of time has passed since we last had a conversation, this being Vol.2 of the series I don’t plan on disappointing. This is not your typical motivational, self-help book. No, this is a guide that delves deeper into the essence of who you are and explores the boundless potential that lies within you. This is Vol. 2: Let’s get started—an invitation to embark on a journey of growth and expansion. In a world saturated with self-help literature, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the multitude of books promising instant success, happiness, and fulfillment. Yet, amidst this sea of generic advice, there exists a genuine desire within us all to break free from the monotony and limitations of our current lives. We yearn for something more—an opportunity to transcend our perceived boundaries and uncover the extraordinary within. I, Anthony Ronnell Barber Jr (The Builder), stand before you not as an infallible guru with all the answers, but as a fellow traveler on this path of self-discovery. I, too, have felt the weight of self-doubt, the frustration of stagnation, and the fear of never realizing my dreams. However, through the crucible of my own experiences, I have uncovered the transformative power of grinding—the unwavering commitment to personal growth and the relentless pursuit of excellence.

This is a book about more than just motivating you to chase after lofty goals or overcome temporary setbacks. It’s about embracing a mindset that transcends momentary inspiration and instead cultivates lasting change. It’s about unveiling the true depth of your potential and propelling yourself towards a life of purpose and fulfillment. The pages that lie ahead are not filled with quick fixes or empty promises. Instead, they contain a roadmap for your personal evolution. We will navigate the intricacies of setting achievable goals, conquering the crippling grip of self-doubt, and igniting the fire of motivation even in the face of adversity. What sets this guide apart is its focus on the essence of your being—the core elements that make you unique. While external accomplishments and material success may be worthy pursuits, true growth and expansion stem from an intimate understanding of oneself. It is within this understanding that the seeds of greatness are sown, and the foundation for a truly fulfilling life is built.

Through my own personal stories, triumphs, and failures, I will illustrate the power of resilience, the significance of embracing failure as a steppingstone, and the profound impact of a growth mindset. You will witness firsthand that transformation is not a destination but an ongoing process of continuous evolution towards your highest potential. So, my fellow traveler, if you are ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery, growth, and expansion, then join me. Together, let us delve into the depths of our souls unleash our latent greatness, and build a life that resonates with authenticity, purpose, and success. This is not just another motivational book; it is an invitation to transform your very existence. Are you ready? Let’s get started.

Lesson No. 1:

Make Friends With Pain

Pain:

Beast to tame, fuels hunger, strengthens resolve, and breeds champions.

—BUILD.

P

ain is an

inevitable part of life. I had to learn this lesson early on, and the earlier you accept this part of life, the more effective you’ll be. Early on in my investment journey, I received a lot of backlashes from members of my own race as well as some close family members. They told me that investing was a white man’s game, and that I would never be successful. This pain and depression almost made me give up on my dream of becoming a successful investor.

However, I realized that I could either let this pain destroy me, or I could use it as leverage to fuel my success. I decided to double down on my options trading and build up my dividend portfolio. I knew that if I could succeed in this field, it would be a major accomplishment for my race and open new doors for other less fortunate people.

I started to view the pain I was experiencing as a friend. It was a reminder of my purpose and what I was fighting for. It was also a motivator to keep going, even when things were tough.

I eventually became successful in my investment journey. I was able to break down stereotypes and open new doors for others. I learned that pain is not something to be avoided. It is something to be embraced and used as leverage to achieve your goals.

Here are some tips on how to make friends with pain:

Acknowledge the pain. The first step to making friends with pain is to acknowledge it. Don’t try to ignore it or pretend it doesn’t exist.

Understand the purpose of the pain. What is the pain trying to tell you? What is it trying to teach you?

Use the pain as motivation. Let the pain fuel your fire and motivate you to keep going.

Don’t let the pain control you. You are in control of your own destiny. Don’t let the pain dictate your actions.

Pain is a part of life. It is something that we all experience at some point. However, we don’t have to let pain destroy us. We can use it as leverage to achieve our goals and make a difference in the world.

In the context of the book, this lesson teaches us that we can use the pain and challenges we face in life as an opportunity to grow and become stronger. We can also use them to fuel our success and make a difference in the world.

We all experience physical, emotional, and mental pain at some point in our lives. However, it’s not the pain itself that defines us but how we choose to respond to it. In this chapter, we will explore the power of pain as it relates to resilience, and how it can be harnessed to help us overcome adversity and achieve success. Resilience is the ability to bounce back from adversity and overcome challenges. It’s the ability to persevere in the face of pain, failure, and setbacks. And while resilience is often associated with strength and toughness, it’s important to recognize that it’s not something that comes naturally to everyone. In fact, resilience is often born out of pain and suffering. Pain can be a powerful motivator. It can push us to our limits and help us discover our true strength and resilience. When we experience pain, we have a choice. We can either succumb to it or use it as fuel to propel us forward. And it’s this choice that defines our resilience.

Let’s take the story of Nick Vujicic, for example. Nick was born without arms and legs, a condition known as tetra-Amelia syndrome. Growing up, he faced intense physical and emotional pain, as he struggled to fit in with his peers and navigate the challenges of everyday life.